Depending on the quality of the lower parts kit or if the lower receiver was made to spec, these can sometimes be tight.
The key is to use a roll pin holder punch, bevel the edges of the pin, and apply a little lube (oil or grease, whatever is handy) and to FIRMLY support both ears. People break those off by nut fully supporting the little ears. I have a small block of wood I use for this, then come down sharply with a hammer. Some are just worse than others. It is very normal for these to be tight.
If you use a roll pin start punch, or a flat punch, you can often damage the end of the pin before it gets rolling. This is why I use a roll pin holder punch to drive it the majority of the way, then finish with a properly sized roll pin punch.
Generally - what you care about is the bolt catch. Before assembling - you should pass the roll pin through the bolt catch. If it does not pass through easily, it will cause the bolt catch to hang up once installed and require a break in period before it will work as designed. There used to be lots of LPK's with out of spec bolt catch holes, and oversized pins (Palmetto State Armory in particular) but that doesnt seem as common anymore.
Regardless, I always test this before installing any bolt catch.
For installing the pin, there save a lot of time and limit damage risk:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01B3NU46C?tag=vglnk-c102-20
But for years I used this (even though they are really short and having a long punch reduces damage risk and makes it easier:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00QO2XGRW?tag=vglnk-c102-20