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Posted: 5/8/2004 12:02:08 PM EDT

[#1]

Quoted:
Actually, being a stripper or being in the sex trade IS different than being a bank teller... and the motivation is NOT just money. Sometimes it is the attention, sometimes it is the drugs, sometimes it is low self-esteem... etc, etc

Consider this.... someone who is a stripper has put a price on something that most people would only share with someone they are intimate with. What part of being a bank teller is relevant in your sex life (other than the occasional fetish dress up game )?

IMHO, FWIW, yadda, yadda.... someone who can put a price on something that should be so special and personal has something fundamentally fucked up with them.

That's probably the number one reason....... Low self-esteem!

Posted: 5/8/2004 1:56:54 PM EDT

[#2]

definite MAYBE!

Posted: 5/8/2004 6:24:50 PM EDT

[#3]

Exotic Dancer... yes
Porn star... no

The Exotic Dancer comes home with loads of cash.
The Porn Star comes home with loads... dripping out.

Posted: 5/8/2004 6:38:08 PM EDT

[#4]

I have dibs on Ginger from HBO's G-String Divas

Posted: 5/8/2004 6:42:57 PM EDT

[#5]

Quoted:
...With a RARE exception they are ALL fucked in the head in one way or another. Out of over a hundred or so that i knew personally 1 actually finished her degree and became an nurse anesthtist.

Uhhh, I think that applies to females in general, IMHO.

Although i rather do enjoy looking at them

Yep! And Great Fun to go party with at the bars. They know how to have fun. Plus, other chicky snacks will walk up to a fat ugly guy and hit on you just to find out "why the hell are they with him????"

Posted: 5/8/2004 6:51:01 PM EDT

[#6]

Sure if she was otherwise a good and honorable person, so soon as she shows up at the house riding a unicorn with bigfoot on the back I'll set the wedding date

Posted: 5/8/2004 8:15:58 PM EDT

[#7]

Here's a pick of my wife last year at Mardi gras.She's the one whith the glasses.and thats her friend and my dad.

Posted: 5/8/2004 8:19:21 PM EDT

[#8]

how to post image it gives some url thing

Posted: 5/8/2004 9:00:43 PM EDT

[#9]

I came close to doing it. Hada ring and everything. Started acting nuts before I gave it to her so I never did..

I don't see why not though, a job is a job.

Posted: 5/8/2004 9:57:43 PM EDT

[#10]

well, i do have a kid with one, but marriage is kinda iffy under those circumstances, sides, my wife would kill me

Posted: 5/8/2004 11:53:31 PM EDT

[#11]

Quoted:
This thread is worthless without pics.

+1

Posted: 5/9/2004 12:00:13 AM EDT

[#12]

Marry an exotic dance? Hell no, Marriage is against my beliefs.

Posted: 5/9/2004 1:00:04 AM EDT

[#13]

Well, here is a wrench in the debate.

I dated one, married the same one and have been happy ever since!

I did not know she did the dance thing when we started dating (met her through a friend). I found out after a bit of time since she felt we were getting serious and thought I should know. Of course being young and testosterone driven I thought, "wow, what bragging rights!"

She also was just graduating with a BS and quit the job as soon as she got the diploma. Her opinion on the usual dancer is much the same as many here. MESSED UP!

My wife and I have been together for 6.5 years (dated for 3 and married for the rest). The only reasond we waited so long on the vows due to time and schedule.

BTW, she is now a project manager for Dell and makes much more than I do.

I also get to buy all the firearms I want ....the Harley....spent time with my wife....damn I love her!

PS: I do still threaten to tell my kids that I actually met here at the dance club. That usually gets me a swift kick to the butt which hurts since she is also a Krav Maga instructor.

Posted: 5/9/2004 1:03:00 AM EDT

[#14]

Quoted:
Marry an exotic dance? Hell no, Marriage is against my beliefs.

Same here.

Posted: 5/9/2004 4:18:11 AM EDT

[#15]

I wouldn't even marry a non-virgin, even those I've been with. I know that ain't right, and all the mothers say " why buy the cow when the milk is free ". But that's not it. I want my wife to have only experienced me. I do not look down on non-virgins in the slightest, but I only want my wife to be with me.

Does this belong on the stripper post?

Posted: 5/9/2004 4:38:52 AM EDT

[#16]

Quoted:
It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.

Provided she wasn't a whore.

I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore.

Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores?

Is 'whore' a perjorative term?

Damn straight it is!

Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun

In my experience, that's the challenge finding one that wasn't.

Tj

Posted: 5/9/2004 4:58:46 AM EDT

[#17]

Yes, I would. Or a whore or pornstar. I would not want her to continue screwing others but that would be the limit. Hell, the "nice girl" I DID marry was the one screwing others behind my back - at church no less. I can find a lot a host of reasons NOT to marry someone but nudity or sex worker sure ain't one of them!

Lawyers have little room to be self rightous - talk about selling your soul! Fact is, all of us sell something, knowledge, integrity, body etc.

Posted: 5/9/2004 5:06:32 AM EDT

[#18]

Quoted:

Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?

But Jesus didn't marry Mary, did he?

Posted: 5/9/2004 5:39:56 AM EDT

[#19]

Quoted:
Would you marry an Exotic Dancer?

No but I WOULD insist that YOU marry one !

Posted: 5/9/2004 6:33:55 AM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:
Quoted:

Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?

But Jesus didn't marry Mary, did he?

Maybe he would have. I think he definately would have OK'd someone else marrying her. Do you think he would have said she should never marry anyone and no one should consider marrying her?

What kind of Christian are you?

Posted: 5/9/2004 7:08:30 AM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:
Well, here is a wrench in the debate.

I dated one, married the same one and have been happy ever since!

I did not know she did the dance thing when we started dating (met her through a friend). I found out after a bit of time since she felt we were getting serious and thought I should know. Of course being young and testosterone driven I thought, "wow, what bragging rights!"

She also was just graduating with a BS and quit the job as soon as she got the diploma. Her opinion on the usual dancer is much the same as many here. MESSED UP!

My wife and I have been together for 6.5 years (dated for 3 and married for the rest). The only reasond we waited so long on the vows due to time and schedule.

BTW, she is now a project manager for Dell and makes much more than I do.

I also get to buy all the firearms I want ....the Harley....spent time with my wife....damn I love her!

PS: I do still threaten to tell my kids that I actually met here at the dance club. That usually gets me a swift kick to the butt which hurts since she is also a Krav Maga instructor.

This thread is worthless without pictures.

Posted: 5/9/2004 7:12:58 AM EDT

[#22]

Ok, in all honesty, I've been there. I always tell my friends to be careful about falling in love with a woman who sells herself because the moment you can't give her what she wants, there will be someone else ready to give it to her. Its the nature of her relationships with men.

Of course, there are happy exceptions, but you have to play the odds.

Posted: 5/9/2004 7:24:49 AM EDT

[#23]

Marry one? I've never been in the same room with one (knowingly, anyway).

Posted: 5/9/2004 7:28:56 AM EDT

[#24]

No. I don't like to share. And I don't cheat either.

Posted: 5/9/2004 8:29:23 PM EDT

[#25]

Quoted:
Gee, since it's all for money, then there is no difference between a Mafia hit man and a US soldier doing his duty in Iraq, since they both are willing to kill for money?

How far can we take this?

You can take it very far.

Mafia hitman does it for the money and his percieved family and his loyalty to it. The US Soldier does it for his loyalty to his country, and for money.

The only difference is this so called morality that folks impose upon society. Both of them kill for something. One is just more acceptable according to OUR society.

The Mafia guy is not accepted by OUR society cause of all the cold blooded killings he does.
To the Iraqi extremist, the US soldier is wrong and does cold blooded killings.

You see its all a matter of perception and acceptable morals of each individual or group of people.

There is no difference!!!

Quoted:
Actually, being a stripper or being in the sex trade IS different than being a bank teller... and the motivation is NOT just money. Sometimes it is the attention, sometimes it is the drugs, sometimes it is low self-esteem... etc, etc

Consider this.... someone who is a stripper has put a price on something that most people would only share with someone they are intimate with. What part of being a bank teller is relevant in your sex life (other than the occasional fetish dress up game )?

IMHO, FWIW, yadda, yadda.... someone who can put a price on something that should be so special and personal has something fundamentally fucked up with them.

Working at a bank or anywhere is much the same thing. Human beings as a whole look for attention or acceptance in different avenues. Strippers by flaunting themselves. Bankers by working hard and getting recognized or promoted.

We all put a price on what we do. We turn down jobs cause its beneath us or do not pay well enough.

Again once you break it down to basics, there are no differences except for societies perception, so called morality, and religious beliefs.

Posted: 5/10/2004 4:35:07 AM EDT

[#26]

One part of me says no way because I couldn't stand knowing that she goes to work every day and drunken horny assholes are always trying to grope her and she might be enjoying it and just not saying anything.

The other part of me says, if she's totally hot, then I should flaunt her like a solid gold AR...

But in reality I couldn't trust her when there are always guys trying to swoon her by sticking money in her G.

Posted: 5/10/2004 9:28:53 AM EDT

[#27]

"Dated" plenty of 'em back in the day. Still have lots of acquaintances that strip too.

Most of 'em are seriously fucked in the head. Daddy issues, drugs, etc. Good for freaky sex, but that's it. There's exceptions to the rule, but they're few and far between.

Hell no.

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