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Posted: 10/8/2007 2:08:05 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:08:22 PM EDT by hk940]
she looks nice and seems interested in me but and this is a BIG but.
the divorce is not final yet.

so would you?


ed. no kids.

Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:08:35 PM EDT
Would and have.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:08:46 PM EDT
Wait til the divorce is final.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:08:56 PM EDT
As a rule, no. But I may make an exception if she was an exceptional person.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:09:31 PM EDT
always a hoot when the hubs shows up

watch your 6
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:09:32 PM EDT
The wife would not agree.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:09:47 PM EDT
No. Her husband probably has a different idea of what "separated" means than she does.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:11:11 PM EDT
That is how I met my wife. Twelve years now and going strong.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:12:39 PM EDT
Sure, why not
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:14:15 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Chairborne:
No. Her husband probably has a different idea of what "separated" means than she does.


Just what I was thinking.

He may not even know that they are "seperated".

I'm not comfortable with someone who can't resolve one circumstance before getting into another one.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:14:57 PM EDT
Yeah, with a gun close by.

Freshly divorced husbands could equal trouble.



Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:15:09 PM EDT
Nope. morals and such...
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:15:35 PM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:15:42 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Chairborne:
No. Her husband probably has a different idea of what "separated" means than she does.


+1. There are alot of dead people -- both men and women -- who thought separated meant "he won't bother me again".
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:16:18 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:22:16 PM EDT by 82ndAbn]
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:17:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:19:05 PM EDT by SJSAMPLE]

Originally Posted By Merrell:
always a hoot when the hubs shows up

watch your 6


No shit.

Nothing like shoving a Beretta 92FS into the face of some guy who jumps out of your fucking tree at midnight to confront you when you come home from a date. (The guy had previously made threats and had received mental "treatment".

He ended up stalking us everywhere we went, and even started calling my home and hanging up.

He got so depressed, he holed up in his parents' house with a hunting rifle while the police sealed off the block.

I was at his wife's work when he called.
I grabbed the phone and told him to put the gun in his mouth.
The cops heard about that and weren't very happy.

I woulda felt sorry for him if he wasn't such of a douchebag.
Fucked the stripper at his bachelor party, cheated on her, stole her money, etc. (typical douchebag stuff).

Prepare for DRAMA.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:18:49 PM EDT
BTDT, married her after her divorce was final.

It was kind of fun going places in South Carolina knowing we were being followed by a private investigator.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:21:10 PM EDT
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:22:46 PM EDT
depends on how hot she is and if my wife would find out
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:23:43 PM EDT
Danger, Will Robinson.

Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:23:46 PM EDT
Yes I have and I'm married to her now
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:23:56 PM EDT
Yes
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:24:18 PM EDT
SIIHPAPP
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:24:41 PM EDT

I grabbed the phone and told him to put the gun in his mouth.


Excellent
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:24:44 PM EDT
If you are prepared to become part of the divorce, go forth and conquer.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:25:44 PM EDT
date is OK, but no sexual relations
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:26:48 PM EDT
Very situational - but yes, I did, and she is now my wife.

Situation, however, involved lengthy separation and I did not come into picture until weekend before divorce was going to be final. Also I had a history with her about 15 years earlier, and would have married her then had jobs not separated us.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:26:51 PM EDT
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:27:03 PM EDT

Originally Posted By BillTheButcher:
date is OK, but no sexual relations


Fuck that shit !!!
You're in prime "Grudge Fuck" territory and they give it all they got.

Just be prepared, s'all I'm sayin'.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:28:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SJSAMPLE:

Originally Posted By BillTheButcher:
date is OK, but no sexual relations


Fuck that shit !!!
You're in prime "Grudge Fuck" territory and they give it all they got.

Just be prepared, s'all I'm sayin'.


Yep. Either way you'll be in ex's crosshairs so might as well enjoy the ride.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:28:57 PM EDT
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:29:31 PM EDT
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:29:49 PM EDT
RUN AWAY!! RUN AWAY!!!

Never date a woman who is "seperated" or has been divorced for less then a year.

There's too much shit they need to sort out and you'll be dealing with DRAMA!!!
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:30:09 PM EDT
This is how most women I have dated behave. They just cant seem to break off one relationship with out having another one going. I think they just cant handle being alone or something.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:31:55 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:32:19 PM EDT by OLNACL]

Originally Posted By KN:
This is how most women I have dated behave. They just cant seem to break off one relationship with out having another one going. I think they just cant handle being alone or something.


A wise man once said: " A woman is like a chimpanzee. She will not let go of one vine until she has a hold on another"
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:34:13 PM EDT
I thought you meant a chick who was once a siamese twin.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:37:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By numberofthebeast:
I thought you meant a chick who was once a siamese twin.


"I'd like you to meet the better half..."



(yeah, we'll both burn for them)
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:38:18 PM EDT
dangerous ground, be careful
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:38:32 PM EDT
I would, but I'm currently separated too.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:39:33 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:43:37 PM EDT by 95thFoot]


Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:41:36 PM EDT
Yep, best sex and it's almost certain she'll toss you away when she's done with ya, Saving you the trouble of dumping her later.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:41:44 PM EDT
Legally separated ... No problem .

Just decided not to live together any longer .. Problem .
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:42:18 PM EDT
Define "date"
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:46:03 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Wait til the divorce is final.


Behold, here is wisdom.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:46:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By distributor_of_pain:
Define "date"


He means BONE
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:47:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By rangermonroe:
Nope. morals and such...


+1


Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:49:54 PM EDT

Originally Posted By KN:
This is how most women I have dated behave. They just cant seem to break off one relationship with out having another one going. I think they just cant handle being alone or something.


Same here.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:53:05 PM EDT
I have experience in this area. Take my advice and wait. The husband WILL show up at the wrong time.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:53:51 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 10/8/2007 2:54:41 PM EDT by mnvwguy02]
I did (in my past).

As stated, check your 6.

Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:54:29 PM EDT

Originally Posted By hk940:
BIG but.
I initially thought it read "she has a BIG butt"

Not all seperations are equal. Some allow dating, others do not, IIRC.

I say go out with her, but don't let her know where you live, yet.
Link Posted: 10/8/2007 2:56:25 PM EDT
She'd have to be pretty hot, but probably not. Their are enough normal, no baggage women out there.
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