Looks like its time to dust out Dan's How To Date a Stripper post.
1. Find a decent strip club.
2. Go to said strip club once or twice a week, slow days and off hours are better. Stay away from weekends when they are busy.
3. Make friends with the bar tenders, waitresses, DJ, and bouncers. Tip them well. Request songs. Generally just fuck around.
4. Don't get a lap dance
5. Don't tip the strippers.
6.Don't Fucking Tip The Strippers. If you give them money you are just another skeevy guy.
7. Ignore the girls, don't even watch the dances. Watch TV or talk to the bar staff.
After a short while you have made yourself a semi regular patron. But you aren't some skeevy perv looking to buy into the hype and pay for pussy.
You have been making friends with the bar staff and DJ, and tipping them well. The dancers have seen this. Now they want to know wtf is your deal.
When the girl gets bored because its slow she will come sit down. Talk to her, but ignore her tits, hell semi ignore her. There are other girls and you don't give a fuck.
8.make friends with the dancers.
9. If you run out of smokes, bum off the girls.
10. Some time around here you will start to be invited to parties or be handed phone numbers. Now your in.
A few sub points. If you end up in the club with your buddies, never buy your own lap dance. Buy some for your friends. Either from girls you are friends with, or ask waitress to get him a dance from "the ugliest girl in the room". If your buddy buys you a dance, accept it, but don't tip extra.
At some point you will be at a table with a couple of girls hanging out, the old pervs will be watching but not tipping. The girls will bitch. Pull out a couple of bucks. Put em in your teeth and lay on the stage. (Bonus if you can get some of the girls to do it with you) this will get the old pervs to start spending. It cost you a few bucks but the girls are now making money, and think you are awesome.
Also some.clubs have rules about dancers dating patrons, and a lot.of girls have scruples about it. You can use this to your advantage. They won't tell each other they are sleeping with you.
And remember a relationship with a stripper has a time limit, learn it and abide by it. Don't date one for too long or it will go sideways fast.