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You will get into and out of more trouble with your mouth than with anything else. Treat people with respect without being a pushover.
Presence and demeanor are important. If you look like a bag of ass or let people run you, you're going to get hurt or killed.
When you decide that it's time to use force, use enough force and use it early enough. Hesitation will get you hurt.
Pick your battles carefully. A custodial arrest may not be worth the fight if you can write up the case and request a warrant.
Bottom line, you're not going to save the world and you're only one guy. Be safe.
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That was very well said. I used to be a parole officer working very rural areas where police backup would be 30 minutes away if things went well. At my agency parole officers did searches, arrests, prisoner transports, and j committments on police officer holds to the state mental hospital.
Know when to carefully back away and come back another day. Catching someone with a bag of dope is not worth being shot over. If things look strange, they probably are, even if you can't immediately define why they look weird. Later on, you will be able to describe the situation in your report after your brain and the world slows down...and you will still be in one piece. In 25 years, I was never once criticized by anyone who answered my request for backup, as other officers want to see YOU go home safe too. I was never told anything like "you were being a pussy, you could have handled that in your own". The flip side of that is really simple, that you do the same thing for them when requested.
The part about being anxious about dangerous calls simply means that you are smart enough to realize how dangerous things could be. I never like being assigned to partner up with someone who said they never got scared. That meant they were either too stupid to recognize danger, or that they thought they were invulnerable,..like John Wayne. Either one of those could get me hurt.