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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO? What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects: Looks, of course -4 Sexuality- 1 Friend - 8 Provider-7 Emotional Support -8 Parent (or potential parent)-10 Cook -10 Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best. View Quote 6.85. Probably too high, seeing as im single |
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Looks: 8 Sexuality: 10 Friend: 8.5 Provider: 9 Emotional Support: 7 Parent (or potential parent): 9.5 Cook: 9.5 I average out at an 8.75 I have current references as well |
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My wife could have done better, but she doesn't know that.
I'm pretty good at everything. I'm not the best at anything. |
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO? What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects: Looks, of course Sexuality Friend Provider Emotional Support Parent (or potential parent) Cook Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best. View Quote Looks, of course 5 Sexuality 10 Friend 10 Provider 8.9 Emotional Support 10 Parent (or potential parent) 10 Cook 87 |
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Looks, of course: 8 (I'm a good lookin cat)
Sexuality: 10 (Being married as long as we have, I know how to press the right buttons - every time) Friend:: 6 (I could do better) Provider: 10 Emotional Support: 8 Parent: 9 I'm a great Dad Cook: 0 ( I can make eggs and can work the grill. That is all.) |
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Looks: 8 Sexuality: 10 Friend: 8.5 Provider: 9 Emotional Support: 7 Parent (or potential parent): 9.5 Cook: 9.5 I average out at an 8.75 I have current references as well I could bump two of those to solid 10s |
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Looks, of course - Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either.
Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it. Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back. Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect. Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever. Parent (or potential parent) - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad. Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry. I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch. |
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Looks, of course - Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either. Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it. Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back. Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect. Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever. Parent (or potential parent) - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad. Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry. I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch. View Quote You undervalue yourself. 10! |
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A big fat 0 according to my SO. I just asked her last night, after we had "disagreements" all fucking day. BITCH!
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Looks, of course 8 overall. It would go up a half point if I lost about 12-15 pounds. Getting a bit of padding. Sexuality Solid 9. She's ready, I'm ready. She's not ready, I'm still ready. Friend 8 here. A little room for improvement. Provider 10. I'd give myself a freaking 12 if the scale allowed it. Emotional Support 6. I'm not too touchy, feely with other peoples problems, including my wife and kids. Tell me a problem, I'll give you multiple solutions. Just don't whine to me about it. Parent (or potential parent) 8. I have 5 kids, but I lose my patience too quickly most of the time. I'm best when they are under 5, or over 14. The middle gets me. Cook 8. I have stuff I do great, and love to cook, but I tend to leave a mess in my wake. Overall, 8.14 View Quote |
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A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way. But thank you, baby. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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You undervalue yourself. 10! A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way. But thank you, baby. Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN. |
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I always think I suck, But my wife tells me her friends are jealous of her and how I treat her.
So I'll say a 5 but my wife probably would say a 9 or 10. I know that when I'm in pain (which is most the time) I tend to not be as nice as I could be |
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Looks, of course 7
Sexuality 7 Friend 9 Provider 9 Emotional Support 7 Parent (or potential parent) 7 Cook 10 I dont know how much firearms collection or proficiency adds to the curve. Same thing with beard length and girth. I figure I'm a solid 12 though with the latter added. |
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My wife could and did have opportunities for someone with a score of 10. She picked a guy that averages a seven and I got a zero on cooking............go figure.
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO? What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects: Looks, of course Sexuality Friend Provider Emotional Support Parent (or potential parent) Cook Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best. View Quote 10, 10, 10, 10, 10, 0. |
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I could be better, I'll be honest I've become more jaded and less tolerant as I've aged. I blame ARFcom
Looks 7? Sexuality 8, she seems happy Friend 6 Provider my view 10, hers 6 Emotional Support 8 Parent 9 Cook 5, I'm not a great cook but I try. |
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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7 Friend: 8 Provider: 0 Emotional Support: 8 Parent (or potential parent): 9 Cook: 5 |
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Been told I'm the worst they had, and the best they had. I didn't believe either.
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This is almost as entertaining as the "What's your IQ?" threads.
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Looks, of course - Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either. Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it. Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back. Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect. Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever. Parent (or potential parent) - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad. Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry. I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch. View Quote Not to leg hump, but you should get at least an 8 on looks for your eyes alone |
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I would say overall a 6 or 7 but I think she would rate me higher.
Emotional Support - 1.5 I am not very good at this and never have been. |
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Looks, of course - Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either. Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it. Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back. Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect. Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever. Parent (or potential parent) - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad. Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry. I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch. You undervalue yourself. 10! And someone told me that there were no unicorns. |
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I just lost my wedding ring so I'd say I'm pretty far down, there
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87 (far too high almost a problem as I far far exceed her needs and need more lol) 7 8 6 10 7 |
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None of those matter - lets talk about being a provider $$$,$$$.
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You undervalue yourself. 10! A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way. But thank you, baby. Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN. There is no scale for such awesomeness. |
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Looks, of course. 7.5 Sexuality. 8 Friend. 10 Provider. 9 Emotional Support. 7 Parent (or potential parent) 8.5 Cook. 8 |
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Looks, of course - 6
Sexuality - 8 Friend - 9 Provider - 6 Emotional Support - 8 Parent (or potential parent) - 8 (I might be rating myself a little high on this one, because I don't have any kids of my own.) Cook - 8 Overall 7.5. Come at me, ladies. |
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Oh, you're not being very realistic. Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Looks: 6 Sexuality: 7 Friend: 8 Provider: 0 Emotional Support: 8 Parent (or potential parent): 9 Cook: 5 Oh, you're not being very realistic. Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated. IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed. I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household. As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5. Thanks for all the faith and compliments. |
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Looks 8
Sexuality 9 Friend 8 Provider 10 Emotional Support 6 Parent 10 Cook 1 |
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO? What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects: Looks, of course Sexuality Friend Provider Emotional Support Parent (or potential parent) Cook Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best. View Quote LOC:5 Sex:2 Friend:7 Provider:6 ES:5 P:5 C:7 |
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IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed. I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household. As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5. Thanks for all the faith and compliments. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Looks: 6 Sexuality: 7 Friend: 8 Provider: 0 Emotional Support: 8 Parent (or potential parent): 9 Cook: 5 Oh, you're not being very realistic. Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated. IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed. I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household. As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5. Thanks for all the faith and compliments. I can't come down on you too hard about the looks because you and I both suffer those feelz, though I disagree with your number. Soooo.... who's garden is it that you work in?!? You can do things in a kitchen that I could only dream of. You're my hero. I wubs you all time. |
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Looks: 6 Sexuality: 7 Friend: 8 Provider: 0 Emotional Support: 8 Parent (or potential parent): 9 Cook: 5 http://s2.quickmeme.com/img/78/7838d0f32bd50b6727adcffa38403c35ecf64795db85764c5830634b73800c6c.jpg Your number is upside down. This |
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