Your best bet may be to get a lefty complete upper or complete rifle from Stag Arms if you can get a good deal on it (LEO discount maybe)...If you want to do
a build with him get the complete upper and then you can build a complete lower with him together...
As a Southpaw that shoots many righty AR's sometimes you may get brass to the face and neck, etc and that is a PITA...So a lefty AR is a safe bet in that regard,
also, a ambi safety selector is a good Idea, you may what to consider an extended charging latch, just makes things easier...While a muzzle comp may not be
necessary due to the low recoil it can help to reduce perceived recoil even further (I happen to like the Miculek style comps)...You may also want to look Into a
Magpul ambi style pistol grip to help round out the package...
As far as triggers go, the lighter and crisper the better (within reason, don't go less than 3 lbs.), It can make a huge difference in shooting comfort and accuracy,
I'm a big fan of the dope in trigger modules like CMC versions and they are very easy to Install
One other note you may want to consider, the shorter 16" Carbine length barrels are very loud (produce a lot of muzzle blast), so a 20'' barrel will help keep it
to a more acceptable level and may help with recoil reduction, etc.
Hope this helps, and best wishes to you and your Dad...Happy Thanksgiving.