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Posted: 5/7/2004 8:20:26 PM EDT
The Pornstar thread inspired me. I'm curious. Why or why not? Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.
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nope. then again, if she made enough to where i didnt have to work. ok |
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I would marry the RIGHT exotic dancer!
I went to college with several ladies who were in the dancing business to support their kids and get an education. I also have met several women who had made a career out of it. With some its the means to an end. With some its the end! BIG Difference! |
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I also had one who was looking into it, she got annoying. Would I date her yea, bang the hell out of her, yea, Marry No.
Why? Becuase Im not planning on getting married my life is fucked enough as it is. |
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oh, your such a big silly |
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Sure I would, I know several and they are really down to earth. You would be surprized by how normal they are, plus it's only a job and some have told me that atleast it's better than working somewhere like Wal-Mart. I had a good laugh and had to agree. Thanks Arvin
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I've been around a couple of dancers. Well maybe more than a couple
I've dated two. If you could call it dating. All I can say is that I couln't stand to be around them for more than a few hours at a time. Rocking bodies and alot of fun for awhile but dumb as a lump of shit. Both had kids and I'm pretty sure a drug habit as well. I know this isn't the situation for all dancers but I'd pass. Now I have a very good friend one of four that I actually give a shit about, that is dating a dancer. He's been seeing her for almost two years. She is a little different, she has some medical bills for an illness that has required a few operations and is on several very expensive prescriptions. She is very smart, kind, funny, has a great personality, has never complained about her situation and always has a positive outlook on life. Oh, and she is gorgeous! He would marry her, but she won't do it. She thinks it will be harder on him if she dies. |
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I'd have to disagree with Arvin. As a group, I'd say they are some of the most confused and unhappy people I've met. We all have different perspectives but if you're taking votes, lets drop marry and ask would I even consider trying to date an exotic dancer, even once.... NOT A CHANCE.
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From what I have heard alot of them are into Coke/Meth have to take that into account.
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I lived in NYC with a young lady who was a professional ballet dancer. In the off season, she supported herself as a cage dancer at several clubs. She graduated Magna Cum Laude from a prestigious university with degrees in both Psychology and Dance. Unfortunately, neither paid the bills. Far as I'm concerned, it was just another job that paid the rent.
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No or a pornstar or a prostitute or a pickpocket or an alien, etc. etc. ad nauseam.... Sheesh ! |
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It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.
Provided she wasn't a whore. I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore. Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores? Is 'whore' a perjorative term? Damn straight it is! Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun |
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Why do guys do this all the time? |
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well i dated one, i really cared for her, she made good money. i guess i would. i thought about it with her. until she was used on the strip clubs billboard. i always had a fear that some guy would come up to me and say somthing and start a fight. Ronald
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I would not date one let alone marry one. Way to fucked in the head.
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I might, but I wouldn't tell anybody about it. I have seen some smokin hot dancers.
To answer the hun. Yes, I have met some that were not whores. Just college girls who needed tuition money. They were no more whores than any of the other girls on campus and probably less than most. |
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There's two kinds of strippers, ones who are whores, and ones who aren't whores yet. They get sucked into that stripper lifestyle, and any morals and values they may have once had go out the window. They see guys as nothing but ATM machines that require a bump and grind instead of a PIN number. Strippers, while often some of the hottest women on earth, and generally some of the most pathetic. Not to mention, they typically think that their customers are the most pathetic type of men. If you think she's smiling at you because she thinks you're different than all the other losers that come in, think again. |
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Cha-ching. On...the...money. Good post. |
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Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus? |
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Now thats funny! |
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i've gone out with three "dancers" in my life. all three were very smart and two have their heads on straight.
the messed up one came from a wealthy faimly and private schools. she was ok until she started doing x. she ended up marrying a mexican. one came from a single mom faimly who went to private catholic schools until he mom married a professor of dentisty at a notable eastern university. after me she married a bass player in a band that has two grammies. the third one came from a dirt poor southern faimly, has a little boy, owns her own house and has $25,000 in stocks and mutual funds i keep track of for her. the two woman who have their heads on straight stayed away from drugs and both were "real dancers" and not just strippers. |
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Jesus didn't marry Mary Magdelaine, did He |
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Does wet t-shirt contests and hot legs contest count? If so yes I did, now she would not strip. One of her girlfriends dared her to enter a wet tshirt contest once. This was after we were married. She did it and won. That same night at the same club they had the hot legs contest, she enters that one and wins. She must have gotten it out of her system because she never has done it again.
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The jury is still out on that one. Many biblical scholars are not sure. |
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Pardon me, jimb100, but I always try to aspire to be more like Jesus. Which, of course, I know that I will never be able to do in this world. In the next world, of course, but not in this present one. It is greatly heartening, nevertheless, to see that a fellow Christian has attained such a high degree of moral rectitude as you have so obviously achieved! I commend you for the gracious spirit of kindness and forgiveness that Our Lord has seen fit to bestow upon you! Eric The(HonestToGod)Hun |
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Pardon me, BenDover, but have you gone quite insane? Are you on smack, or something? Please identify ONE Biblical scholar who has any factual basis for making such an ABSURD and SACRILEGIOUS claim? You say 'many', so let's see a list! Or will this be another one of your bald-faced statements, such as your infamous 'most of the Founding Fathers were Human Secularists and Deists' that YOU CANNOT BACK UP WITH FACTS? I'm still waiting for that listing BTW, even after I supplied you with the only three of whom I know - Jefferson, Paine and Franklin. I'm waiting! Eric The(NotSurprised)Hun |
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ETH, while the book is fiction, The Davinci Code is based on a segment of belief within certain theological circles regarding the theory of the Holy bloodline. Discovery Civilization had an extensive documentary on it a couple months ago and there were numerous scholars debating the theory. IIRC, ABD had a show on the same topic. Again, numerous scholars debated it.
The conclusion that both documentaries came to was that there's not enough evidence to either prove or disprove it either way. I didn't just make it up. Really. |
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Marry one? no.
They do make a delightful drinking buddy though! |
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You really, really need to do some of your own research on this topic! There are NO Biblical scholars, at all, that buy any part of the so-called 'DaVinci Code'! I have seen and read just about everything I can about such nonsense, and it is truly nonsense! One of the grand pillars upon which the entire fiction rests, is that Early Christianity was unable to handle the thought that Mary Magdalene had a position of importance in the Church! Why? Because NO WOMAN could, at that time, have been permitted such an exalted place in the Church! What a crock! All one has to do to refute so feeble a notion is to simply consider the HIGH HOMAGE and POSITION that the Roman Church assigned to Mary, the Mother of Jesus! What? I thought that Early Christianity couldn't handle FEMALES in position of authority? Crock! Eric The(StraightAndNarrow)Hun |
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ETH, I don't want to hijack this topic with this specific debate (which really is a debate over whether or not some biblical scholars believe this, not whether or not it's true).
Start a new topic if you like, and I will continue to search for the transcripts of both documentaries so that I may provide you with a couple of the names of the scholars who argues on favor of the Jesus/Magdeline relationship, and emerge from the debate as a winner. Ben(UnderstandingTheSpecificDebateInWhichWeAreEngaged)Dover |
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Sorry, BenDover, but I have utterly no interest whatsoever in discussing that piece of tripe in this or any other thread!
It's been done, and done, and done. Those folks who do not understand Historical Christianity are doomed to thinking that they have discovered something that was unknown to 2,000 years of Church History! I rank it right along with those folks who believe that Black Africans taught the Greeks everything that the Golden Age of Greece became known for - philosophy, art, literature, etc. Who were these 'Black Africans'? History knows them as Egyptians! Hmmm, it sorta makes you wonder to whom the Egyptians were referring when they called the Nubians 'black', if they themselves were black. Yesiree Bob! The folks who think 'DaVinci Code' is an astounding discovery are right there in terms of idiocy with the ridiculous Afrocentrist Lionel Jeffries of this world! Eric The(Eurocentric)Hun |
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Sure. Dated 2 in my lifetime. I would married at one of them. Pornstar, stripper. They are all just jobs. Some enjoy more than others. Some are pushed into it. Muck like having a regular job. Some us like/love our jobs and look forward to going to it daily. Some hate it. Some go postal and shoot everyone they work with. We all sell pieces of ourselves to make money. Some of us go to school to gain knowledge and sell that. Some sell their experience. Some sell our bodies, both male an female. Its our hypocritic society that frowns upon this. We cast it away, yet it is the demand that have kept this profession alive for centuries. We all sell ourselves in one from or another, what makes one more acceptable than the other? I know some of you will spout out Bible this...Jesus that....blah...blah...blah. Bullshit!!! Doesn't the bible also say to forgive. Then some of you will spout out....But LT what if you had a daughter that wanted to be a stripper or pornstar. Well if I did, I would probably have a sit down with her and talk it out. If afterwards she still wants to, well then I hope she is the BEST damn pornstar/stripper out there. Bottomline, if she is a good person deep inside, why in the world not. |
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What pieces of your body have you sold, Mr. Lordtrader?
It's just a job, you know! And there's no real difference between a bank teller at your bank and a crack-ho? Must make for some very interesting Christmas Parties at BankOne! I will forgive just about anyone. I will not marry just about anyone. Eric The(DownToEarth)Hun |
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There isn't if you break it down. What motivated these two to do what they are doing??? Answer: Money. Money to do with what needs to be done in their lives. I sell my experience and knowledge so I could pay the bills that I have incurred. You sell your knowledge to do with what you need to. Similar to any stripper, whore, or pornstar out there. I know, I know....LT how can you compare me to a whore, stripper, or pornstar. I guess I was wrong there.....Some make more money than you or I put together. Yeah no comparison there. |
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So, let's see...there is no difference between a bank teller and a crack-ho, 'if you break it down'!
Gee, since it's all for money, then there is no difference between a Mafia hit man and a US soldier doing his duty in Iraq, since they both are willing to kill for money? How far can we take this? Eric The(NotTooFar,IHope)Hun |
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How dare you question Eric the Hun, Grand Mullah and spiritual leader of the Christian Taliban!! Infial!! Repent now or suffer the curse of a 1000 lice infested camels ass fucking you through out eternity!! |
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Nonsense, AZMAN, I'm not calling down any Fatwa on the heads of any of these uncircumcized dogs!
Question what I think or believe to any degree you wish. Just remember the Code of Conduct and we will all go home safe and sound this evening! Eric The(GrandPoobahAndHighMuck-a-Luck)Hun |
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by ETH,...Just remember the Code of Conduct and we will all go home safe and sound this evening!
[/quoute] Absolutly ETH, just watching your back and clarifying your 'position' as I see it. |
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in an attempt to rehijack this thread back on topic from the religious right and those going to hell
NO i wouldn't i had a roommate that dated and married one. She was an ok girl but had a rough history and had not been dacing long when they met. I went out with several of her freinds and at one time probobly knew every topless dancer in pensacola florida. With a RARE exception they are ALL fucked in the head in one way or another. Out of over a hundred or so that i knew personally 1 actually finished her degree and became an nurse anesthtist. Last i heard she was dancing again because it paid better. 90% of them are on drugs or alcholics. Most have at least 1 kid by POS that has since bailed on them. There are too many decent women out their without the bagage to even consider a stripper. Although i rather do enjoy looking at them |
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Actually, being a stripper or being in the sex trade IS different than being a bank teller... and the motivation is NOT just money. Sometimes it is the attention, sometimes it is the drugs, sometimes it is low self-esteem... etc, etc
Consider this.... someone who is a stripper has put a price on something that most people would only share with someone they are intimate with. What part of being a bank teller is relevant in your sex life (other than the occasional fetish dress up game )? IMHO, FWIW, yadda, yadda.... someone who can put a price on something that should be so special and personal has something fundamentally fucked up with them. |
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You are so right about that, Miss Magnum! As you always are when discussing these sorts of subjects.
If my intended wife told me that she had slept 'for fun' with 100 men before me, I might stumble a bit, but if I loved her, I would still marry her! If she told me that she had slept with 100 men 'for money' before me, nope, I could see no wedding in our future! I think most men should be able to grasp the difference! Eric The(Reasonable)Hun |
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