If you don't train weekly, bi-weekly at the least, you probably suck as badly as I do. Sure, you can stand on a line and put holes in a defenseless sheet of paper with the outline of a bad guy on it, but forget performing during a dynamic situation where you may actually be called upon to use that weapon you carry around with you everywhere.
That's my biggest fear. I have the gun, I have some modest training, but all that training has done is put me on notice -- I'm not as good as I thought I was (and I never thought very highly of myself as a shooter to begin with). At least, I thought to myself, I'm *mentally* prepared, which is half the battle, right? Wrong again.
Until you're pressed into some simulated situation (where you know your life is NOT on the line) you don't know what you don't know, which is likely to be somewhere in between little and nothing when the dust settles. Talk is cheap, and we seem to naturally talk ourselves into feeling comfortable with having a deadly weapon on our person or by our bedside even though we've never been trained to employ it outside of the occasional range visit. If I can reliably put holes in a small circle on paper I should naturally be able to repeat that in real life, shouldn't I?
Then you make the smart decision to take a quality training class, like Lighthorse Tactical's "Home Defense 1" course I took yesterday with seven other students (8 students is their max). That's their entry-level HD course, and after 8 hours of very basic training I'm amazed at how much I didn't know or even consider (most people think I'm a reasonably bright guy, suckers). Having a loaded .45 on your nightstand is little more than useless without having at least this one course under your belt. It hasn't yet been 24 hours and I already feel the skills going stale.
I guess I'm just ranting / pontificating here, but I'm beginning to realize the more classes I take the more classes I need to take. I personally view carrying or using a gun for home defense without training as owning a plane without a pilot's license. If you're not a pilot, you shouldn't be flying. If you're not training, you shouldn't be carrying, or be put into a position to use, defensive guns.
I've seen a bunch of different courses and instructors / instruction companies. I'm sure many of them are good, but most also charge egregious prices and are run by guys who took a few courses themselves but were never in a real-world team or on a job where those skills were actually used on a daily basis.
Lighthorse is a bit of a hike for me, but many of their guys are former or current active SWAT. They're not clearing caves of Taliban in Afghanistan, they're in the US facing the very same threats that you and I would face and have developed tactics designed specifically for those threats we're likely to face, if that fateful day ever comes.
I don't need to know how to run body armor and a chest rig with a ballistic helmet and shoot from "dynamic prone" (though I want to, but that's another day). I just need to be trained on a practical skill-set for the time I'm out with my wife at a movie, or in a restaurant, or when we're in bed and some gang-banging meth-head breaks into my house at 2 AM with a knife or a .38 and doesn't care who he has to go through to get his next score (or 2 or 3 of them). These are the scenarios these guys face day-in and day-out. These are the important skills needed to stand a chance to avoid becoming their next victim.
$125 for 8-9 hours of skills and mindset training that may save my life or that of my family one day, $250 if you're smart enough to bring your wife (some did). That's a ridiculously small investment that your average welfare recipient can afford. You can never use skills you don't have, whether stale or not.
Even if you think you suck with a gun, the reality is you're probably worse if you don't train (Newsflash: Going to the range after watching a video is not training). LHT has a magic formula with good, down-to-earth guys who don't walk around like Demigods of the firearms training world, an awesome, epic facility, real-world shooters who actually use the skills they teach to save lives every day, all at a price that seems too good to be true.
If we can get Curt to retire from his SWAT job, maybe we can get him and his boys to start teaching weekday classes, too.