I think what she meant that it was overkill was that because it was a framed wall (even with a steel skin and plywood layers) that someone could break through.
My plan for the room is to have it on a separate alarm system than the house or a separate zone with door & motion sensors and the keypad inside the room. I want to know whenever someone is in there.
Less than ideal I know, I wish it were poured/reinforced walls but it isn't like those are indestructible either in terms of breaking in. I just want to keep the little ones out, slow down bad guys and have some protection from tornadoes above and beyond sheetrock in my walkout basement.
Honestly I'm still leaning towards the Sturdy as it shouts Don't Even Try Me and isn't that much more than 12ga security doors. Once the walls are finished a burglar would have to start cutting the walls to find out if it was concrete or framed. By then I'd be aware and LEOs would even get there in plenty of time.
The steel doors you see on commercial buildings and businesses are about $1500 from what I gather and that is without locks.