Haven't been there in a few years and looking for some stuff to do.

My Pop lives there, this will be a family thing with my wife and 4 year old little girl. No golf or shooting activities..... We will be hitting the beaches and probably hit Ft. Meyers...maybe Busch Gardens one day.

I know the Tiki Bar at The Vanderbilt Inn is no longer there....that use to be our favorite spot. Anything else like that now?

There is a lot of night life at Mercado ( Vanderbilt Beach Rd and 41 ). The Beach, outlet stores and a boat tour might fit in.  That should keep you busy for a week, time flies when you're having fun!

Barefoot beach is a good place to go to the beach. Go after 5pm to get in free or its $8....its quiet and more private,
Mercado for night life and 5th avenue too.
Miromar outlets, gulf coast town center (bass pro shop here) are good for shopping....search a little more back...they had more stuff on another post a month or two ago.