Mine (AP PRO) is a bit oblong, but not too bad. The lower you turn it down, the less it is. But in the daytime I have mine up to like 1 below full out. Either way mine's not bad enough to worry about. I have had problems with them before though. Looked more like an octopus and was really annoying. I think my current prescription plays better than those times in the past. I have seen some be really crisp though. Vortex Sparc II was one that I didn't notice any flaring. Super crisp. So it may be a little of both. Optic and eyes. Not really sure why the differences.
Some say if you put up your rear sight, if you're running cowitness, it will help clear it up. I tried it and didn't really notice any difference. FWIW. But maybe I'm crazy. I'm assuming it means you should use the small ap.
I've had my AP PRO for several months and I'm just starting to warm up to it. But the plain fact is, if I'm shooting past 15 yards, my older eyes could really use magnification. But for HD distances, yeah, the AP is great. And yes, it's better than the irons at distance because you're only focusing on the target and one focal plane. But I'm not sure it really helps me that much at distance. The other upside to magnification is if it's a bump in the night, and you forget to put your glasses on, or don't have time to, you can actually see with a scope without your glasses. LOL.
But to me the biggest strength of an RDS is close range in low light. Or low light in general, the reticle just becomes so much easier to pick out when there's not a lot of light. Well another big upside is eye relief is not really a thing with an rds, as opposed to a scope. Or the irons for that matter.
Moral of the story, don't get old and have your eyes go bad.
And actually the other moral is I don't think there is a perfect optic solution for all situations. Of course I haven't tried them all, but they all have their upsides and downsides......