Gents, this is almost always a matter of excessive spring pressure. There isn't much wrong with springs, but the spring hole of the pistol grip can vary, thus exerting different amount of pressure on the detent.
Head over to BAD's industry forum and you'll find many FAQ articles I wrote during my time at Battle Arms (as you can probably divine, I am no longer there
I have left to start another company, soon to be active here again as a manufacturer)
The same thing can happen with any selector, not any particular brand. We spent a great deal of time perfecting the geometry of the detent groove, depth, shoulder height, detent hole depth and its "ramp" up to the groove, I also spent a lot of time dealing with customers that had this symptom.
Now and then there were out of spec centers that would cause premature wear, but these are rather rare. What a selector manufacturer can't control is the grip and receiver you have, both can be the source of tolerance stacking.
I sent detents that had similar wear (got them from a customer) to KNS, which proceeded to test the hardness of the detents. Their hardness was up to spec, KNS suggested it may be excessive spring tension (which I already suspected to be the case but did not tell KNS), after a replacement center and detents failed to solve the problem.
Clip off a coil of spring at a time and give that a try over the next few dozen rotations. An extra spring is provided in the retail kit so you'll always have an intact spring, that was one of the reasons we decided to include the spring when nobody else did