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Link Posted: 1/18/2017 11:59:55 PM EDT
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OP, did you vote for Hillary? The whole "send a letter to the techer" suggests that you did. 
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:01:16 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:01:23 AM EDT
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No problem with the Girlfriend thing, just not writing it all over his stuff.
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While I get the money angle, and not wanting to replace anything, seriously... stop and think this out for a second..

They are in kindergarden.  What would make them NOT like each other?  Most kids get along swimmingly through all of Kindergarden because... it's all play time and fun.

Like everyone else has said, you're over reacting a bit.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:04:45 AM EDT
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If your son doesn't give a shit, why would you? Let him socialize without totally fucking it up and giving him some sort of complex for the rest of his life. God forbid he fucking figure out how to critically think out a problem and solve it on his own.

By all means, insert strong dominant parental influence into something that doesn't really matter. Tiger mom / Helicopter parent the fuck out of this situation. Your child is special, you should retain a lawyer, threaten lawsuit and alienate the fuck out of your kid more. It works 87% of the time.

On the other hand, do whatever the fuck you want. It's your kid.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:05:31 AM EDT
[#5]
Coat your kid and all his stuff in teflon.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:07:46 AM EDT
[#6]
Maybe let your wife take the lead on this one.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:09:31 AM EDT
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While I get the money angle, and not wanting to replace anything, seriously... stop and think this out for a second..

They are in kindergarden.  What would make them NOT like each other?  Most kids get along swimmingly through all of Kindergarden because... it's all play time and fun.

Like everyone else has said, you're over reacting a bit.
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A least you get the money angle.  We are working people.  Its not got to the point where it on his clothing or shoes, but I don't want him coming home with messed up 65$ shoes.  Just wondering how other fathers feel about it?
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:09:34 AM EDT
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I remember in elementary school when things were simple. When you caught a girl's eye she would draw hearts and write her name on your stuff. Unfortunately I thought at the time that the girls must have been bored or something 

Ahhh, the missed opportunities of youth.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:10:33 AM EDT
[#9]
Just be glad it is a girl and not a boy/transgender/non-binary.  
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:10:45 AM EDT
[#10]
Wow...
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:11:07 AM EDT
[#11]
Some of you people on here just blow my mind. Chill the f out, dad
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:12:21 AM EDT
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Marker on a 5 year old's backpack or notebook is not a big deal. You're overreacting there too.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:12:37 AM EDT
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She is doing what all women do and that is trying to control him. Tell him to fight it.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:13:01 AM EDT
[#14]
Sounds like Dad is jelly.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:13:02 AM EDT
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My son is five and in kindergarten.  Some little girl is writing her name + my sons name on all his stuff.  Notebook, folders ect........  I told my son to put a stop to it or I would send letter to school.  Son doesnt want to get the girl in trouble says they are friends.  Wife thanks I am over reacting.  I don't want to buy new stuff when they are not friends.  Am I wrong.  5 is to young to be claimed.
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Jesus, I hope he pays more attention than you did in school. You better kick that little girl's ass to keep her away from your son, or he might grow up thinking "ect" is an abbreviation for something.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:13:21 AM EDT
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OP's son is a playa, yes you're overreacting.
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This.

Don't be a scrub
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:13:27 AM EDT
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A least you get the money angle.  We are working people.  Its not got to the point where it on his clothing or shoes, but I don't want him coming home with messed up 65$ shoes.  Just wondering how other fathers feel about it?
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While I get the money angle, and not wanting to replace anything, seriously... stop and think this out for a second..

They are in kindergarden.  What would make them NOT like each other?  Most kids get along swimmingly through all of Kindergarden because... it's all play time and fun.

Like everyone else has said, you're over reacting a bit.

A least you get the money angle.  We are working people.  Its not got to the point where it on his clothing or shoes, but I don't want him coming home with messed up 65$ shoes.  Just wondering how other fathers feel about it?


If you are working people, then why are you spending $65 on a five year old's shoes? You make a lot of bad choices, don't you?
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:14:12 AM EDT
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A least you get the money angle.  We are working people.  Its not got to the point where it on his clothing or shoes, but I don't want him coming home with messed up 65$ shoes.  Just wondering how other fathers feel about it?
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If your 5 yo has $65 shoes you got money for a spare notepad...
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:18:30 AM EDT
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I understand that you don't like her writing on his stuff, but that can be a good lesson for your son to learn. When they stop talking and he decides that he needs new stuff because her name is on it, just tell him tough shit & he has to live with it because he let her do it.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:21:31 AM EDT
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If you are working people, then why are you spending $65 on a five year old's shoes? You make a lot of bad choices, don't you?
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Son was born with jacked up feet.  Foot specialist told us which ones to buy.  They are 95% good now.  No limp or in toeing.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:21:34 AM EDT
[#21]
How tall are you, OP?
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:22:27 AM EDT
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And you parents were cool with it?
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I  remember when I was in first grade that a girl (very nice and pretty girl) wrote her name all over my shoes. I didn't know when she did it or how but even then I knew she was my girlfriend and was sending a message to other girls and I liked it. We've been friends ever since.

And you parents were cool with it?


It's a pair of 6 year old's shoes. His parents probably told him to not let her do that anymore. Then they had to replace them because he outgrew them.

Same thing when you buy new school supplies for next year !
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:22:39 AM EDT
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Jesus, I hope he pays more attention than you did in school. You better kick that little girl's ass to keep her away from your son, or he might grow up thinking "ect" is an abbreviation for something.
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Drop out, what can I say.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:23:31 AM EDT
[#24]
6'1 if I remember correctly
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:25:41 AM EDT
[#25]
NUTS!
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:26:54 AM EDT
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You should go to the school and flip out on the teacher. Maybe f-bomb a few times, maybe throw something while your at it. Kindergarten is serious shit OP.



Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:28:05 AM EDT
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I had a girl like that in kindergarten.
She was always trying to sit next to me and kiss me.
Then she invited me to her birthday party.
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Did you get some stank on your hangdown?
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:28:37 AM EDT
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OK OK I will let it ride.  At least until I see sharpie on his shoes.
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Usually colored markers or ball point pen. Colored markers won't be permanent and bp pen fades pretty quickly. Lighten up, just let him know that those cost money and he shouldn't let her do that. Let HIM deal with it, that's how they learn to fight their own battles.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:28:43 AM EDT
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Kindergarten through 2nd grade my boy had 3 girlfriends at the same time. Two of them had the same name.

He's in third grade now and thank God he's cut it back to two.

He really had no choice though,  I think k one moved away or wasn't in his class anymore .
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:33:15 AM EDT
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Can't wait for your thread on "My Son just told me he was gay"

Cause heck, them there girls got the cooties

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My son is five and in kindergarten.  Some little girl is writing her name + my sons name on all his stuff.  Notebook, folders ect........  I told my son to put a stop to it or I would send letter to school.  Son doesnt want to get the girl in trouble says they are friends.  Wife thanks I am over reacting.  I don't want to buy new stuff when they are not friends.  Am I wrong.  5 is to young to be claimed.
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Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:34:39 AM EDT
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A least you get the money angle.  We are working people.  Its not got to the point where it on his clothing or shoes, but I don't want him coming home with messed up 65$ shoes.  Just wondering how other fathers feel about it?
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She'll never understand, go beat her dads ass and report back.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:36:25 AM EDT
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When I was lime 4 or 5 I stuck a plastic knife in the butt of our preachers daughter in her closet. But it was ok, her brother was there helping.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:38:13 AM EDT
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My son is five and in kindergarten.  Some little girl is writing her name + my sons name on all his stuff.  Notebook, folders ect........  I told my son to put a stop to it or I would send letter to school.  Son doesnt want to get the girl in trouble says they are friends.  Wife thanks I am over reacting.  I don't want to buy new stuff when they are not friends.  Am I wrong.  5 is to young to be claimed.
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You are overreacting, especially with the writing implements a 5 year old is likely to have.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:38:46 AM EDT
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I married the girl I played Dr with, and Cowboys and Indians. The only downside is, there are absolutely no secrets that someone you've known since damn near Pre-School doesn't know.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:40:01 AM EDT
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When I was lime 4 or 5 I stuck a plastic knife in the butt of our preachers daughter in her closet. But it was ok, her brother was there helping.
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Man, this just became your thread.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:40:49 AM EDT
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Give son a high five?

If it's my daughter I'm going to have a talk with your son, though.

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LOL.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:42:03 AM EDT
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Troll thread.  How do you guys come up with this stuff?
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:43:00 AM EDT
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N9t really in her butt , but .ore like in the cheeks of her butt.

Or , idk, it was more than 45 years ago. ...
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:47:19 AM EDT
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You belong in a place called Democratic Underground, you'll fit right in
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:47:45 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:48:51 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:49:09 AM EDT
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Shit, all posts so far have nailed it.  
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No kidding, I have nothing to add to this.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:55:34 AM EDT
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Lifting shirts and touching bellies.i was 5 and never thought it would get any better than that
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 12:57:43 AM EDT
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OP has gone off the deep end.
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 1:00:24 AM EDT
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Really, OP.

Link Posted: 1/19/2017 1:02:36 AM EDT
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Son was born with jacked up feet.  Foot specialist told us which ones to buy.  They are 95% good now.  No limp or in toeing.
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I was going to tell you "Give up the ruse, Rockefeller!" but this does change things a bit.  
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 1:03:57 AM EDT
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They learn fast girls do. Eventually she will have her name written on everything he will ever own, plus more
Link Posted: 1/19/2017 1:03:59 AM EDT
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That's a little different. Maybe talk to your little guy about respecting his things. Point out that consumable things are ok to scribble on but clothes, shoes, ie high dollars item size are not.

Good luck and be proud of that young man!

Link Posted: 1/19/2017 1:04:10 AM EDT
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N9t really in her butt , but .ore like in the cheeks of her butt.

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But by God, you knew you were supposed to stick something up there, amirite?  
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