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Posted: 7/29/2014 6:43:45 PM EDT

[#1]

I'll own page 2, I guess.

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Posted: 7/29/2014 6:44:07 PM EDT

[#2]

No.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:44:48 PM EDT

[#3]

And the answer is "No."
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Posted: 7/29/2014 6:45:28 PM EDT

[#4]

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Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

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I did and wouldn't do it again, its bad business.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:46:49 PM EDT

[#5]

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Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

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She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

He who does deserves neither girl.

Hell, my GF and I split up almost 8 months ago....I took a girl to dinner last weekend and I STILL feel guilty about it ( I really loved the ex-GF...unlike my ex-WIFE, whom I hate ) even though I am single. I almost got physically ill over it.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:47:14 PM EDT

[#6]

Easy the answer is no.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:47:56 PM EDT

[#7]

How is that even a question?

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:48:42 PM EDT

[#8]

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Voted NO! Based on your criteria! And that would be an absolute NO!

If GF and just dating, or some other wetting the water type of situation I would say yes....but that is not the way you worded it! So FUCK NO!

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Significant other in this case is girlfriend, not wife. Thought I worded that clearly, guess not.

Marriage is a different scenario, when I said "committed relationship" I meant a girlfriend.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:53:05 PM EDT

[#9]

Am I in before someone calls all the "no" voters liars?

Another no here. I love my wife, if girlfriend I'd at least dump her first.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:53:22 PM EDT

[#10]

Not just no, but HELL NO!

Cheaters are scum.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:54:04 PM EDT

[#11]

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Significant other in this case is girlfriend, not wife. Thought I worded that clearly, guess not.

Marriage is a different scenario, when I said "committed relationship" I meant a girlfriend.

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Quoted:
Voted NO! Based on your criteria! And that would be an absolute NO!

If GF and just dating, or some other wetting the water type of situation I would say yes....but that is not the way you worded it! So FUCK NO!

Significant other in this case is girlfriend, not wife. Thought I worded that clearly, guess not.

Marriage is a different scenario, when I said "committed relationship" I meant a girlfriend.

It sounds like your commitments don't really mean all that much.
Fuck it. Fo OP, just FO. And don't keep it a secret. That poor girl you're dating deserves to know who you really are.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:54:30 PM EDT

[#12]

This thread is a trap.

You've been warned

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:54:38 PM EDT

[#13]

Nope, I am better than that, and would feel guilty about it.

Posted: 7/29/2014 6:56:55 PM EDT

[#14]

women can smell if another women been around..... that's how you get caught. hair spray, make-up, perfume, de odorant . everything female has pretty scent

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:00:00 PM EDT

[#15]

Of course solely because the odds of ever finding another woman willing to bone my old, worn out, riddled old body are so low!

No, of course not. Been with my lovely lady for 27 years and married 22....she sure as shoot got the best years of me. Even if I hated her guts and didn't care about her one bit, that would be no way to repay someone's loyalty.

I couldn't do it and live with myself.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:02:30 PM EDT

[#16]

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Not just no, but HELL NO!

Cheaters are scum.

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this.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:03:05 PM EDT

[#17]

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Wouldn't even consider it. No way.

If she will cheat with you, she'll cheat on you.

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Can't read too good, can you?

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:03:43 PM EDT

[#18]

Never. My wife deserves better than that.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:03:57 PM EDT

[#19]

Nope. Never cheated in an exclusive relationship, probably never will. Had plenty of chances. I once broke up with someone because I wanted someone else and wouldn't cheat. In retrospect, it was an epic stupid decision.

Either your word means something, or it doesn't... You decide.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:04:33 PM EDT

[#20]

Never.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:04:39 PM EDT

[#21]

Nope, it's ALWAYS comes out. Always. Not to mention if you love and respect your SO it's not right to do so but what the hell do I know.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:06:13 PM EDT

[#22]

If you cheat on your spouse you are a low life waste of oxygen that deserves a horrible, painful death.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:07:36 PM EDT

[#23]

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Nope, I am better than that

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This right here

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:08:39 PM EDT

[#24]

No. I took a vow in front of God and all my friends and family. No way I'm going to be THAT guy. Plus, I love my wife and I got all my urges out in my 20's.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:08:47 PM EDT

[#25]

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It sounds like your commitments don't really mean all that much.

Fuck it. Fo OP, just FO. And don't keep it a secret. That poor girl you're dating deserves to know who you really are.

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Quoted:

Voted NO! Based on your criteria! And that would be an absolute NO!

If GF and just dating, or some other wetting the water type of situation I would say yes....but that is not the way you worded it! So FUCK NO!

Significant other in this case is girlfriend, not wife. Thought I worded that clearly, guess not.

Marriage is a different scenario, when I said "committed relationship" I meant a girlfriend.

It sounds like your commitments don't really mean all that much.

Fuck it. Fo OP, just FO. And don't keep it a secret. That poor girl you're dating deserves to know who you really are.

Lol now who's trolling?

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:10:42 PM EDT

[#26]

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If there's more than physical attraction, and chemistry - than one time will turn into 25 because intimacy will develop quickly, then possessiveness and attraction...or love and the S.O. will find out because you'll be stupid and wreck your relationship with resentment and blind-boner-decisions.

The scenario is science fiction.

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this....

trust me on that...

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:12:32 PM EDT

[#27]

Not to sound like a prude, but cheating is, even if it's non-sexual, the worst form of betrayal that one human can do to another. I've seen it, did it, and had it done to me as a young man. I've watched as lives were ruined by it in more recent years, as an old man. It's the ultimate act of cruelty, cowardice and selfishness. Especially when you have kids together.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:13:39 PM EDT

[#28]

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Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

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just hit puberty did we

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:14:00 PM EDT

[#29]

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:16:13 PM EDT

[#30]

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:19:06 PM EDT

[#31]

Morality, how does it work?

OP is fucked in the head.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:19:17 PM EDT

[#32]

My faith in you fuckers has been restored.

Oh yeah, NO

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:20:43 PM EDT

[#33]

Would you want her to cheat on you?

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:21:05 PM EDT

[#34]

Hopefully most (or all) of those people who selected "yes" in the poll are trolling. I would be dissappointed in arfcom if that high a percentage of us were scumbags.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:21:43 PM EDT

[#35]

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Morality, how does it work?

OP is fucked in the head.

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Posted: 7/29/2014 7:22:53 PM EDT

[#36]

Fuck no. Honor, integrity, trust. Those are not just words in my life, friend.

Now I will scarf down half a cheesecake when she's not around. C'mon, cheesecake is awesome.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:24:27 PM EDT

[#37]

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Not to sound like a prude, but cheating is, even if it's non-sexual, the worst form of betrayal that one human can do to another. I've seen it, did it, and had it done to me as a young man. I've watched as lives were ruined by it in more recent years, as an old man. It's the ultimate act of cruelty, cowardice and selfishness. Especially when you have kids together.

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This bears repeating

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:27:00 PM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:
Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

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No

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:28:04 PM EDT

[#39]

Nope.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:29:21 PM EDT

[#40]

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Fuck no. Honor, integrity, trust. Those are not just words in my life, friend.

Now I will scarf down half a cheesecake when she's not around. C'mon, cheesecake is awesome.

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+1.. but more for the chocolate cheese cake.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:29:36 PM EDT

[#41]

Honor as is justice, and karma all exist to rationalize the irrational, and codify the fears that haunt honorable people. Modern day life has removed the sting of disreputable acts and for the most part being a grade A shithead comes with almost no resistance among society, as-long as you can keep it below felonious you are a king among peers, free to ransack peoples lives at will. Move to a different state.... hell a different county and your back to square one.

If you wore your deeds on a sleeve would anyone even look into your eyes? If people treated you like you treat others would your life be anything?

Karma is a joke and doesn't exist, honor and justice are a faded standard that hasn't been followed in eons.

If you can't be honest to others, if you can't be open to your intentions, if you live to pray on people... Society will still give you rights and treat you like a human being.

I however will not

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:30:20 PM EDT

[#42]

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Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

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This one is a no brainer. Not only no, but HELL FUCKING NO!!!

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:30:58 PM EDT

[#43]

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Say you're in a committed relationship and you meet a chick you really want to smash.

She wants to bone too, and there's more than just a physical attraction going on. There's chemistry, making her infinitely sexier, but not quite enough to bounce on your chick.

Here's the kicker.. your S.O. will NOT find out. She's out of town, loves and trusts you completely.

Do you do it?

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No.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:31:05 PM EDT

[#44]

If I even think about cheating on my woman I usually dump her since it's obviously not working out if I'm thinking about cheating.

Now of course if I'm not thinking about cheating and a smoking hot chick wants to get it on with me. Well then I have to ask myself if I love my current girlfriend. If I don't really love her and I would rather take the chance loosing her for a possible upgrade, well then I suppose I would probably cheat. Of course I'd break it off with the girlfriend the next day so I would be free to pursue this new girl. Often times when I do this I end up alone again if the new girl just wanted a fling and not a long term thing.

If I really love my girlfriend though, then I have no interest in any other woman no matter how sexy she is. It's just not worth loosing her over. Of course it's actually quite rare I have a girlfriend that I love this much. Most the time I'm single and I'm free to date around with as many girls as I want.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:31:35 PM EDT

[#45]

Why would you do that to your current gf though? Sounds like a bitch move to me. If your current relationship sucks then grow a sack and break up. I'm a little easier on bf gf bs than people that are actually married.....still a bitch move IMO though. If ur current relationship is on the way out the door and is stale or whatever then ok time to move on though.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:31:53 PM EDT

[#46]

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Not to sound like a prude, but cheating is, even if it's non-sexual, the worst form of betrayal that one human can do to another.

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What would you call non-sexual cheating? The Bill Clinton definition?

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:31:58 PM EDT

[#47]

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+1.. but more for the chocolate cheese cake.

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Fuck no. Honor, integrity, trust. Those are not just words in my life, friend.

Now I will scarf down half a cheesecake when she's not around. C'mon, cheesecake is awesome.

+1.. but more for the chocolate cheese cake.

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:32:31 PM EDT

[#48]

It's a shame the way today's culture defines "committed relationship."

Posted: 7/29/2014 7:32:52 PM EDT

[#49]

My SO and I just broke up this morning over him cheating on me while he was on a trip to visit family. A violation of trust like that really fucking hurts, and if you're considering doing it, frankly, fuck you in the fucking face. The truth always outs.