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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:41:35 PM EDT
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Shit, when I was a kid, my "timeout" was the time I spent unconscious after getting my ass kicked.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:41:55 PM EDT
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Pretty soon explaining the problem will hurt their precious developmental skills as they will take it as not being able to reason on their own. Amazing the imbeciles running around and spouting off this crap.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:42:43 PM EDT
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"Social isolation and rejection are experienced as shame," Lamia says. Yeah, I thought that was the fuckin' point. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:44:03 PM EDT
[#4]
How about a timeout AND explaining to them what they did was wrong.
I fucking hate psychology. 
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:46:15 PM EDT
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I wonder how fucked up her kids are, if she has any.
Somewhere between "football bat" and "soup sandwich", I reckon. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:46:51 PM EDT
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Mary evidently didn't know my mama; she'd explain what you did wrong as she was beating your ass
Timeouts would have been very welcome. Miss you mama. 
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:47:25 PM EDT
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"Experts"
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:48:09 PM EDT
[#8]
Obviously teaching by example isn't happening either.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:48:19 PM EDT
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How about a timeout AND explaining to them what they did was wrong. I fucking hate psychology. My parents must have been into all-inclusive punishments. I'd get beat, time-outs, stuff taken away, and then lectured on why the thing I did was wrong! |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:48:45 PM EDT
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This is how mass shooters are made- like Adam Lanza.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:50:02 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I wonder how fucked up her kids are, if she has any. Somewhere between "football bat" and "soup sandwich", I reckon. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:50:59 PM EDT
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My parents must have been into all-inclusive punishments. I'd get beat, time-outs, stuff taken away, and then lectured on why the thing I did was wrong! Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How about a timeout AND explaining to them what they did was wrong. I fucking hate psychology. My parents must have been into all-inclusive punishments. I'd get beat, time-outs, stuff taken away, and then lectured on why the thing I did was wrong! 
So were mine. That must be why I am such a poorly adjusted human being. 
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:51:51 PM EDT
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"But, then again, I don't have children."
Then STFU. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:52:05 PM EDT
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Don't complain too much - having worked in a 'mental health' hospital (acute care and lower levels of 'care') I have to say the new paradigm is for most social workers/psychologists is: 'the reason little Johnny or little Mary is the way he/she is, they never experience love'. We just need to love them back to good mental health. The level of stupid and ignorance for me was staggering. Thankfully - no, gracefully I am now retired - my stress level at work (past) could only at the time be dulled with ETOH (sometimes)
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:52:30 PM EDT
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"Experts"
Yeah. Question: How many child rearing experts... A.) Have children and, B.) If they have children, how many have kids that aren't totally fucked up? Bet the numbers are really small. We've raised enough snowflakes with closets full of participation trophies to know that academia and psychology knows NOT ONE FUCKING THING ABOUT RAISING KIDS. TC |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:54:06 PM EDT
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And here all of these supposedly educated people wonder what went wrong with the world? why are these kids turning into useless adults? Its because you didn't beat their ass when they deserved it.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:54:23 PM EDT
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Shit, when I was a kid, my "timeout" was the time I spent unconscious after getting my ass kicked. I'm sorry. But I laughed. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:57:30 PM EDT
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LOL, I use time outs AND spanking.
TOGETHER. I find the synergistic effect works even better than either one by itself. My kids would be scarred for life according to the lib cunt. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:57:33 PM EDT
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I rarely ever see out of control kids out in public being punished anymore
Seems most parents treat their little snowflake like a friend. I love when I see the kids talking down to the parents and they don't even do anything |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:57:37 PM EDT
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This shit, this shit right fucking here, is exactly why adults need fucking safe spaces and western civilization is on the precipice of complete fucking failure.
Physical pain and shame are what teach children to make good choices before subjecting the otherwise civilized world to their presence as adults. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:59:20 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Shit, when I was a kid, my "timeout" was the time I spent unconscious after getting my ass kicked. fpni |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 7:59:32 PM EDT
[#22]
Fuck that noise. I love my kids so I discipline them when necessary. Normally it's a grounding. When it's serious I don't hesitate to spank them. As a result, my kids understand that actions have consequences. The kids of whoever wrote that crap probably won't contribute a damn thing to society. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:00:36 PM EDT
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threat of leather belt from my mom worked well on me. If my mom was to the point of using the belt, 1) she was swinging for the fences and 2) I deserved every ass whipping I got.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:00:52 PM EDT
[#24]
Yeah, that doesn't work. Feeling bad is part of life.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:01:31 PM EDT
[#25]
I imagine I would've turned out worse if I didn't get the belt.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:01:56 PM EDT
[#26]
If you don't mind. I'll raise my child my own fucking way. So fuck you for even making suggestions and sharing the same oxygen I breathe. Now please, would you kindly fuck the fuck off!
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:02:30 PM EDT
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Because the way we're heading is working out sooooooooooooooo well, right?
Like management doubling down on dysfunctional corporate policies. No one seems to be able to remember when they actually worked, and won't listen when you remind them. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:06:25 PM EDT
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Reminds me of Ned Flander's parents
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:12:16 PM EDT
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Just "explain what was wrong...." Time-out, that refuge of the non-spanking parent, is just as bad for kids as corporal punishment, according to a post from Psychology Today by Mary C Lamia. Putting kids in a different area to cool off and think about the rules they've broken can hurt them later in life, she writes. "Social isolation and rejection are experienced as shame," Lamia says. I'm glad I ignore the experts. I did what worked for me as a kid. And it seems to have worked for my kids. Fuck all that |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:13:17 PM EDT
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This kind of bullshit is the result of parents who are pussies. Look, putting a whooping on one of the people most valuable to you in the entire world isn't easy. It's hard to purposely hurt someone you love. But you have to do it because to not discipline the child is to do a disservice to him/her, so no matter how much it hurts you to do so, you do it because you have to.
Pussies who aren't willing to sacrifice their personal good feelings so they can't do their parental duties latch on to retarded ideas like this because it serves to relieve them of the responsibility of disciplining the child, because it's too easy to just say, "well, some child expert said I shouldn't do this or that". |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:25:52 PM EDT
[#31]
My father would have laughed at the very idea of "time out".
I've seen my SIL count to my nephew. It has about as much impact as if I counted to my dog. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:26:32 PM EDT
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I shoot my kids with rock salt when they're bad!
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:27:04 PM EDT
[#33]
Wow. I got spanked and had time out as a kid if I fucked up.
SOMEHOW I turned out to be normal and productive member of societ 
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:30:32 PM EDT
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I'd pay good money to watch this lady reason with some toddlers who are flipping out
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:32:53 PM EDT
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:51:33 PM EDT
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I'd pay good money to watch this lady reason with some toddlers who are flipping out Quote HistoryQuoted:
I'd pay good money to watch this lady reason with some toddlers who are flipping out
Thanks! I was looking for that one.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:56:40 PM EDT
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As a scout leader in both Boy Scouts an Cub Scouts, I can really see which kids get disciplined at home, and which ones don't.
The one's that do, are well behaved, know their place in life, respectable, and a pleasure to teach. The kids that don't, are the exact opposite. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 8:57:48 PM EDT
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My parents must have been into all-inclusive punishments. I'd get beat, time-outs, stuff taken away, and then lectured on why the thing I did was wrong! Me too. It worked, the only lapse was when dad was working 16 hr days and I'd manipulate mom, then dad would get me 2x worse. It hits a point they are 16, 18, 20 yrs old.. if you ain't raised em right by then you've done a disservice. Town's curfew is 10PM my son was a few doors down TOLD his mother he'd walk home and hung up... despite clear rules that we would get him. Summer came to a fear for his life end right there. (didn't get punched, but scared the hit out of him and got in his face, PS4 gone, phone gone, no leaving hisTV and computer free room. He read books for a few days. :) Because we DO love him. Now the motherfucker understands. It's amazing I even get unscheduled check in calls and he's pulled straight A's. go figure. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 9:01:17 PM EDT
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As a scout leader in both Boy Scouts an Cub Scouts, I can really see which kids get disciplined at home, and which ones don't. The one's that do, are well behaved, know their place in life, respectable, and a pleasure to teach. The kids that don't, are the exact opposite. I have seen the same thing. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 9:01:33 PM EDT
[#40]
well fuck it. Back to the belt switch and board. and no I'm not kidding |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 9:08:05 PM EDT
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We are breeding special snowflakes that are gonna keep me quite busy up to retirement.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 10:45:36 PM EDT
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Fuck that noise. I love my kids so I discipline them when necessary. Normally it's a grounding. When it's serious I don't hesitate to spank them. As a result, my kids understand that actions have consequences. The kids of whoever wrote that crap probably won't contribute a damn thing to society. Her crotch fruit, assuming she has any, will fail their way up in academia, and buearacracy. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 10:46:38 PM EDT
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You want Liberals? Because this is how you get Liberals.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 10:52:23 PM EDT
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I always wonder how do kids of these parenting experts turn out? And if they turn out shitty kids do they blame on the violent video games, violent movies, TV, or bad friends?
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Posted: 6/27/2016 10:53:21 PM EDT
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Sounds reasonable. Everybody knows how pleasant it is to be around kids who have no discipline whatsoever...
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Posted: 6/27/2016 10:55:56 PM EDT
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Shit, when I was a kid, my "timeout" was the time I spent unconscious after getting my ass kicked. Bro? |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 11:00:13 PM EDT
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Posted: 6/27/2016 11:05:48 PM EDT
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Nothing teaches you to change your ways like a good spanking (fear of being spanked again) and the shame of disappointing your parents.
I never agreed with time outs and I was 10 yrs old or so when little kids were being sent to time out instead of getting spanked. One of the best things for kids these days would be to lock out all their internet connected devices. |
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Posted: 6/27/2016 11:06:56 PM EDT
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Yeah. Pretty much that. The "expert" needs to shut her f*cking gob until such time as she's raised a "difficult" child of her own. Not an easy, compliant, listens-to-you, doesn't-rebel kind of child... but a strong-willed, stubborn, manipulative, lying, touches-the-hot-stove-to-prove-you're-lying-even-after-you-told-him-it-was-hot, "No, dad! F*ck You!" kind of child. Then we'll see what she has to say.
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Posted: 6/27/2016 11:21:25 PM EDT
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And now we know where democrats come from.
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