Thanks folks. Actually, we are looking for a house, but to rent. There seems to be a handful of places in the South Tampa area in the 1500-2000 range for a 3 bedroom with fenced yard which is what I really need. I'd like the dog and cats to have space outside.
I had considered across the bridge and got the same response from my sponsor on post...only one way in and out can be a bad thing.
As far as areas like Brandon or Riverview, I have also come across those. Militarybyowner.com seemed to have most of the places listed as being in those areas. Gave me the impression that lots of people do just suck it up and take the time to make the commute. I'm spoiled living super close to post right now and mentally I am not excited about anything that involves 45 minutes or more in my car but I may just have to suck it up as well.
Is South Tampa safe enough? The properties I am looking at seem nice enough but if its the expensive area and I am capping out on the cheaper end of things than maybe I am looking at rougher streets without knowing it. I see the suggestion for checking crime rates in certain areas. I can do that.