What are you actually going to be shooting at? A moving target with shot or larger game with slugs?
There is no magic bullet for bad eye sight and wing shooting. If you feel you need help, first you need true shooting glasses. Taller lenses and frames means you still have unobstructed corrected vision with your face pressed into the stock. For a dot, Burris fastfire might be a good choice.
What you are failing to take into account is what happens to your cheek weld when you mount a scope on a shotgun. This is how novices turn $200 shotguns into $1000 gun projects. People have to buy everything twice to get it right. You are making that exact mistake by starting with the optic.
Tell us what you want to shoot, we will tell you what to build.
Just as an FYI I prefer red dots or fixed power 1.5x-2x scopes for my rifled slug barrel. You don't need a lot of magnification in typical shotgun ranges, but yeah a 1x4 will work for slugs. Odds are if you eat the scope in your eye, it will be while sighting in on the bench.