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Posted: 7/22/2014 1:57:31 AM EDT
No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.
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One of those words doesn't belong
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No kidding.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 1:59:20 AM EDT
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Give it time. You'll be the envy of many of us soon. Keep your head up OP.
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Trying man, I have found that my smile is a lie.  Though a necessary one.  Fake it till you make it, or something like that.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:01:19 AM EDT
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Gym.
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Yeah, good luck there bud.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.
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35 and in your prime. Pull up your boot straps cowboy, lift some weights get in shape and find the woman of your dreams who is meant to be!

Men age like a fine brandy, women..... like a poorly bottled beer. Cheer up, buttercup.
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Already do...4 times a week.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:03:43 AM EDT
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.
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I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:04:28 AM EDT
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I'm not sure what to make of GD anymore.  People are married and upset, then they're single and upset..

Hang in op, everyone has their own bag of rocks to carry, remember that.. you're not alone.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:05:44 AM EDT
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I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


Going to try to take notes from this guy since I'll probably be out of the house and earning some money around 30 if the economy keeps going in the direction its headed.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:05:47 AM EDT
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Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.
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You're probably due for some new underwear.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:07:35 AM EDT
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I'm not sure what to make of GD anymore.  People are married and upset, then they're single and upset..

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Not upset...sort of numb to feelings anymore.  Either I am a bad ass that can handle anything that is thrown at me or I am a narcissistic sociopath.
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You're probably due for some new underwear.
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You're probably due for some new underwear.


Lol...ya think?
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:08:50 AM EDT
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Look at it this way. I was in the same boat as you when I was 32. I had been married for 12 years and got dumped. If that hadn't happened I wouldn't have met my current wife who is a much better person than my ex ever was. I met my current wife in Walmart. She was working there at the time. Since then she has become a nurse. Sometimes things happen for a reason.
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Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.
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Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.


Do you have friends you can go out with?

If not, find some... it would help if they were single too. It gets harder and harder to have single friends as you get into your 30's. Most guys have taken themselves off the market by then, which is sad. I've been getting more interest from women in my 30's than I did in my 20's. It's way easier now.

Never married... and the party continues.

Edit: edited to sound like less of a douche. Lol
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I am just trying to take it one day at a time, not really interested in women at the moment.  My friends however are failing to grasp that concept, and keep on trying to hook me up with bar skanks.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:11:55 AM EDT
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Do you have friends you can go out with?

If not, find some... it would help if they were single too. It gets harder and harder to have single friends as you get into your 30's. Most guys have taken themselves off the market by then, which is sad. I've been getting more tail in my 30's than I did in my 20's. It's way easier now.

Never married... and the party continues.
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.


Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.


Do you have friends you can go out with?

If not, find some... it would help if they were single too. It gets harder and harder to have single friends as you get into your 30's. Most guys have taken themselves off the market by then, which is sad. I've been getting more tail in my 30's than I did in my 20's. It's way easier now.

Never married... and the party continues.


I have a few friends.  They seem to give the worst advice ever though, sort of like any relationship thread in GD.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:13:51 AM EDT
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I posted this up because I figure that it would be a usefull tool to get advice from others in here who have/are going through the same thing.
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I have a few friends.  They seem to give the worst advice ever though, sort of like any relationship thread in GD.
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.


Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.


Do you have friends you can go out with?

If not, find some... it would help if they were single too. It gets harder and harder to have single friends as you get into your 30's. Most guys have taken themselves off the market by then, which is sad. I've been getting more tail in my 30's than I did in my 20's. It's way easier now.

Never married... and the party continues.


I have a few friends.  They seem to give the worst advice ever though, sort of like any relationship thread in GD.

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I have a few friends.  They seem to give the worst advice ever though, sort of like any relationship thread in GD.
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.


Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.


Do you have friends you can go out with?

If not, find some... it would help if they were single too. It gets harder and harder to have single friends as you get into your 30's. Most guys have taken themselves off the market by then, which is sad. I've been getting more tail in my 30's than I did in my 20's. It's way easier now.

Never married... and the party continues.


I have a few friends.  They seem to give the worst advice ever though, sort of like any relationship thread in GD.


The hell with their advice. You just need a couple wingmen to ease you back into going out and the social scene. Once you're comfortable in that environment again, you can start flying solo without the training wheels. It always helps to have help at first.

Trust me OP, life as a single dude can be good, but it is what you make of it. Women rarely fall into your lap. You have to get out there and put yourself in situations where opportunity can be seized.

Don't waste time thinking about how bad it is to be single. Life is too short. Make being single work for you. You're now free to pursue any woman you want. Have fun with it.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:20:56 AM EDT
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Not really upset about bing single per say...I just don't know how to do it.

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Find one younger that you, before they get all messed up in the head, maybe in the 27-30 range, or live life happy single
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Don't do this.



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I am just trying to take it one day at a time, not really interested in women at the moment.  My friends however are failing to grasp that concept, and keep on trying to hook me up with bar skanks.
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Look at it this way. I was in the same boat as you when I was 32. I had been married for 12 years and got dumped. If that hadn't happened I wouldn't have met my current wife who is a much better person than my ex ever was. I met my current wife in Walmart. She was working there at the time. Since then she has become a nurse. Sometimes things happen for a reason.


I am just trying to take it one day at a time, not really interested in women at the moment.  My friends however are failing to grasp that concept, and keep on trying to hook me up with bar skanks.



Ya gotta slay some dragons to get to the princess dude.  
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Not upset....  Either I am a bad ass that can handle anything that is thrown at me or I am a narcissistic sociopath.
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I'm not sure what to make of GD anymore.  People are married and upset, then they're single and upset..

Hang in op, everyone has their own bag of rocks to carry, remember that.. you're not alone.


Not upset....  Either I am a bad ass that can handle anything that is thrown at me or I am a narcissistic sociopath.



this is a defense mechanism.  I do this too. probably everyone does to some extent.  I know why i do it. past experience that doesn't need discussed here, but my emotions shut off like a faucet. it's scary in it's own way...

good luck, after every shit period,  there comes sun.

if you need some inspiration, go read dragracerart's thread. that thread has me considering tossing my wife out just to see what happens


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I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:28:20 AM EDT
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Ya gotta slay some dragons to get to the princess dude.  
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Look at it this way. I was in the same boat as you when I was 32. I had been married for 12 years and got dumped. If that hadn't happened I wouldn't have met my current wife who is a much better person than my ex ever was. I met my current wife in Walmart. She was working there at the time. Since then she has become a nurse. Sometimes things happen for a reason.


I am just trying to take it one day at a time, not really interested in women at the moment.  My friends however are failing to grasp that concept, and keep on trying to hook me up with bar skanks.



Ya gotta slay some dragons to get to the princess dude.  


I see what you're saying, but being a man whore is just not my thing.
Link Posted: 7/22/2014 2:29:18 AM EDT
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Enlarge your circle of friends.  Go do things you enjoy and meet people doing it.  Try a new gym.  Good luck.
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this is a defense mechanism.  I do this too. probably everyone does to some extent.  I know why i do it. past experience that doesn't need discussed here, but my emotions shut off like a faucet. it's scary in it's own way...

good luck, after every shit period,  there comes sun.

if you need some inspiration, go read dragracerart's thread. that thread has me considering tossing my wife out just to see what happens


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I'm not sure what to make of GD anymore.  People are married and upset, then they're single and upset..

Hang in op, everyone has their own bag of rocks to carry, remember that.. you're not alone.


Not upset....  Either I am a bad ass that can handle anything that is thrown at me or I am a narcissistic sociopath.



this is a defense mechanism.  I do this too. probably everyone does to some extent.  I know why i do it. past experience that doesn't need discussed here, but my emotions shut off like a faucet. it's scary in it's own way...

good luck, after every shit period,  there comes sun.

if you need some inspiration, go read dragracerart's thread. that thread has me considering tossing my wife out just to see what happens




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Guitar Center has a Friday/Saturday night open jam session that I have toyed around with going to (been blaying bass guitar since I was 13).
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Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.
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Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.



Whoa...whoa, WHOA!

Stop right there, my friend.  You're either going to make that place YOURS or move right now.  Rearrange the furniture, paint the walls, replace the floors, the curtains, whatever you need to do to make it YOURS.  

And tell yourself every time you have some crippling memory:  "This is MINE, damn it.  BigW1stCav said so.  That dumb Ohio fucker is right.  This is mine."  

Nothing is more depressing than wandering around something you shared and thinking:  "Oh Geez...here's where she was that time when I farted and she said it smelled like cabbage and earthworms....and here's where I was that time she called me a dickhead."  

Move your bedroom or whatever it takes, but make it all yours.    

Got it?  Do it now!!!  Quit fucking around, and start fucking around!!!
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You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.


I'm always glad to take my game to another level. Wish I had to the time and money. Going out gets expensive.
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You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.


45 goes into 27 just fine. You need to step it up.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.
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I was in your shoes exactly, went to have a few drinks with friends and found a 10 year younger nurse and our 5 year anniversary is coming up in a few months.
On a side note I have a buddy that's been single without so much as a date for 8 years after his 8 year marriage went south
The moral of the story is get out of the basement
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Whoa...whoa, WHOA!

Stop right there, my friend.  You're either going to make that place YOURS or move right now.  Rearrange the furniture, paint the walls, replace the floors, the curtains, whatever you need to do to make it YOURS.  

And tell yourself every time you have some crippling memory:  "This is MINE, damn it.  BigW1stCav said so.  That dumb Ohio fucker is right.  This is mine."  

Nothing is more depressing than wandering around something you shared and thinking:  "Oh Geez...here's where she was that time when I farted and she said it smelled like cabbage and earthworms....and here's where I was that time she called me a dickhead."  

Move your bedroom or whatever it takes, but make it all yours.    

Got it?  Do it now!!!  Quit fucking around, and start fucking around!!!
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.


Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.



Whoa...whoa, WHOA!

Stop right there, my friend.  You're either going to make that place YOURS or move right now.  Rearrange the furniture, paint the walls, replace the floors, the curtains, whatever you need to do to make it YOURS.  

And tell yourself every time you have some crippling memory:  "This is MINE, damn it.  BigW1stCav said so.  That dumb Ohio fucker is right.  This is mine."  

Nothing is more depressing than wandering around something you shared and thinking:  "Oh Geez...here's where she was that time when I farted and she said it smelled like cabbage and earthworms....and here's where I was that time she called me a dickhead."  

Move your bedroom or whatever it takes, but make it all yours.    

Got it?  Do it now!!!  Quit fucking around, and start fucking around!!!


Not back in my house yet, moving back in at the end of the month.  Have a couple of female friends that are going to help me repaint and a few ARFCOM friends coming by to help me do some of the more difficult remodels.  First thing gone will be that fucking hydrandria (sp?) out of the front yard...I've always hated that fucking plant.
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Plenty of members here Can help you with that..
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45 goes into 27 just fine. You need to step it up.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.


45 goes into 27 just fine. You need to step it up.


If she is hideous it doesn't really matter. Lol.

You guys keep on throwing out ages... but you're not saying whether they are 4's or 10's. Lmao.
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I was in your shoes exactly, went to have a few drinks with friends and found a 10 year younger nurse and our 5 year anniversary is coming up in a few months.
On a side note I have a buddy that's been single without so much as a date for 8 years after his 8 year marriage went south
The moral of the story is get out of the basement
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I was in your shoes exactly, went to have a few drinks with friends and found a 10 year younger nurse and our 5 year anniversary is coming up in a few months.
On a side note I have a buddy that's been single without so much as a date for 8 years after his 8 year marriage went south
The moral of the story is get out of the basement


I hope it won't be 8 years.
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If she is hideous it doesn't really matter. Lol.

You guys keep on throwing out ages... but you're not saying whether they are 4's or 10's. Lmao.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.


45 goes into 27 just fine. You need to step it up.


If she is hideous it doesn't really matter. Lol.

You guys keep on throwing out ages... but you're not saying whether they are 4's or 10's. Lmao.


My ex-wife is a solid 8.
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Sad thread is sad
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What is sad about it?
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Who cares about exes?

Greener pastures aplenty out there brother. Go start munching on some grass.
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If she is hideous it doesn't really matter. Lol.

You guys keep on throwing out ages... but you're not saying whether they are 4's or 10's. Lmao.
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No joke.

Marriage of 12 years went south, and now I find my self divorced.

Being 35 and single kind of sucks.  Every woman my age either has kids, is married, or a train wreck.

To old to be hanging out in bars, and truth be told, bar skanks are not really my cup of tea.  

So here I am, trust in women shot, I realized last week that I have not bought clothes for myself in 12 years, now what the hell do I do?

I guess it is currency, motorcycles, hot rods, and tattoos for this guy.


I'm not much younger than you and I still go clubbing and bang chicks in their mid to early 20's.

You're not too old. Step up your game. Lol.


You both need to step up. I'm 41 and banged a 26yo weekend before last.


45 goes into 27 just fine. You need to step it up.


If she is hideous it doesn't really matter. Lol.

You guys keep on throwing out ages... but you're not saying whether they are 4's or 10's. Lmao.


I would throw you an ass pic but your mother probably wouldn't approve.
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Whoa...whoa, WHOA!

Stop right there, my friend.  You're either going to make that place YOURS or move right now.  Rearrange the furniture, paint the walls, replace the floors, the curtains, whatever you need to do to make it YOURS.  

And tell yourself every time you have some crippling memory:  "This is MINE, damn it.  BigW1stCav said so.  That dumb Ohio fucker is right.  This is mine."  

Nothing is more depressing than wandering around something you shared and thinking:  "Oh Geez...here's where she was that time when I farted and she said it smelled like cabbage and earthworms....and here's where I was that time she called me a dickhead."  

Move your bedroom or whatever it takes, but make it all yours.    

Got it?  Do it now!!!  Quit fucking around, and start fucking around!!!
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Everyone should live by themselves at least once in their lives. If you haven't before, then now is the time to learn how.


Yeah I know, stuck in a house that is full of memories, trying to keep myself busy.  I am not afraid of living alone, pretty much have been for a year or so anyway.



Whoa...whoa, WHOA!

Stop right there, my friend.  You're either going to make that place YOURS or move right now.  Rearrange the furniture, paint the walls, replace the floors, the curtains, whatever you need to do to make it YOURS.  

And tell yourself every time you have some crippling memory:  "This is MINE, damn it.  BigW1stCav said so.  That dumb Ohio fucker is right.  This is mine."  

Nothing is more depressing than wandering around something you shared and thinking:  "Oh Geez...here's where she was that time when I farted and she said it smelled like cabbage and earthworms....and here's where I was that time she called me a dickhead."  

Move your bedroom or whatever it takes, but make it all yours.    

Got it?  Do it now!!!  Quit fucking around, and start fucking around!!!

Listen to this man....I mean what the hell are you here for if you don't head this priceless advice only GD can give
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