Thanks for the assistance, even with the lack of info.
Right now I have an aftermarket connector and trigger reset spring so when I go home tonight and detail strip the frame and slide I'm going back to stock configuration. Thing is that this just starting occurring within the last month or so, those aftermarket parts have been in there for at least six months by now.
I DID do a 25 cent trigger job with some Flitz and a polishing wheel (no grinding or removing of material), I inspected the trigger bar and the connector where I polished and I see no deformation or damage. The Safety plunger looks worn on the head of it but it's a part I did not touch. After the problem started happening I thought I may have damaged the slide stop lever spring by putting the pins back in the wrong order, so I purchased the extended OEM lever and installed, no change.
After breaking it down tonight and cleaning if I find anything worn I'll snap a pic. Thanks again guys!