I have a question for twister - and it isn't meant to insinuate anything, becuase I'm just wondering.
I've only shot military 5.56 a few times, and some of those cartridges were placed only on one side of the mag, while the other had my other loads. This was done intentionally for me to feel the difference in kick between the standard .223 loads most of us can buy, and the military loads (which did kick a little more).
What ammo are you using, twister - reloads, standard .223, or military?
On another note, I have a light build: A1 upper, Bushy Superlight barrel, and no extras, yet that never leaves a bruise (and I don't fully should the stock, either - the base of it touches the top of my shoulder, and with Floridian shirts (thin). Granted, I think my brother's old 20-inch has less kick, but even mine is tame enough for bench shooting at the 100 and 200 yard ranges for well over 100 rounds. But now I'm wondering if it would be as comfortable with military loads in it?