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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:39:42 PM EDT
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Payback? Fuck payback. Consult an attorney. Seriously. What is an attorney going to do? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:41:36 PM EDT
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There are several guilty parties here. The idiot himself is the major one. However, who are these bosses that know and respect you and haven't either brought this to your attention or worked to get this guy in line? How does he unilaterally ruin your relationship with an important mentor. Either your mentor was never terribly thrilled with you, he actually believes a bunch of wild tales from a new trouble maker, or there is more to this story and you've already done something that gives him pause.
Makes me wonder if he's spreading as much shit as you suspect. Are you a little paranoid and/or have a history of overreacting? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:45:31 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryHe doesn't drink beer, whiskey, or scotch. He drinks wine. He brings his wife bed in breakfast every day and cooks her dinner everyday even though he does put in a lot of hours at work. She keeps his balls. What? 
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:46:56 PM EDT
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If he is your director, then he isn't your colleague, he your boss. Why are you calling your boss out?
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:47:26 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Tetrahydrozoline poisoning can be serious shit, and is felony level charges if you do as you've suggested in two separate posts now.  Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Fuck all this noise Visine, always works and easy to palm. Don't be a beta. I had a room mate claim it would act like "knock out drops" or some bullshit. He went on and on about it. I got a brand new bottle of Visine and didn't put a few drops in my beer, I put a couple of squirts and drank the beer. Nothing happened, except we drank a bunch more beer and then I went to bed. I told this story here before and was called a liar because "I would be dead" Reading up on it, yes it can cause some problems but I didn't know that when I drank it.  Ignorance is bliss. I had no after effects. Well, I was hung over the next morning... |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:50:18 PM EDT
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I did this today a few minutes after they talked. I think I covered myself with the new boss. I laid out EVERYTHING about this pos to the new boss, so I may have the new boss back on my side. When I was listening to what this fuck was saying about me it made me depressed as fuck. It was a shitty feeling. Even though I think I covered myself with the boss, I am still down a few notches and now have to work extra hard to prove the douche bag was wrong about me. The boss we had before the interim liked me so much he offered me a job at his new place of employment. I only declined because it was out of state. Even if I have fixed it with my boss, I want payback. I tried really hard controlling my anger. Almost broke my left hand punching a bathroom stall a few times today. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. I did this today a few minutes after they talked. I think I covered myself with the new boss. I laid out EVERYTHING about this pos to the new boss, so I may have the new boss back on my side. When I was listening to what this fuck was saying about me it made me depressed as fuck. It was a shitty feeling. Even though I think I covered myself with the boss, I am still down a few notches and now have to work extra hard to prove the douche bag was wrong about me. The boss we had before the interim liked me so much he offered me a job at his new place of employment. I only declined because it was out of state. Even if I have fixed it with my boss, I want payback. I tried really hard controlling my anger. Almost broke my left hand punching a bathroom stall a few times today. dude, you have issues
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:53:15 PM EDT
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Just do a good job, OP. If you're not in a position to finish somebody off, wait until you are. No sense in escalating a fight you don't control all the variables for. Don't get me wrong, OP, I'm all about tossing enemies off the ramparts. You gotta be there first. Wise words here, OP. Sun Tzu says "Never do an enemy minor damage." |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:56:06 PM EDT
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Case his house and see him leave for work. Just as he comes out to get in his car, jump him, make him get down and force the barrel of a large pistol in his mouth. Softly tell him to suck on the barrel and run his tongue around the inside of the barrel.
He will never bother you again in his whole life. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 8:58:59 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I had a room mate claim it would act like "knock out drops" or some bullshit. He went on and on about it. I got a brand new bottle of Visine and didn't put a few drops in my beer, I put a couple of squirts and drank the beer. Nothing happened, except we drank a bunch more beer and then I went to bed. I told this story here before and was called a liar because "I would be dead" Reading up on it, yes it can cause some problems but I didn't know that when I drank it. Ignorance is bliss. I had no after effects. Well, I was hung over the next morning... Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Fuck all this noise Visine, always works and easy to palm. Don't be a beta. I had a room mate claim it would act like "knock out drops" or some bullshit. He went on and on about it. I got a brand new bottle of Visine and didn't put a few drops in my beer, I put a couple of squirts and drank the beer. Nothing happened, except we drank a bunch more beer and then I went to bed. I told this story here before and was called a liar because "I would be dead" Reading up on it, yes it can cause some problems but I didn't know that when I drank it. Ignorance is bliss. I had no after effects. Well, I was hung over the next morning... Perhaps large quantities of alcohol had something to do with it. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:03:41 PM EDT
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I would pay money to hear his side.
You say he takes things personally when he shouldnt but go on to trash his personal life and character traits. I'm not saying thats bad but dont act high and mighty then bring his family into it. If you want to get dirty then get dirty. Dont claim to be a professional. Make it hurt. Its like this gen x bitch boy stuff where you "accidentally" put it in your girlfriends ass. Be a man and tell her you want shit on your dick. Dont beat around the bush. What you really want to do is plant some meth on his person, then turn him in to get him fired. When he comes to your house that night to confront you, double tap him in the forehead through the front door, uncle joe biden style. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:06:42 PM EDT
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dude, you have issues
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. I did this today a few minutes after they talked. I think I covered myself with the new boss. I laid out EVERYTHING about this pos to the new boss, so I may have the new boss back on my side. When I was listening to what this fuck was saying about me it made me depressed as fuck. It was a shitty feeling. Even though I think I covered myself with the boss, I am still down a few notches and now have to work extra hard to prove the douche bag was wrong about me. The boss we had before the interim liked me so much he offered me a job at his new place of employment. I only declined because it was out of state. Even if I have fixed it with my boss, I want payback. I tried really hard controlling my anger. Almost broke my left hand punching a bathroom stall a few times today. dude, you have issues
Ha yep I missed that. How old are you op? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:09:10 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: It's still ill advised. It's not guaranteed to fuck someone up, but the potential is there. Perhaps large quantities of alcohol had something to do with it. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Fuck all this noise Visine, always works and easy to palm. Don't be a beta. I had a room mate claim it would act like "knock out drops" or some bullshit. He went on and on about it. I got a brand new bottle of Visine and didn't put a few drops in my beer, I put a couple of squirts and drank the beer. Nothing happened, except we drank a bunch more beer and then I went to bed. I told this story here before and was called a liar because "I would be dead" Reading up on it, yes it can cause some problems but I didn't know that when I drank it. Ignorance is bliss. I had no after effects. Well, I was hung over the next morning... Perhaps large quantities of alcohol had something to do with it. I was thinking that as I was typing up my response. I must have diluted it and flushed it out with all the beer. I think it was a Friday or Saturday night, so we were bound to be drinking heavily.  Yikes! That was 20 years ago. I'm getting old. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:10:17 PM EDT
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honest opinion..if the fuckstick ruined your relationship with your professional mentor that quick with no proof..either your mentor is a shitbag, or you are not as great as you think..sorry ..just an outside opinion based upon 1 post , so... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I've been at this company for about 2 years now. I get along with everyone and do a good job. Our director recently quit. In comes new interim director. He's an extremely passive aggressive construction project engineer. I work safety. I call him out on a few unsafe things, very professionally, and he takes it extremely personally. Guy is a libtard that does not wear the pants in his family. His wife probably benches more than him and has resting bitch face. Now he's spreading rumors through the company about me, making it very personal - calling me a narcissist to others, etc.. He has ruined my relationship with my professional mentor, a VP at the company. We got the new director today. Interim bitch proceeds to tell him all these made up things about me and personally attacks me on the guys first day. This was behind closed doors. He smiles at me in the hallway, shakes my hand and pretends everything is okay but behind the door he's a pussy bitch backstabbing passive aggressive piece of shit. Need some clever payback ideas. I don't want to go to jail or be fired so I may need to resort to guerrilla under-the-radar tactics like this fuck stick. honest opinion..if the fuckstick ruined your relationship with your professional mentor that quick with no proof..either your mentor is a shitbag, or you are not as great as you think..sorry ..just an outside opinion based upon 1 post , so... This, very much this |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:11:54 PM EDT
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Sounds like a weasel. I can think of one at my work too.
In fact, the one at my work was got so bad that me and another colleague had a sit down with our boss and laid it on the line for him, and also requested the weasel be moved to a different department. He was, and is mostly out of our hair thankfully. He still tries to extend himself beyond his boundaries every now and again. I'm thinking he'll piss off enough people eventually that he'll be gone in due course. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:12:47 PM EDT
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Case his house and see him leave for work. Just as he comes out to get in his car, jump him, make him get down and force the barrel of a large pistol in his mouth. Softly tell him to suck on the barrel and run his tongue around the inside of the barrel. He will never bother you again in his whole life. He might not but the felony conviction will. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:15:15 PM EDT
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Be nice, do your job, be professional, be ontime, be a team player....
Or do what you know you need to do and don't flap your cock holster about it. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:17:35 PM EDT
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You remind me of a co-worker i use to have. Always talked about how management was trying to get him. They moved him from one group to another and their was always a problem with his manager, never himself. He would go to HR, they would move him again. Rinse and repeat. He had a notebook of all the "wrongs" that were committed against him. Guy is no longer with the company
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:20:25 PM EDT
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One minute you claim you work construction...
Then you state your an office employee. And safety too. I'm confused? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:40:47 PM EDT
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Impart the wisdom of Raylan Givens.
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:41:53 PM EDT
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Maybe just do your job well and let that do all of the talking. On the other hand, if you are the type to need payback because someone says something about you, I am guessing that there is also more to the story than you are telling. Just a guess. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I've been at this company for about 2 years now. I get along with everyone and do a good job. Our director recently quit. In comes new interim director. He's an extremely passive aggressive construction project engineer. I work safety. I call him out on a few unsafe things, very professionally, and he takes it extremely personally. Guy is a libtard that does not wear the pants in his family. His wife probably benches more than him and has resting bitch face. Now he's spreading rumors through the company about me, making it very personal - calling me a narcissist to others, etc.. He has ruined my relationship with my professional mentor, a VP at the company. We got the new director today. Interim bitch proceeds to tell him all these made up things about me and personally attacks me on the guys first day. This was behind closed doors. He smiles at me in the hallway, shakes my hand and pretends everything is okay but behind the door he's a pussy bitch backstabbing passive aggressive piece of shit. Need some clever payback ideas. I don't want to go to jail or be fired so I may need to resort to guerrilla under-the-radar tactics like this fuck stick. On the other hand, if you are the type to need payback because someone says something about you, I am guessing that there is also more to the story than you are telling. Just a guess. Just not a fan of defamation. Not sure if anyone is. They way he does it would make 99% of the people here want to punch him in the face. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:42:16 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: What is an attorney going to do? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Payback? Fuck payback. Consult an attorney. Seriously. What is an attorney going to do? Nothing. Never, ever sue an employer unless it's a jackpot that will make you never need a job again for life. Court records are public records. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:42:55 PM EDT
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I'd say that if you think something is wrong to be done to you, you probably are in the wrong doing it to someone else. Also, if you must do this, do it from a public library or something. Keep your IP addresses off of it  Quote HistoryQuoted:
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DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT...get your colleagues to make statements about his behavior. Find out his work email address and from a third party computer register him at gay porn sites, use his cell and email to place ads for brony gay sex on craigslist and other sites. Pay a gay male stripper to come to work and make a scene as in lovers spat with him... This is fucking epic.  I'd say that if you think something is wrong to be done to you, you probably are in the wrong doing it to someone else. Also, if you must do this, do it from a public library or something. Keep your IP addresses off of it Tor browser? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:46:22 PM EDT
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Be nice, do your job, be professional, be ontime, be a team player.... Or do what you know you need to do and don't flap your cock holster about it. What he said. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:46:32 PM EDT
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The OP can't do that,because he's also passive/aggressive. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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confront him in the hallway and tell him hes a fucking pussy. then tell him that you guys can take it to the garage if he wants to keep talking shit. That always works in corporate environments. The OP can't do that,because he's also passive/aggressive. Actually I've confronted him several times. During a job eval I said "do you have a personal problem with me?!" He got very flustered. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:47:33 PM EDT
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One minute you claim you work construction... Then you state your an office employee. And safety too. I'm confused? All my safety guys started in the trades and moved over to safety later. Would you want to be hanging iron in the summer on the Gulf coast in your early sixties? |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:47:36 PM EDT
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While it's just you and him bait him into confessing what he is doing, make him show his true form, hide a digital recorder in your pocket. Go to VP or senior management and show them the POS that he is. ETA - Sometimes to root out a weasel you have to think like a weasel. As a man I'd want to beat the crap out of him but that's frowned upon in the corporate world. You need to catch him in how own words showing his true colors. He can't weasel out of that. Recording is illegal in many states. If it wasn't, I'd have not been demoted, and two other people would have been fired for dishonesty |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:48:23 PM EDT
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Throw him off the fucking roof. Or down the elevator shaft. Or just flat out light that motherfucker on fire. That's what any sane person would do in your situation and what I did at my last three jobs.
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:50:28 PM EDT
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Just do a good job, OP. If you're not in a position to finish somebody off, wait until you are. No sense in escalating a fight you don't control all the variables for. Don't get me wrong, OP, I'm all about tossing enemies off the ramparts. You gotta be there first. +1 Perfect advice. Keep your nose to the grindstone. Playing games will back-fire and give them a reason to can you. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 9:50:29 PM EDT
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I'd go to HR and lodge a complaint immediately. I did that once when my boss tried to sabotage me by eliminating some work. HR mentioned it to my boss and he backed off from the sabotage.
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:05:34 PM EDT
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I did this today a few minutes after they talked. I think I covered myself with the new boss. I laid out EVERYTHING about this pos to the new boss, so I may have the new boss back on my side. When I was listening to what this fuck was saying about me it made me depressed as fuck. It was a shitty feeling. Even though I think I covered myself with the boss, I am still down a few notches and now have to work extra hard to prove the douche bag was wrong about me. The boss we had before the interim liked me so much he offered me a job at his new place of employment. I only declined because it was out of state. Even if I have fixed it with my boss, I want payback. I tried really hard controlling my anger. Almost broke my left hand punching a bathroom stall a few times today. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. I did this today a few minutes after they talked. I think I covered myself with the new boss. I laid out EVERYTHING about this pos to the new boss, so I may have the new boss back on my side. When I was listening to what this fuck was saying about me it made me depressed as fuck. It was a shitty feeling. Even though I think I covered myself with the boss, I am still down a few notches and now have to work extra hard to prove the douche bag was wrong about me. The boss we had before the interim liked me so much he offered me a job at his new place of employment. I only declined because it was out of state. Even if I have fixed it with my boss, I want payback. I tried really hard controlling my anger. Almost broke my left hand punching a bathroom stall a few times today. well honestly best pay back is to take the job with your old boss and than do what you have to at your current place. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:11:32 PM EDT
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Nothing. Never, ever sue an employer unless it's a jackpot that will make you never need a job again for life. Court records are public records. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Payback? Fuck payback. Consult an attorney. Seriously. What is an attorney going to do? Nothing. Never, ever sue an employer unless it's a jackpot that will make you never need a job again for life. Court records are public records. Why would he sue the employer? The employer isn't the one slandering him. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:15:22 PM EDT
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worked construction for about a decade, most problems were settled either by a field check or settling the problems with fists. That's not how it works nowadays. People who want to throw fists get thrown of projects. I work in construction management as a superintendent. You said you're a safety guy, right? You want to get his attention? Shut his job down for safety violations. He'll piss and moan about his CPM schedule and meeting deadlines. But you know who the worst person to piss off on a construction site is? The safety man. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:17:12 PM EDT
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Find out as much personal info about his wife as you can.Repeatedly send anonymous notes or emails to her about him having an affair. Run craigslist ad with his name ang cell# .Have flowers sent to him at the office with fake love cards. Plant the seeds of suspicion in his work life and personal life. And then you get some of these http://www.crabrevenge.com
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:19:34 PM EDT
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Actually I've confronted him several times. During a job eval I said "do you have a personal problem with me?!" He got very flustered. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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confront him in the hallway and tell him hes a fucking pussy. then tell him that you guys can take it to the garage if he wants to keep talking shit. That always works in corporate environments. The OP can't do that,because he's also passive/aggressive. Actually I've confronted him several times. During a job eval I said "do you have a personal problem with me?!" He got very flustered. Ahh so you already showed your hand. That explains some of his actions |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:23:45 PM EDT
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Nothing. Never, ever sue an employer unless it's a jackpot that will make you never need a job again for life. Court records are public records. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Payback? Fuck payback. Consult an attorney. Seriously. What is an attorney going to do? Nothing. Never, ever sue an employer unless it's a jackpot that will make you never need a job again for life. Court records are public records. I wouldn't say that is the case all the time. You are correct most of the time though. We hired a lady that sued her employer for wrongful termination after she refused to go along with fraudulent transactions. It ended up being one of the largest accounting frauds in history. She didn't get a lot from the lawsuit but I would say she actually increased her value by doing that. But in OP's case - I wouldn't recommend suing. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:24:50 PM EDT
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OP, your nemesis is not merely passive aggressive, he's a sociopath. He's doing it to others as well. Get allies, work together. Catch him in lies publicly, and/or with the boss. It won't be enough to just steer clear, because sociopath will always be tearing you down. Once they find somebody they have advantage over, they don't stop 'til they're made to stop. Polish your resume. Ingratiate yourself with your boss, confide in him if you can, with support if need be. Get allies, work together.
Fuck sociopaths. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:25:06 PM EDT
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Next time one of his jobs has a work violation document, give it a doy or so for him to correct if he has not...call OSHA and report him. this....but do it annonomously(sp)..LOL punch him where it hurts....and that's his job. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:27:29 PM EDT
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. Leave the guerilla tactics to the movies, in real life they always backfire. Fuck no...NEVER NEVER EVER give someone warning ....they'll find a way to get you first especially if he's above you in the org. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:31:56 PM EDT
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Try to make nice with him. One day offer him some coffee laced with cocaine. Voice your worries to management about his drug problem.
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:34:38 PM EDT
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Piss on him to establish dominance. I can't think of a better way. |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:34:39 PM EDT
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OP, your nemesis is not merely passive aggressive, he's a sociopath. He's doing it to others as well. Get allies, work together. Catch him in lies publicly, and/or with the boss. It won't be enough to just steer clear, because sociopath will always be tearing you down. Once they find somebody they have advantage over, they don't stop 'til they're made to stop. Polish your resume. Ingratiate yourself with your boss, confide in him if you can, with support if need be. Get allies, work together. Fuck sociopaths. You know this about the guy how? You are quite the psychologist being able to label something a sociopath without ever meeting them or taking to them . In fact you are so good, you are able to label them one just based on a one sided story of someone who based on their own posts, doesn't exactly come across as stable |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:42:29 PM EDT
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. Leave the guerilla tactics to the movies, in real life they always backfire. THIS! That's the very best advice you'll get from anyone |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:43:36 PM EDT
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Have consensual sex with every adult female he's related to. And this is the second best advise 
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:50:01 PM EDT
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"Safety"
Safety and HR. After the whole fucking place shuts down the Safety man and HR are standing in the parking lot asking each other "What happened?" |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 10:52:26 PM EDT
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In all seriousness it sounds like you need to have a closed door session of your own with the new head honcho. Be sure to mention you're on the verge of filing a harassment/hostile work environment claim with your HR department. You need to tackle this head on and you need to do it SOON. Leave the guerilla tactics to the movies, in real life they always backfire. YUP |
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Posted: 6/29/2016 11:42:28 PM EDT
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This is very hard to follow. You somehow know these things. He said these things to people, and they told you? HR should then hold each party accountable.
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Posted: 6/30/2016 5:49:17 AM EDT
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If he is your director, then he isn't your colleague, he your boss. Why are you calling your boss out? We are both managers. He got put in as interim director. 2 different job fields. Same dept. he's no longer the interim. |
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Posted: 6/30/2016 5:59:26 AM EDT
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The OP can't do that,because he's also passive/aggressive. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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confront him in the hallway and tell him hes a fucking pussy. then tell him that you guys can take it to the garage if he wants to keep talking shit. That always works in corporate environments. The OP can't do that,because he's also passive/aggressive. I make a little short of 6 figures. Masters degree and 7 years experience. As much as I want to beat the shit out of him I need to keep the job to take care of the family. If I had nothing to lose, except my job, I probably would have gone overboard. I'm a big/tall muscular dude. I've been in jail before for public intoxication and fighting. Fighting got dropped. This was maybe 10 years ago. |
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Posted: 6/30/2016 6:01:42 AM EDT
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And the powers that be already said who they trust when they made the other guy interim boss. OP said he does good work, that is not for him to determine. That is left to our bosses, and again the other guy was made his boss and has an opinion that he passed on to the new boss. OP also sounds rather angry and looking forrevenge. Not a good recipe for keeping a job. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Start pumping resumes. Someone has to leave--you or him. And the powers that be already said who they trust when they made the other guy interim boss. OP said he does good work, that is not for him to determine. That is left to our bosses, and again the other guy was made his boss and has an opinion that he passed on to the new boss. OP also sounds rather angry and looking forrevenge. Not a good recipe for keeping a job. I am angry. I hate him. He smiles and acts cool in public but backstabs you behind closed doors. At least tell me to my face if you have a problem like I have said several times on here that I've done to him. He's real tough in email but face to face he cowers. |
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Posted: 6/30/2016 6:03:44 AM EDT
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If old boss that loved you is still in a good relationship with your company, ask him to vouch for you with the new boss. Yeah I did that. I think I'm ok with new boss now. Not 100% sure. Just don't know who else he's talking to to sabotage me. |
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