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Went out of business.  

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Ill add to this and tell you how to find chicks.

Go anywhere.  Bars are fine.  Bring a friend if you can makes it easier.  Concerts at bars are better if you can't get someone to come with you. Makes it seem like you have a reason to be there other than to pick up chicks.

It's a numbers game.

If there are 100 women at a bar.  five of them will probably talk to you.  One will probably go on a date with you.   If you only try to talk to one or two your odds fucking suck.   If you approach a girl in a large group your odds suck.  You want to focus on the girls in groups three or smaller or you will get hated on from several directions and get nowhere.  You don't need pickup lines or any other bullshit.  Just walk up and say Hi My name is.......  Whats your name?  Ask if they come to that bar often or about the band playing.  If you don't know the band  say a friend told you they were good so you came to check it out.      Small concerts are the best because it gives you something to talk about to break the ice.  Dont brag about yourself.  Only answer her questions and tell her about things relevant to the conversation.    

   Dont waste a ton of time though unless you are really hitting it off.  AAfter maybe ten minutes of connversation get her phone number. Don't ask for it just get it.   Its a subliminal trick that works well if the girl is half interested.      For example DONT say.  Can I have your phone number so we can do something some time?"  Posing it as a question for some reason results in more shut downs.  DO say  "Let me get your number so can call you and we can do something sometime"  

  Its also best to have an idea of what you want to do for a first date to increase odds of a yes.   My best results when single were outdoors type dates like hiking camelback or going to the lake to go cat fishing or something like that.  I don't know why that works better than dinner and movies but I assume it has something to do with it giving them more space and less pressure for intimacy.  

If you get shut down after 10-20 minutes move on.  If you get a yes  tell the girl you gotta run and you will call her to set something up then leave.   Makes you look less needy and creepy like you are trying to get laid.

Dont get frustrated.  Most will say no until you get more used to approaching women this way but if you go out every week and play the odds you WILL find women to date.   As mentioned above though your odds increase the better you take care of yourself.  Get in decent shape if you are not.  That makes a HUGE difference.  Clothing doesn't seem to matter much as long as it's clean though.   When I used to DJ in scottsdale all the time I had no issues picking up fancy chicks wearing faded cammo and jeans.  Confidence beats clothing and you will have more confidence if you take care of yourself physically.    Wear cologne as well but don't soak yourself in it.  Just a little on the wrists and rub on yoru neck.      Armani Acqua di gio is like a chick super magnet.  if applied lightly they will talk to you just to see if it is you they are smelling.  Seriously that shit is the bomb.

Its always easier to meet chicks through freinds and stuff but if you feel like battling it out at the bars this is all the advice I can pass on.  Play the numbers and you will occasionally and sometimes often get dates.


ETA: Smile.  If you don't look like your having a good time they will assume your not fun to hang out with.  good mood is essential.







 

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I'm married with kids now, it's been a while since I've been there.

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He just wants to know how to get em, he did not say anything about keeping em.

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I haven't shot in well over a year. My other hobbies are way too... nerdy.

Gaming, Reading sci fi literature, fixing up my house, working on the yard, drinking stouts... and I do like to bike ride, but I haven't done it in a while. Hence why I'm about to.

I just wish this coffee was colder so I can slam it.  

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My wife is a flight attendant, she has some hot flight attendant friends

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Hit up the local game stores,  card, rpg etc...they typically have an schedule of weekly games you can sit in on and learn....find yerself a gamer chick

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Hah! I've been to table top gaming gatherings. They are like 99% dudes.  

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That was... kind of the point of this thread? What are some places to "get off the interwebs".



Sure... I can go bike riding more, go walk my dog at the dog park, go scuba diving, and *STILL* never meet women because those places aren't exactly crowded with women, nor are conducive to meeting women.  

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Solid advice.


But, I recommend backpage

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I've slayed a couple from the dog park. They even had 2 legs!  

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Yep.  Fatten the wallet, flatten the abs, and you'll have more pussy than you can shake a stick at.



Hell, just fattening the wallet usually does the trick.

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Shit, as long as you are confident and FUNNY, you don't need money. Especially for cougars.