Quoted: I'm sure there's more to this story than he's letting us know....
but I'm also sure she can find time in her day to wash the dishes....dishes left on the counter for 2 days with crusty food left on them? come on. A 14 month old does still nap, right?
And yes, I understand she's pregnant yet again, with a 14 month old. But still. Even if she does 1 hour of housework a day, while the baby sleeps, then naps herself during the child's other nap, then it would probably be sufficient enough for the husband.
This is assuming he does help out himself either on the weekends or when he gets home from work.
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I agree Daisy, there has to be more to the story. I tried to put in my two cents as a stay home mom that is anal about cleanliness. I have had to revise how clean things must be. Yes a 14 mth old still naps, but IIRC, mine was down to one nap a day at 14 mths.
I offered him some help in my second post by directing him to the fly lady website. Maybe she just has organizational problems. I personally think he didn't look and doesn't care, he just wanted to bitch. As he goes on to post later in the thread
seriously, lazy people piss me off . excuses are like assholes right? get up off your ass and do something.
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that to me sounds more like a man who doesn't want to help her, he just wants to bitch and moan about it not being done his way. If she is seriously leaving dishes as he says she is, that is a problem. I know though that yelling at her isn't going to solve the problem, it may in fact just make it worse. Womens liberation or not, being yelled at, called lazy etc, isn't the way to solve problems.