Whatever the method you use, the main thing people who "can't sharpen" need to understand is what you're trying to accomplish. It doesn't change with the method.
Going left to right, a magnified cross section of your blade. Left is dull with the ideal edge geometry in red. That red geometry needs to be consistent, it doesn't necessarily need to be flat, or concave, or convex - it needs to be
consistent along the length of the blade. Next to the right, the stone/belt/diamond/whatever in green, establishing your bevel. The blue line is the burr. The burr is formed because your grinding tool requires a particular amount of pressure to cut, no matter what kind of cutting instrument it is, it needs pressure. The steel can only support itself at a certain thickness before the pressure necessary to cut overwhelms it, and it flexes away. This is also referred to as the wire edge and it's important. I've drawn it flexing to the left. You know the right side is "sharp" when you put your finger under the left side and can feel that burr as you pull your fingertip across it. No burr? Not sharp. Keep stoning. It's called a wire edge because in the next step, with many alloys, when you strop this away, it will often peel right off in a thin wire that you can see. It's generally .001" or .0005" thick, depending on the alloy, angle, and method of sharpening. Stropping removes it by 2 actions, bending it away from the base metal, back and forth until it fatigues, and also if you're using a compound, through another abrasive process. Note the green line is a more obtuse angle than the sharpening line. This is necessary to really remove the burr rather than creating a false edge with a burr that rolls over the first time you cut with it.
When you're done, you get the right most in blue, and that's sharp. The degree of sharpness will be the product of a number of different variables, such as how polished the edge is, the alloy and thickness behind the edge, and angle of the bevel will determine how thin of a point can be sustained.
This might be elementary to most but I find a lot of people don't understand the burr and the importance of it in sharpening. If you haven't "worked up a burr" you haven't taken the edge far enough down to be sharp. If you haven't removed the burr, it may have rolled over and is performing like it's dull.