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Thanks. I'm on the fence. My priority are my kids. This will crush them. On the other hand I can't take the bipolar manic cycles any longer.
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Sorry to hear that (unless of course, your happy about it)
Thanks. I'm on the fence. My priority are my kids. This will crush them. On the other hand I can't take the bipolar manic cycles any longer.
That's called menopause. Counseling and or help from a physician.
One minute everything's great, next you're a piece of shit who doesn't understand or respect her AND her opinion. Keeping in mind all you did was ask if she was going to finish the spinach. If not you would, since there wasn't enough to justify them as leftovers. Just one of many different ways they "
blow up" . Be it dinner time, on the way home from a movie, or out of the blue.
HOWEVER
If she's past 56/ over menopause, then perhaps proper help should be the next step.
If counseling / therapy, or meds don't resolve the issue. Using the kids as an excuse isn't the way to go, or should it be.
I've seen folks who
"thought" having another kid or staying together
"for the kids" would resolve THEIR Issues. Instead it made the kids victims of their parents refusal to do the right thing. Which would have been separating or divorce
You can't take it, do something. Depending how long you've been together. IF she's ever held your coat, stepped up when you couldn't, jumped in when it was needed, stood by you through your dark hours. You should try to fix the issues first.
You should also keep any "info" regarding her physical or mental state (as you hinted in your op) off the web. Especially if it doesn't work and gets messy.