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If it works in your gun and you want to shoot it, shoot it world won't stop rotating.
This is the only thing I can agree on with you.
Steel can be incredibly hard, but steel cartridge cases are made from fairly soft steel-no harder than the brass used in cases.
Steel cases indeed don't expand like brass to seal the chamber. Steel isn't as "springy" as brass. This allows gasses and soot to flow backward into the front part of the chamber. But only a little gunk at a time. And if the case hasn't expanded enough to seal the chamber, how can it cause extraction problems? It can't, but the soot can
if you let it build up by not cleaning it out.
Steel cases need a coating to prevent rust. NOBODY uses "lacquer" today, even the stuff that looks like lacquer is a plastic of some kind. It does NOT come off or build up in chambers. This is something people blame their extraction problems on when it's actually that they don't bother to clean their chambers. The US government experimented with steel cases with a zinc coating during WWII-it worked very well.
Daddy didn't have access to Russian ammo plants where all the tooling to make steel cases is all set up and running. Daddy missed out.
Those people who said "don't" probably just passed on what they heard at the gun shop. And unless they could demonstrate exactly how using steel ammo had kicked their daughters and got their dogs pregnant, I would give them exactly as much credence as any other uninformed person giving advice. They may mean well, but if they don't know what they're talking about, that advice is worthless.
Remember, the Soviets kept half of Europe under their boot heels for 50 years using steel cased ammunition; that's not something you can do if your ammunition causes failures and wears out guns.