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Been married 18 years and yes I get a blowjob once a week.

mostly I have to instigate it

she will be in the bathtub and I walk in naked with my hard pecker.

She just smiles and says your gonna make me work tonite.

 I said yep don't want you getting lazy

Or at night I get naked and when she gets out of the bathroom I'm laying there with a hard dick and smiling at her.

This sounds crude, but as a married man your dick needs to be in the wife's mouth at least once a week

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Isn't that one of the reasons to get married?

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Yeah, sad but true.  It's a long story.  Nothing mean about it, it's the truth.  Either it gets fixed now or never.

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That's what guys think they're buying into when they give up their freedom to become martially enslaved.
Then the woman pulls the rug out from under them and not only will she stop giving blowjobs, she'll stop putting out entirely.
That'll happen pretty soon after she's done popping out the last kid she wants
Then she'll blame YOU for her lack of sexual interest. You know..if only you'd help out around the house more. She's so tired from doing all of that housework (occasionally)
If you're really unlucky she'll blame her birth control for ruining her sex drive. Then she'll blame the early onset on menopause...a decade before most women even think about menopause.
Oh, and when all of that stops, she'll divorce you.
Welcome to Marriage 101.

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Are you referring to single individuals or those with no kids / no sex in a marriage?

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Another reason I keep Girlfriends, not a wife.

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An older gentleman I respect suggested that I volunteer to do the dishes once in awhile.  Foot rubs aren't a bad place to start either.  Not a trick, it's a relationship thing.

Making your woman feel like she's valued pays fantastic dividends in all facets of the relationship.

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He's a head of you?  Sounds like the kids would be used as an anchor.

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The trick is the part in red. Doing dishes might work for some women, but it certainly isn't the way to get every woman's motor running. I mean, I'd appreciate the effort, but it certainly wouldn't be tantamount to foreplay. You've got to know how to get and keep your woman hot for you, not some nebulous, generic womankind person.

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I can't tell you exactly what makes your wife tick. I can tell you what makes me tick and I can observe and analyze women ticking for men, and then speculate about how a guy can keep making his wife tick after the wedding.

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you're a good egg, truly.

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I'm just  analytical.

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25% are lying.

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I see women who respect their men to the point of being a little scared of them cater to those men and bend over backwards for them.

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Interesting, do you guys ever unexpectedly just drop to your knees and start tickling the The Pink Pearl?

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Some of you guys are really something.   16,000 hits and only 300 of you will say something about wives giving BJ's? Why do you think that is? LOL

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I would be thinking, "how bad did she wreck the car".

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If he comes home from work and starts doing chores it's only going to make me feel guilty and my self-esteem is going to do a nosedive.  Guilt and low self-esteem don't make for feeling sexy.  

But that's ME because I don't work outside the home so chores are my job----a woman who works as many hours outside of the home as her husband would likely react differently.

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For those of you married over a decade, does your wife ever surprise you with a unexpected BJ? And I don't mean during love making (though it may lead to that) - for example you are watching TV and she sits down next to you and goes down on you totally surprising you, or you're in your home's office doing the check book and next thing you know she spins your chair around and goes to town.  Oh, and if it only happens your birthday or anniversary, that doesn't count. 

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Only 7 years married, 10 together.

If a day goes by without her randomly doing it, I ask what's wrong.  Seriously.  Woman is insatiable.

"Honey, I need help with laundry" or "Kids, go clean your room"

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25% are lying.

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Women will do anything in the first 6 months, after that reality sets in and life with them is a livable hatred.

Trick is to get a new one every 6 months, when the new ones perform BJs they have such a great pleasing attitude about the whole affair.

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I can't tell you exactly what makes your wife tick. I can tell you what makes me tick and I can observe and analyze women ticking for men, and then speculate about how a guy can keep making his wife tick after the wedding.

I see women lose interest in husbands while maintaining great interest in men who aren't their husbands. Part of that has to be the appeal of the "new shiny".

I see women who respect their men to the point of being a little scared of them cater to those men and bend over backwards for them.

I see the partner with all the 'walk away power' getting put on the pedestal and his or her worshipper being happy as a pig in shit to keep this great boyfriend or girlfriend.

I hear women complain that there's not any excitement or passion and men complain that they walk on eggshells around their bitchy wives.

I see that awful pickup artist stuff working and I see cunty female manipulations work just as well.

My conclusion is that you should marry someone naturally inclined to respect you and that you should do your best to be a man she has to respect. Be slightly dangerous and let her feel the pain when she's a bitch. Pitch a giant fit the first time she cuts you off and interrogate her ass to see what's got her upset to the point she'd deny you your bj. Hold her feet to the fire. Be fair, be good to her, but be almost too much man for her to handle. Keep her on her toes and trying to keep you happy, not the other way around.

In other words, all the qualities of the badboy (passion, masculinity, dominance, danger etc.) with none of the actual badness. Wrap that woman around your finger and she'll be so happy.

But you have to know what makes her tick. You can't skip the interrogations. The magic badboy boyfriend has to "get" her. He has to be insanely possessive of her very soul. Like the fuckers from twilight and 50 shades. She can't lie to you because you know her inside out. Because you put in the time and regular maintenance and you're genuinely interested in knowing every little corner of her psyche.

Be her god and keep her god fearing and faithful. Keep that sword of Damocles over the bed.

That's one way. You have to figure your own woman out, though. It's work.