Well, the retardation of Attorney #1's paralegal (or, in fairness, what he's told her to do...) has decided it for me. She won't schedule the preliminary appointment, or even tell me which office the meeting would be set up at, without a bunch of information. First of all, we already discussed all but one of the items over the phone. She has the information already. If she can't keep track of phone conversations, I want nothing to do with them. Secondly, it's simply a consult / preliminary meeting. It should not be like pulling teeth to simply get an appointment and address. I suppose it's your choice if that's what you want your first impression to be, but I'll find someone else. On top of all that, the paralegal's email address isn't even @thelegalfirmname.com -- it's a freebie email address. May not go to the skill of the attorney, but it's one more thing. Never mind that I can't be assured that she is using a secure password.
Attorney #2 was super easy to deal with, and seemed significantly more professional. Scheduled the appointment, gave me the office address without any drama, and gave me a list of questions / items as a starter for the meeting. Poof! Decision made.