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Posted: 4/26/2024 3:53:12 PM EDT
A large, popular church in the thriving suburb where I live hosts a monthly singles night. Tonight it's at one of those dinner-and-a-movie type places. I did a year-long men's Bible study at this church a couple of years ago, and while I woship and serve elsewhere now, I know they are solid.
I am 49 and somewhat interested in attending one of these events, but I wonder if I'll be adding to a crowd of mostly dudes. It wouldn't be a huge problem, as I would resolve to be social anyway, and I could always stand to make friends with other Christian men. The goal would be to meet single Christian women, however, which I think are numerous in my community, but who knows if this is how any of them will be spending their Friday night. What's your guess? |
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At least you are going to an event where there will be women at or close to your age as opposed to that one guy on here who was wanting to hook up with teenagers at church. Nothing wrong with meeting a woman at church as long as you don’t make it weird and creepy.
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Well if I don't go at least I have this thread for tonight's entertainment
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This thread needs a poll. My vote is sausage fest. Go check it out and report back. Let's not turn this into a safe thread.
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The women who attend will certainly be Heavy and Hairy.
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Quoted: At least you are going to an event where there will be women at or close to your age as opposed to that one guy on here who was wanting to hook up with teenagers at church. Nothing wrong with meeting a woman at church as long as you don’t make it weird and creepy. View Quote Attached File |
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What denomination?
I'm still gonna bet there are more women there than men. Women like church more than men. |
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I wouldn't waste my time with a 30-50's single night if you want kids. Find yourself a younger, healthier, and more biologically viable woman.
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I’d go, find a needy woman and hit the shit out of it. Our church has some divorced hotties that are well off. High Income area. Get a Sugar Momma.
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Quoted: I kind of thought that going incognito would be a good way to test the waters. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Show up as a woman and see where the night takes you. A burka would be one way to do that. Kharn |
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According to GD, church was one of the places you should go to meet a 'good' girl so you should follow GD's advice as it's never wrong
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I think you'll have more 50-ish women there than 30-ish. I doubt it will be mostly men.
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The ratio of women to men attending church is like 2-1, and a lot of those guys are just there because their wife or mom made them go. Women are probablyore likely to be actively seeking a man that goes to church, so I'd bet the ratio at least would be good.
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Quoted: The broads are there looking for a wallet. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: ... Men like this are why contemporary woman act like whores. The broads are there looking for a wallet. Retirement husband. From what I’ve seen with older friends the market shifts dramatically in favor of men after age 45 or so. That is because men will date down in age, but much more rarely date up in age. |
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Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself.
Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha. |
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Quoted: Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself. Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha. View Quote Yeah that the end of the day it's a numbers game. You have to put yourself out there. I took a drawing class (no credit) at night at a large university. It was 28 women, me and a retired doctor. Get out there and do things you like to do that women go to. |
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It certainly couldn't hurt. Better than going to a bar. When a few of the ladies that I went to church with found out that I was single. At first sided with my ex wife. But then after she moved out of state...The same ones were disappointed that I was dating someone.
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Quoted: Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself. Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha. View Quote Tinder is full of thots, fatties, and the mentally ill. Don't lower your standards OP. |
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Well, they happen monthly, so what do you have to lose?
I predict 70% men, 10% older ladies, 10% fatties, and 10% reasonable looking women who are more into talking with each other about how there aren't any decent men who are 6' tall and make $200k. |
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While doing a similar thing, I was told by other group members that food increases the number of ladies that attend.
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Quoted: I wouldn't waste my time with a 30-50's single night if you want kids. Find yourself a younger, healthier, and more biologically viable woman. View Quote LOL OP is 49. He would be in his 70's when he kids would graduate HS even if he could find someone half his age who thought his net worth was was enough. |
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