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Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:22:52 PM EDT
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You guys are all making this too complicated.  I've avoided being cheated on by spending my whole life sculpting myself into an undateable asshole that women can't stand to be around.

Things are right on track.  Now where's my fedora?
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:27:52 PM EDT
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Men cheat too.


Seems to be pretty evenly divided between the sexes. But this is a forum full of men, so.. you'll hear about one side more than the other.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:30:03 PM EDT
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Over the last two weeks, I've brought home two women from the bars who had boyfriends.

Women are sluts.


Oh the irony.


Right?
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:30:50 PM EDT
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Those were the worst girls that I've met. It was used as a crutch to act like a thirsty whore.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:39:57 PM EDT
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:47:16 PM EDT
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The thread title refers to people who cheat on both wives or husbands.  So I've always considered it an equal opportunity topic, though it's been a while since I followed it.

I've known a handful of such cheaters and fortunately I don't have to interact with many of them.  The one cheater I know that I interact with is a co-worker, and I keep my interactions with him to a professional minimum.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:47:57 PM EDT
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Boardroom Woman: Whores running around, doing their little behind-shake for the men folk...
Richard Hayden: I kinda like her idea.
Boardroom Man: For Christ's sake. Once during the war I visited a prostitute, and my life has been a living hell ever since.

tommy boy movie
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:48:26 PM EDT
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The thread title refers to people who cheat on both wives or husbands.  So I've always considered it an equal opportunity topic, though it's been a while since I followed it.

I've known a handful of such cheaters and fortunately I don't have to interact with many of them.  The one cheater I know that I interact with is a co-worker, and I keep my interactions with him to a professional minimum.
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Men cheat too.


Seems to be pretty evenly divided between the sexes. But this is a forum full of men, so.. you'll hear about one side more than the other.


The thread title refers to people who cheat on both wives or husbands.  So I've always considered it an equal opportunity topic, though it's been a while since I followed it.

I've known a handful of such cheaters and fortunately I don't have to interact with many of them.  The one cheater I know that I interact with is a co-worker, and I keep my interactions with him to a professional minimum.


A friend of mine recently came very, very close to cheating on her husband.

I'm glad she didn't. I wouldn't be talking to her if she had.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:50:09 PM EDT
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A friend of mine recently came very, very close to cheating on her husband.

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Why did she even come close, and what stopped her from going through with it?
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:50:38 PM EDT
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I don't cheat on my wife and I hope she wouldn't do it to me. Someone who cheats on their wife or husband cannot be trusted.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 2:54:31 PM EDT
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Why did she even come close, and what stopped her from going through with it?
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A friend of mine recently came very, very close to cheating on her husband.

I'm glad she didn't. I wouldn't be talking to her if she had.


Why did she even come close, and what stopped her from going through with it?


She went through I guess what you could call a mid-life crisis. Went to the gym, got in shape, developed 'feelings' for a POS druggie barrista at Dunkin Donuts.


through it all her husband was patient and did everything he could to keep her. I made it clear I thought it was a terrible idea and distanced myself.  She eventually gave up on the idea of a divorce, stopped talking to the POS, and settled back down with her husband. I guess she thought better of it.

Her husband is a good man, but he's a very dry, kind of humorless sort of dude. I think a big part of it was she wanted something new and shiny and exciting, and was tired of the same-old and dependable.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 3:14:04 PM EDT
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She went through I guess what you could call a mid-life crisis. Went to the gym, got in shape, developed 'feelings' for a POS druggie barrista at Dunkin Donuts.


through it all her husband was patient and did everything he could to keep her. I made it clear I thought it was a terrible idea and distanced myself.  She eventually gave up on the idea of a divorce, stopped talking to the POS, and settled back down with her husband. I guess she thought better of it.

Her husband is a good man, but he's a very dry, kind of humorless sort of dude. I think a big part of it was she wanted something new and shiny and exciting, and was tired of the same-old and dependable.
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A friend of mine recently came very, very close to cheating on her husband.

I'm glad she didn't. I wouldn't be talking to her if she had.


Why did she even come close, and what stopped her from going through with it?


She went through I guess what you could call a mid-life crisis. Went to the gym, got in shape, developed 'feelings' for a POS druggie barrista at Dunkin Donuts.


through it all her husband was patient and did everything he could to keep her. I made it clear I thought it was a terrible idea and distanced myself.  She eventually gave up on the idea of a divorce, stopped talking to the POS, and settled back down with her husband. I guess she thought better of it.

Her husband is a good man, but he's a very dry, kind of humorless sort of dude. I think a big part of it was she wanted something new and shiny and exciting, and was tired of the same-old and dependable.



I'm very glad that she came to her senses.  I have to wonder, though, that she was tired of the same-old when she apparently saw him as lovable enough to marry.  I suspect that one or both of them neglected courtship.

Then again, as you said it could have simply been a mid-life crisis thing and she fortunately came to her senses in time.  I just hope that she didn't do any permanent damage to the relationship.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 3:18:21 PM EDT
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I'm very glad that she came to her senses.  I have to wonder, though, that she was tired of the same-old when she apparently saw him as lovable enough to marry.  I suspect that one or both of them neglected courtship.

Then again, as you said it could have simply been a mid-life crisis thing and she fortunately came to her senses in time.  I just hope that she didn't do any permanent damage to the relationship.
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At the time, we were talking and she was telling me marrying him was a mistake and that she didn't think she loved him, and I said, "Well, at some point in your life, there were enough things about him that you loved that you married him. Find those things again."


He doesn't see divorce as an option. He was a child of parents who had a rough divorce, and will do just about anything to avoid putting his daughter through that. Can't blame him.

Of the two, he's definitely the strong one in the relationship.

He's been working hard to be a better husband to her. They spend more time together, and he's lost about 30 lbs. She made the initial moves to eject, but they had both grown complacent in their marriage.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:00:08 PM EDT
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.
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Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".
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Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:12:24 PM EDT
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At the time, we were talking and she was telling me marrying him was a mistake and that she didn't think she loved him, and I said, "Well, at some point in your life, there were enough things about him that you loved that you married him. Find those things again."


He doesn't see divorce as an option. He was a child of parents who had a rough divorce, and will do just about anything to avoid putting his daughter through that. Can't blame him.

Of the two, he's definitely the strong one in the relationship.

He's been working hard to be a better husband to her. They spend more time together, and he's lost about 30 lbs. She made the initial moves to eject, but they had both grown complacent in their marriage.
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I'm very glad that she came to her senses.  I have to wonder, though, that she was tired of the same-old when she apparently saw him as lovable enough to marry.  I suspect that one or both of them neglected courtship.

Then again, as you said it could have simply been a mid-life crisis thing and she fortunately came to her senses in time.  I just hope that she didn't do any permanent damage to the relationship.


At the time, we were talking and she was telling me marrying him was a mistake and that she didn't think she loved him, and I said, "Well, at some point in your life, there were enough things about him that you loved that you married him. Find those things again."


He doesn't see divorce as an option. He was a child of parents who had a rough divorce, and will do just about anything to avoid putting his daughter through that. Can't blame him.

Of the two, he's definitely the strong one in the relationship.

He's been working hard to be a better husband to her. They spend more time together, and he's lost about 30 lbs. She made the initial moves to eject, but they had both grown complacent in their marriage.


After some recent threads, it's good to hear of a devoted husband making an effort and hear of a struggling marriage improving.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:28:06 PM EDT
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I have a neighbor that invites me to church with him after talking about banging lots of different women on the road for his job.
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My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  

Mine either.  It's dragged me, screaming and kicking, across a room on a few occasions, but it's always been very purposeful in its movements, never wandering desultorily.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:37:17 PM EDT
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Yikes!
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:38:42 PM EDT
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Reward!

Lost Vagina

Furry, prone to wander.

Responds to "Kitty"

Call 202-456-1111

Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:40:48 PM EDT
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I assume at home sleeping...
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What are you constituting as "cheating"?




Married women going home with some of my co-workers.



Yeah this stuff happens

Where were their husbands?


I assume at home sleeping...


...because she was somebody else's problem that night.    
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:45:03 PM EDT
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Lost Vagina

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Call 202-456-1111

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Darn it!  Seeing that phrase brings the song "Come thou Fount of Every Blessing" to my mind.  So now I have a parody "lost vagina" poster associated with a gospel hymn stuck in my head.
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 4:51:54 PM EDT
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Hi patrick.
Sorry for being a little obtuse here but I don't get what you are saying.  I don't know if I believe those statements or not because I have no idea what you are getting. At.
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There is holy sexuality
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Would you care to expand those statements, please?


Don't really need to.  A person either believes those statements or rejects them.

But the statements stand.

A little help.  There is a fireplace where the fire can burn HOT and WILD but only in the fireplace.  Fire outside the fireplace is not good nor wise.  Thankfully God is for us and not against us.

Patrick


Hi patrick.
Sorry for being a little obtuse here but I don't get what you are saying.  I don't know if I believe those statements or not because I have no idea what you are getting. At.


I think what he is saying is sex within the confines of marriage is a good thing, and practiced according to God's plan.

Sex outside of marriage is not holy, and hence not wise or healthy.

I would agree with him.
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people THIS is how you properly skirt the COC....

that my dear is a work of art!
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



people THIS is how you properly skirt the COC....

that my dear is a work of art!


Yes, yes it is.
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It wouldn't be that 5Solas76 guy, would it?
Link Posted: 9/30/2014 5:06:12 PM EDT
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Mine either.  It's dragged me, screaming and kicking, across a room on a few occasions, but it's always been very purposeful in its movements, never wandering desultorily.
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  

Mine either.  It's dragged me, screaming and kicking, across a room on a few occasions, but it's always been very purposeful in its movements, never wandering desultorily.






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people THIS is how you properly skirt the COC....

that my dear is a work of art!
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



people THIS is how you properly skirt the COC....

that my dear is a work of art!

Thank you.  You're very kind.  Truthfully, I wasn't even all that serious, I was mostly just being a smartass.
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You're surprised by bad behavior from human beings, snort, lol.

A whole generation or two of special little cupcakes raised by socialist that have never been told no or had negative consequences???¿?

Oh wait, are you one of them????


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Not sure if this actually says more about relationships or more about the company you choose to keep.


From many different walks of life... hence, why I'm so surprised. Professional people.



You're surprised by bad behavior from human beings, snort, lol.

A whole generation or two of special little cupcakes raised by socialist that have never been told no or had negative consequences???¿?

Oh wait, are you one of them????


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You imply cheating is new, no where close to the truth. I'd say more like the last 2,000 generations.
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You imply cheating is new, no where close to the truth. I'd say more like the last 2,000 generations.
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Not sure if this actually says more about relationships or more about the company you choose to keep.


From many different walks of life... hence, why I'm so surprised. Professional people.



You're surprised by bad behavior from human beings, snort, lol.

A whole generation or two of special little cupcakes raised by socialist that have never been told no or had negative consequences???¿?

Oh wait, are you one of them????


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You imply cheating is new, no where close to the truth. I'd say more like the last 2,000 generations.


Modern social media does seem to have facilitated it.  Not saying that social media causes it, but it certainly is easier to find someone to hook up with for a fling today than it was in 1990.
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Modern social media does seem to have facilitated it.  Not saying that social media causes it, but it certainly is easier to find someone to hook up with for a fling today than it was in 1990.
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Not sure if this actually says more about relationships or more about the company you choose to keep.


From many different walks of life... hence, why I'm so surprised. Professional people.



You're surprised by bad behavior from human beings, snort, lol.

A whole generation or two of special little cupcakes raised by socialist that have never been told no or had negative consequences???¿?

Oh wait, are you one of them????


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You imply cheating is new, no where close to the truth. I'd say more like the last 2,000 generations.




Modern social media does seem to have facilitated it.  Not saying that social media causes it, but it certainly is easier to find someone to hook up with for a fling today than it was in 1990.


Technology has made it easier to get caught


In 1994 it was a lot easier to have a mistress in a city you travel to for business regularly, or just go find a frisky woman at the bar or gym for a no strings attached romp.

Now you have an electronic tether
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Technology has made it easier to get caught


In 1994 it was a lot easier to have a mistress in a city you travel to for business regularly, or just go find a frisky woman at the bar or gym for a no strings attached romp.

Now you have an electronic tether
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Modern social media does seem to have facilitated it.  Not saying that social media causes it, but it certainly is easier to find someone to hook up with for a fling today than it was in 1990.


Technology has made it easier to get caught


In 1994 it was a lot easier to have a mistress in a city you travel to for business regularly, or just go find a frisky woman at the bar or gym for a no strings attached romp.

Now you have an electronic tether


Never considered that angle.
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You imply cheating is new, no where close to the truth. I'd say more like the last 2,000 generations.


Modern social media does seem to have facilitated it. Not saying that social media causes it, but it certainly is easier to find someone to hook up with for a fling today than it was in 1990.




Technology has made it easier to get caught





In 1994 it was a lot easier to have a mistress in a city you travel to for business regularly, or just go find a frisky woman at the bar or gym for a no strings attached romp.



Now you have an electronic tether



I KNEW there was a reason I hated technology!

Oh wait, I do it for a living...carry on!



Nick
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My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  
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You all have seen or heard the words:

Vagrant

Vagabound

Vagus nerve

Right?

Supposedly, the "vag" means "to wander".

The "vag" part in "vagina" supposedly doesn't come from the same base word "vag", though.

Vagari is Latin for "wander".   Vagina is Latin for "sheath".  Much as I'm sure it pains you, the two words are unrelated, much like the preposition "as" is unrelated to the noun "asshole".



My vagina never wanders anywhere.  It's always in the last place that I put it.   That would suck ass if I had to chase it down all the time.  



No shit, how do you think we feel, chasing vagina is a lot of work!
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It's probably because I work with mostly women, but my experience is that women cheat a lot and they're good at justifying it.  

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She went through I guess what you could call a mid-life crisis. Went to the gym, got in shape, developed 'feelings' for a POS druggie barrista at Dunkin Donuts.


through it all her husband was patient and did everything he could to keep her. I made it clear I thought it was a terrible idea and distanced myself.  She eventually gave up on the idea of a divorce, stopped talking to the POS, and settled back down with her husband. I guess she thought better of it.

Her husband is a good man, but he's a very dry, kind of humorless sort of dude. I think a big part of it was she wanted something new and shiny and exciting, and was tired of the same-old and dependable.
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A friend of mine recently came very, very close to cheating on her husband.

I'm glad she didn't. I wouldn't be talking to her if she had.


Why did she even come close, and what stopped her from going through with it?


She went through I guess what you could call a mid-life crisis. Went to the gym, got in shape, developed 'feelings' for a POS druggie barrista at Dunkin Donuts.


through it all her husband was patient and did everything he could to keep her. I made it clear I thought it was a terrible idea and distanced myself.  She eventually gave up on the idea of a divorce, stopped talking to the POS, and settled back down with her husband. I guess she thought better of it.

Her husband is a good man, but he's a very dry, kind of humorless sort of dude. I think a big part of it was she wanted something new and shiny and exciting, and was tired of the same-old and dependable.


Sorry XCR but she was banging the other guy, she just didn't admit it.
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Until this job, I worked in male-dominated industries.

I could say exactly the same.
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No, she wasn't.
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Until this job, I worked in male-dominated industries.

I could say exactly the same.


So the common denominator is that cheaters justify it.

Over the past two decades, pretty much all the workplace cheating I've learned about involved men and women from the same office cheating with each other (three men and three women), so I never got the impression that it was limited to any particular gender.
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So the common denominator is that cheaters justify it.

Over the past two decades, pretty much all the workplace cheating I've learned about involved men and women from the same office cheating with each other (three men and three women), so I never got the impression that it was limited to any particular gender.
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Until this job, I worked in male-dominated industries.

I could say exactly the same.


So the common denominator is that cheaters justify it.

Over the past two decades, pretty much all the workplace cheating I've learned about involved men and women from the same office cheating with each other (three men and three women), so I never got the impression that it was limited to any particular gender.


I'll be honest, when someone's spouse refuses them sex (and I have known men to do this just like women), there's a degree of sympathy there. A huge part of a relationship is touch, and physical contact,and sex. And when the person you are bound to shuts down on you and won't budge, I do kind of understand, sometimes, when people branch out and try to find that connection with someone.

But at the end of the day, whatever the 'reason',  you have to look at yourself in the mirror. If you can live with being a cheater, well, I guess good for you. I couldn't. You can't be responsible for everyone else's morality, but you can be for yours.

"If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to someone else."
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When it comes to the mating game, too many men are playing checkers, but all women are playing chess. If you had the power to do whatever you wanted while emotionally manipulating your partner into guilt and silence, wouldn't you find the prospect tempting? The problem is, too many women nowadays lack the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check, and so habitually abuse the powers with which they have been endowed over men, all while laughing them to scorn behind their backs.
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When it comes to the mating game, too many men are playing checkers, but all women are playing chess. If you had the power to do whatever you wanted while emotionally manipulating your partner into guilt and silence, wouldn't you find the prospect tempting? The problem is, too many women nowadays lack the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check, and so habitually abuse the powers with which they have been endowed over men, all while laughing them to scorn behind their backs.
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Show us on the doll where the bad woman touched you.



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Go start a thread about how much tail you've got, and after the ensuing 9-25 pages of braggarting from all those claiming to have fucked women into the hundreds, talk to me about 'women nowadays lacking the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check.'
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I'll be honest, when someone's spouse refuses them sex (and I have known men to do this just like women), there's a degree of sympathy there. A huge part of a relationship is touch, and physical contact,and sex. And when the person you are bound to shuts down on you and won't budge, I do kind of understand, sometimes, when people branch out and try to find that connection with someone.

But at the end of the day, whatever the 'reason',  you have to look at yourself in the mirror. If you can live with being a cheater, well, I guess good for you. I couldn't. You can't be responsible for everyone else's morality, but you can be for yours.

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Until this job, I worked in male-dominated industries.

I could say exactly the same.


So the common denominator is that cheaters justify it.

Over the past two decades, pretty much all the workplace cheating I've learned about involved men and women from the same office cheating with each other (three men and three women), so I never got the impression that it was limited to any particular gender.


I'll be honest, when someone's spouse refuses them sex (and I have known men to do this just like women), there's a degree of sympathy there. A huge part of a relationship is touch, and physical contact,and sex. And when the person you are bound to shuts down on you and won't budge, I do kind of understand, sometimes, when people branch out and try to find that connection with someone.

But at the end of the day, whatever the 'reason',  you have to look at yourself in the mirror. If you can live with being a cheater, well, I guess good for you. I couldn't. You can't be responsible for everyone else's morality, but you can be for yours.

"If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to someone else."


Oh I understand at my core the impact of being refused sex.  I admit, with shame, that in my desperation I sometimes looked to porn at home as a means of trying to somehow fill the void...but as you mention a huge part of a relationship is physical touch and porn can not substitute for that.  Nor can porn substitute for the very important emotional bond that is part of the physical intimacy.

So as you point out a person has to look in the mirror at the end of the day.  I could not have lived with myself if I'd touched another woman to satisfy my needs.
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Go start a thread about how much tail you've got, and after the ensuing 9-25 pages of braggarting from all those claiming to have fucked women into the hundreds, talk to me about 'women nowadays lacking the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check.'
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When it comes to the mating game, too many men are playing checkers, but all women are playing chess. If you had the power to do whatever you wanted while emotionally manipulating your partner into guilt and silence, wouldn't you find the prospect tempting? The problem is, too many women nowadays lack the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check, and so habitually abuse the powers with which they have been endowed over men, all while laughing them to scorn behind their backs.


Go start a thread about how much tail you've got, and after the ensuing 9-25 pages of braggarting from all those claiming to have fucked women into the hundreds, talk to me about 'women nowadays lacking the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check.'


Male claims can be safely divided by 3-10, female claims can be safely multiplied by the same factor. As if that matters.

The fact that too many (not all, nor necessarily most, but a significant number of) women nowadays are depraved fuck machines in no way gives rise to the corollary that males are not situated similarly or worse, or are in any way exonerated of their sins. Men have always been depraved wannabe fuck machines to a much greater extent than women, you can thank testosterone and God for that one. So don't imagine that I'm casting aspersions at just women. The fact remains, however, that when it comes to the fact of mating, the ability to reason both emotionally and analytically is significantly more intact in the female mind than it is in the male mind. So whether we like it or not the greater part of sexual discretion has always been the female moral burden to bear.
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The fact that too many women nowadays are depraved fuck machines in no way gives rise to the corollary that males are not situated similarly or worse, or are in any way exonerated of their sins. Men have always been depraved wannabe fuck machines to a much greater extent than women, you can thank testosterone and God for that one. So don't imagine that I'm casting aspersions at just women. The fact remains, however, that when it comes to the fact of mating, the ability to reason both emotionally and analytically is significantly more intact in the female mind than it is in the male mind. So whether we like it or not the greater part of sexual discretion has always been the female moral burden to bear.

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When it comes to the mating game, too many men are playing checkers, but all women are playing chess. If you had the power to do whatever you wanted while emotionally manipulating your partner into guilt and silence, wouldn't you find the prospect tempting? The problem is, too many women nowadays lack the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check, and so habitually abuse the powers with which they have been endowed over men, all while laughing them to scorn behind their backs.




Go start a thread about how much tail you've got, and after the ensuing 9-25 pages of braggarting from all those claiming to have fucked women into the hundreds, talk to me about 'women nowadays lacking the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check.'




Male claims can be safely divided by 3-10, female claims can be safely multiplied by the same factor. As if that matters.



The fact that too many women nowadays are depraved fuck machines in no way gives rise to the corollary that males are not situated similarly or worse, or are in any way exonerated of their sins. Men have always been depraved wannabe fuck machines to a much greater extent than women, you can thank testosterone and God for that one. So don't imagine that I'm casting aspersions at just women. The fact remains, however, that when it comes to the fact of mating, the ability to reason both emotionally and analytically is significantly more intact in the female mind than it is in the male mind. So whether we like it or not the greater part of sexual discretion has always been the female moral burden to bear.



Dude. Just. Stop.

It's commonly accepted that when you find yourself in a hole, you STOP DIGGING.

If you want to go on, however, just keep on with your bad self.



Nick
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The greater part of sexual discretion was generally on the female because she bore the greater part of the physical consequences.
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Male claims can be safely divided by 3-10, female claims can be safely multiplied by the same factor. As if that matters.

The fact that too many (not all, nor necessarily most, but a significant number of) women nowadays are depraved fuck machines in no way gives rise to the corollary that males are not situated similarly or worse, or are in any way exonerated of their sins. Men have always been depraved wannabe fuck machines to a much greater extent than women, you can thank testosterone and God for that one. So don't imagine that I'm casting aspersions at just women. The fact remains, however, that when it comes to the fact of mating, the ability to reason both emotionally and analytically is significantly more intact in the female mind than it is in the male mind. So whether we like it or not the greater part of sexual discretion has always been the female moral burden to bear.
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When it comes to the mating game, too many men are playing checkers, but all women are playing chess. If you had the power to do whatever you wanted while emotionally manipulating your partner into guilt and silence, wouldn't you find the prospect tempting? The problem is, too many women nowadays lack the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check, and so habitually abuse the powers with which they have been endowed over men, all while laughing them to scorn behind their backs.


Go start a thread about how much tail you've got, and after the ensuing 9-25 pages of braggarting from all those claiming to have fucked women into the hundreds, talk to me about 'women nowadays lacking the moral foundation to keep their impulses in check.'


Male claims can be safely divided by 3-10, female claims can be safely multiplied by the same factor. As if that matters.

The fact that too many (not all, nor necessarily most, but a significant number of) women nowadays are depraved fuck machines in no way gives rise to the corollary that males are not situated similarly or worse, or are in any way exonerated of their sins. Men have always been depraved wannabe fuck machines to a much greater extent than women, you can thank testosterone and God for that one. So don't imagine that I'm casting aspersions at just women. The fact remains, however, that when it comes to the fact of mating, the ability to reason both emotionally and analytically is significantly more intact in the female mind than it is in the male mind. So whether we like it or not the greater part of sexual discretion has always been the female moral burden to bear.


I'm not imagining anything. Your posts are bizarrely bitter, and I'm not the only one who noticed.
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Depraved fuck machine #44 checking in.
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