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The IRS does not care about what a state court order says. They only care when a child is claimed twice. The first parent to file their taxes usually wins with the IRS.
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My understanding is they have to have custody or care for at least 6mo out of the year to claim.. Child support doesn't make a difference... Actual care for the dependent does..
Yea I think this is right. The IRS doesn't give a flip what that state court order says. If you don't qualify under IRS rules for the exemption you don't qualify.
The IRS does not care about what a state court order says. They only care when a child is claimed twice. The first parent to file their taxes usually wins with the IRS.
I had this happen to me once...
OP, you have 2 issues, one is a family court matter where you contend your settlement agreement wasn't followed. The other is with the IRS.
As far as the IRS is concerned, you can take the exemption on your taxes if you are legally entitled to it under the IRS rules (which I recall as more than 50% support for more than 6 months) or the other parent waives their right to take the exemption pursuant to a divorce agreement.
Assuming you qualify to take the exemption under the current IRS rules, you could pick your fight with the ex through the IRS otherwise you will have to pick your fight in family court.
As the person I quoted said, the first person to take the exemption normally wins and the penalty for losing can be harsh with penalties, interest and non-monetary penalties (like if you are say you are eligible for EIC because of the kid and you lose, you won't be able for take it again for a while).
In my case she filed first using the exemption in my year so I picked my fight through the IRS by filing my return claiming him too and waiting for the letter from the IRS. The IRS assumes that the first person is the correct one so I had to prove I was entitled to it under the IRS rules.
I ended up sending them all the documents they requested and the IRS sent me a letter allowing my taking of the exemption. I expected them to go after her but in the end, they let her keep it and merely sent her a warning not to do it again.
Note: The documents the IRS wanted didn't really show the things the law required (like where he slept each night) but I suppose that the IRS wanted them since they were easier to prove. For example, I had to send documents from my child's doctor which showed that my name and address were on his medical records. Also I had to send school records that showed my name and address. The idea being that the IRS assumed that since my name and address were the ones used on available records then the kid must live with me. I had other records including journals and calendars as to where the kid was each night but the IRS didn't care. I had the journals because the ex kept giving up her visitation and if she were to fall below a certain percentage of the nights, so under Florida law that would change the child support numbers.