To be fair, Pope had a long list of dealers pissed at him too. He'd often promise two (or more) dealers the same spot of tables & then leave poor Tammy to sort it out.......... He was often moody & mercurial, leading to ill feelings for no logical reason at all. One show I worked for Specialty Arms when the Insta-check first began, the phone system went down completely but the computer link still worked. So Specialty called them in to their shop & they'd call back with the approval #. Pope then decrees that Specialty's owner would then do this for EVERY dealer in order to make things "fair". Needless to say, this became a turd in a punchbowl.
Promoters are often twins of gun shop owners. Independent, opinionated & stubborn. Too often owners & promoters refuse to compromise & this again leads to much butt hurt.
For the record, I've only worked shows in TN but I've done them from Memphis to Morristown. I've NEVER seen a "dealer only" break room anywhere. Most places simply didn't have the space or the floor plan to do so.
Ken's Guns is a good example of getting screwed. He got mad at Goodman, got mad at RK & now has virtually no shows to attend. I don't think he does the Great American circuit although he'd be a big fish in a small pond there, IMO.
I know there's the promoter's side of things as well. I've heard many horror/funny stories from Tammy as she did shows for close to 20 years. Dealers aren't choirboys either, shall we say...........