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State employee. We have to take the annual class on Sexual Harassment. In class we learned we get one free shot.
Female co-worker once complemented me on a shirt I was wearing. All of a sudden she turned beet red and started apologizing for saying that. She thought she crossed the line. But it was actually the Hawaiian shirt she liked, not my moobs. |
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A woman in position to destroy your professional career makes a pass at you Discuss All women are in a position to destroy a man's professional career. Hell, a couple of years ago I was at a tech conference, and a guy in the same room as me ended up getting fired because of a joke he made to his (male) friend, which was overheard and misinterpreted by a woman several rows in front of him. Was that the dongle joke? You got it. The thing you have to realize about that particular event is that it was not even close to the "worst" thing that happened at the conference. There was one guy banned from attending in the future for toking up in a packed hotel ballroom, with a kid a few feet away from him. |
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I had a foreman make passes at me years ago and made some pretty disgusting comments in private but I just moved on to another company. The idea of suing anyone over it never crossed my mind.
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Years ago I worked with a middle aged woman that would grab me here and there but so did I so it didn't bother me. There was this crazy red head that I worked with for a couple years and we ended up fucking in the electric room. Now that was fun
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Nope, never happened.
Guess that is one of the benefits of being ugly. Closest I had was a chick that basically tried to rape me at a beach party when I was in HS. She was decently cute but had horrible hygiene issues. Stinky, fuzzy little thing. Saw her on facebook 20+ years later. Not so stinky and fuzzy anymore. Friggin hot. Also: I didn't know it at the time but her family owns a chain of motorcycle dealerships, she now runs the business. D'oh! Oh well, more then happy with who I am with. |
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When I was fresh out of college, one of my first jobs was financial comptroller over an accounting/bookkeeping department of 28 females at a "Property Company", an apartment management headquarters in Tulsa that owned and operated 40 apartment complexes with 500 units or more all along the Gulf seaboard.. I was technically the boss of the department, but most of the wimmenz there had been with the company a lot longer than I and considered their seniority as assets. The strongest come-on was from a property manager over 5 of the complexes we owned in Houston. She was about mid 40's at the time and I was 25...she had a reputation of taking the new guy home from the company Christmas party but my wife wasn't having any of that. I took the computer administrator's position when he left the company just to get out of the accounting department. Being the only young guy in a department full of women (mostly 40-somethings and single moms...) was fun at first but it got old quickly. Did I mention "Synchronistic Cycles"? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
When I was fresh out of college, one of my first jobs was financial comptroller over an accounting/bookkeeping department of 28 females at a "Property Company", an apartment management headquarters in Tulsa that owned and operated 40 apartment complexes with 500 units or more all along the Gulf seaboard.. I was technically the boss of the department, but most of the wimmenz there had been with the company a lot longer than I and considered their seniority as assets. The strongest come-on was from a property manager over 5 of the complexes we owned in Houston. She was about mid 40's at the time and I was 25...she had a reputation of taking the new guy home from the company Christmas party but my wife wasn't having any of that. I took the computer administrator's position when he left the company just to get out of the accounting department. Being the only young guy in a department full of women (mostly 40-somethings and single moms...) was fun at first but it got old quickly. Did I mention "Synchronistic Cycles"? I think technically that your avatar was the victim of sexual harassment. Quoted:
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I've been sexually harassed... and it was by a subordinate. The problem with being a man, and being sexually harassed, is that nobody believes you. You feel weird reporting it in the first place, and when you do, nothing gets done. The man is always perceived as the aggressor. It sucks. Double sucks when you're accused and you did nothing.........but the way the woman tells her side of the story, everyone doubts your side of the story. Then you get punished for her lie. Don't ask me how I know........................I'm forbidden from talking about it. And your avatar isn't helping your case |
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Pretty much every girl in my highschool and one of the teachers asked to see my dick after I got a Jacobs Ladder
I didn't mind the attention, a good portion of them tried it out |
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Chick came in and sat on my desk. She wanted the D. She was quite fine.
Too many witnesses. Had to pass. Complaint? This was before America was completely pussified, so absolutely not. |
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Apparently reading is a challenge here If she can't fire you it's not harrassment View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I've had female coworkers come on to me that clearly weren't joking. Didn't get my panties in a twist about it. It was a little uncomfortable at times but I'm still here. Apparently reading is a challenge here If she can't fire you it's not harrassment You couldn't possibly be more wrong. |
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She was hot an married...
I let it get to a point where I was flattered and inviting it. I have dated a few chicks around the office. Well, I ended up dating one that worked for her. Things got a little awkward.... Now I am married to the one that I was dating. Things are cool. |
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Years back, when I was in law school, I had a gay professor who didn't like my straightness. He gave me a 'd' on my final. I disputed the grade, and he told me that, yes, I was right that he "forgot" to give me credit for material in my answers but he was sure I had made errors he missed while grading. Complained to the Dean, who stayed that grades were final and professors had absolute authority on grading. FUCK Ohio Northern. And yes, the "protected class" students were treated differently.
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I couldn't sue in my case.... for five years Uncle Sam kept slamming me with his big green weenie
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Yes.
Got good raises for a few years. Didn't bother me to much...because it never escalated ...but then it started to . Upper management women. Got to where she always asked to see my junk..and would verbally go on about it.ran into her at a bar with my friends. She tried to grab and unzip my pants at the both. I stopped her. Her direct supervisor would act the same. Come in and as me stuff like "Hey..if Sally was bent over would you fuck her right now " and Sally would get up..walk over to the desk ..bend over and say "Like this Susan...." Finally. I said fuck this. I'm calling their bluff. Upper management girl walks in gets all let me rub on you to close in the hall.."ohhh its tight in here...." she says I grab her from behind...put my hand damn near on her crocth and said "Is this how you wanted it..." She straightened up...red faced and walked out. No more issue. Did similar to her boss. Same result. Brave move...but I was young and didn't think to far ahead. Csb I know. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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"Men who have experienced sexual harassment get in"
Are you the type of guys that would turn in your teacher for having sex with you? A.W.D. |
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First full time job was at a hospital, I was early 20s.
It started very soon after I started working there. Co-workers, nurses, nursing students. Next job was at a med school. Same thing. Co-workers, students, secretaries, housekeeping lady. Next job was at a women's college. Oh the horror! It was non stop there. Co-workers, two different activities directors, both of the book store ladies, a dorm mother, several students, one of the instructors. My current job is another hospital. I am now in my early 60s and it still happens. |
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This is your supervisor: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/59/fb/3e/59fb3ee21f65b04729c499cf9cd0d0c7.jpg She suggests that a little time between the sheets would improve your evaluation, and so you won't get fired. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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It is unpossible for a man to be sexually harassed. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/59/fb/3e/59fb3ee21f65b04729c499cf9cd0d0c7.jpg She suggests that a little time between the sheets would improve your evaluation, and so you won't get fired. Lol - her biggest "job" of the day was standing for a picture. |
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more of a fail on my part than anything
me and another guy worked at a store in high school and our closing manager was a maybe 25 year old female it was regularly just us and her in the store after closing... she did all sorts of things and made it pretty clear what she wanted us to do to her in great detail. She was so aggressive we were scared of her yeah....we failed same store had a lady come work there she was a walking sexual harassment bomb waiting to go off she had massive tits and rubbed them all over you constantly... you could be at the other end of the warehouse with a 1000' between you and she would find a way to rub her boobs all over you even as a kid I knew she was trouble, our boss of all people took the bait and got himself fired and all of us had to take training afterwards rumor was this was her thing. Bounced from job to job filing sexual harassment suits..... nice tits though |
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In a past job I witnessed it happen to a coworker and fellow supervisor. Harasser was in her mid thirties, married to a guy in his sixties.
She was supervised by both of us and began sending the other supervisor suggestive e-mails. Next she decided to throw in a few pictures. Gross stuff. Said she had plenty more where that came from. The recipient found me and asked me to look at them. Wish I hadn't. He asked what to do. I told him he should cover his ass and report it to HR. We saved the photos to disc. He asked me to go with him to show the head of HR. I did. Head of HR looked at them and said it warranted immediate termination. He asked them to wait until the next morning when he wasn't there. The next day she was fired, threw a world-class fit, and security escorted her off property. |
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A woman in position to destroy your professional career makes a pass at you Discuss All women are in a position to destroy a man's professional career. Hell, a couple of years ago I was at a tech conference, and a guy in the same room as me ended up getting fired because of a joke he made to his (male) friend, which was overheard and misinterpreted by a woman several rows in front of him. Was that the dongle joke? Didn't the same thing happen with a fork joke as well? |
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I have never REMOTELY been the victim of sexual harassment. View Quote Me either I haven't been blatantly harassed as in obvious over the line by my current co-workers, but I have received a few statements by some that were vague and I was dense when I was younger. I worked in a few restaurants when I was in my early 20's. The waitresses were all sluts. I nailed quite a few in the kitchen during close up. |
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I'm a RN in a hospital surrounded by 20-something year old RN coeds. The shit they say and talk about would have my ass in HR so fast I wouldn't have time to log out of my charting. I've heard them talk about: their tits other girls tits blow jobs how saline flushes have a similar saltiness to jizz "getting my kitty waxed" joking about the directions they wipe their ass (side to side) ass play telling me they just started their period thanks to testing, they don't have AIDS from the random guy the fucked a few months ago Don't get me wrong, I enjoy watching the show but holee-fuck I'd be shit canned pronto-style if I said a tenth of what these chicks say. View Quote I feel your pain buddy. I am a male nurse surrounded by young RNs and LVNs. Some of the sexual talk, and drama that comes out of their mouth can be over the top most of the time. Yet, they wonder why I don't make friends with them. I try to avoid them by sitting in the back and minding my own business, that works most of the time. I have to be a raging asshole most of the time to get them to leave me alone. |
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Yes. HR claimed a female employee had filed a formal sexual harassment complaint against me and several other employees. It was a blatant lie. I knew it was a lie. I responded by filing a sexual harassment complaint against the HR manager for ordering me to sign a false confession and threatening to terminate me for refusing to do so. I won.
My offense - I used the word "rape" in an email. Several male employees were exchanging ways to memorize the "white-red-black-yellow-violet" wiring color code. I posted, "Why rape beautiful young vixens?". I didn't make it up, it's what I learned when first getting into the business. Another tech posted "Winchester rifles bring you victory". He was accused of promoting violence in the workplace. Ironic considering we have gun manufacturers as customers but can apparently get fired for mentioning their names. |
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Worked as a bar manager at various places that were all owned by the same people for a few years. Great job and nailed a lot of hot girls.
Started at a new place they had just opened and the day manager was a middle aged girl that thought she was gods gift. We didn't get along well as she thought I was some kind of threat to her job I guess. Anyway we butted heads a lot. She came in the place at closing one evening and we sat down to talk about the week coming and some other work stuff like liquor ordered etc. she commented about blank was dating one of the bar maids. Next thing I know she's got my pants unzipped. Kind of surprised me. Who am I to say no. She wasn't bad looking and knew what she was doing. |
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Yes. HR claimed a female employee had filed a formal sexual harassment complaint against me and several other employees. It was a blatant lie. I knew it was a lie. I responded by filing a sexual harassment complaint against the HR manager for ordering me to sign a false confession and threatening to terminate me for refusing to do so. I won. My offense - I used the word "rape" in an email. Several male employees were exchanging ways to memorize the "white-red-black-yellow-violet" wiring color code. I posted, "Why rape beautiful young vixens?". I didn't make it up, it's what I learned when first getting into the business. Another tech posted "Winchester rifles bring you victory". He was accused of promoting violence in the workplace. Ironic considering we have gun manufacturers as customers but can apparently get fired for mentioning their names. View Quote Blue orange green brown slate |
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I've been harrassed by classmates, professors, and now patients. A few weeks ago, I had an elderly patient tell her daughter that she would like to take me to bed with her. She said this right in front of me. I chuckled and my assistant turned beet red. Zero fucks given View Quote I had a lady in her 60's as one of my patient's a few months of or so, she said I was a fine hunk of meat and wanted to know if I had any plans for the night after she was discharged. Thing is she looked pretty good for a lady in her 60's she obviously took care of herself. Think Sophia Loren type when she was in her 60's. I told her my wife wouldn't let me go out on dates anymore. |
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I was the only dude on a small det once. It went feral quick and I got transfered.
Had to fuck a gross SFC when I was a joe to get her to stop raging at me every day. |
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Warehouse supervisor where I worked a summer job constantly asked my friends and I to work with our shirts off. We were 17-18 years old. She was a chain smoking white trash unmarried mom of three.
We never took the shirts off. |
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Only slightly related . . . had a trailer trash woman offer to give me and the guy I was working with a blow job if we wouldn't repo her car. Sad part was she was probably attractive back before the drugs/meth/whatever years ago. I only worked the repo job a handful of times one summer and we had a gun pulled on us twice, every other person tried to bribe us, BJ offer, and a lot of it was over stupid cars that should have been paid for in cash. View Quote So did you just tell the boss you couldn't find the car? |
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I have and quit a job over it.
There was a time in my life were I wasn't terrible looking, and a 15+ year old supervisor (I think she was about 40) constantly hit on me. She was hot as hell, so I though "Sure, what the hell." She was married (oops,) but I didn't actually find that out until later in the "relationship." So after probably a year of hotel hook ups, she all of a sudden starts talking about leaving her husband and blah blah blah, so I ended it. Shit got real. She took 6 weeks of sick leave, then came back and made things really weird for me, then basically threatened to say that I raped her. So I got a recording of her saying provocative things and some threats to cover my ass then quit. In retrospect I should have sued the shit out of all of the things. |
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Checking in.
Never had any sexual interest directed towards me from women and it's harassing me. |
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Guess this was the wrong forum. Seriously, a woman has the power to destroy you, and she makes a pass at you. Tell me about that. View Quote I have not been in this situation. Are you in a relationship that you want to preserve? Then don't do it. Do you have any moral objections to it? Then don't do it. Do whatever you can to gather evidence to support your case (maybe get a record app on your phone if its legal). If she attempts to sabotage your career than you can rightfully sue her. |
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Work in an office? Every office I've ever worked in has flirty women View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Checking in. Never had any sexual interest directed towards me from women and it's harassing me. Work in an office? Every office I've ever worked in has flirty women Hell I've been literally offered BJs, stairwell fucks, etc. That's just the ones who look you in the eye and say "I'll suck your dick RFN". I'm not good at reading women, so I probably missed some less obvious clues. |
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Shortly after college, one manager was gay and he would pretent to have to squeeze by in the hallway while brushing against. I talked to HR about and was basically laughed out. So I just stayed away from him in hallways.
He then started to show nude photo's of his new boyfriend the following year. It took the women to complain to HR to get him warned and counciled. This happened at Hewlett-Packard back in the 80's. HP's hiring practices were degrading then and through the years after, and is one of the main reasons why it's in a declined state now. |
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Hell I've been literally offered BJs, stairwell fucks, etc. That's just the ones who look you in the eye and say "I'll suck your dick RFN". I'm not good at reading women, so I probably missed some less obvious clues. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Checking in. Never had any sexual interest directed towards me from women and it's harassing me. Work in an office? Every office I've ever worked in has flirty women Hell I've been literally offered BJs, stairwell fucks, etc. That's just the ones who look you in the eye and say "I'll suck your dick RFN". I'm not good at reading women, so I probably missed some less obvious clues. Working with women can be difficult, but once you figure it out, they all seem pretty kinky in an office haha |
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Decades ago as a teenager, I worked in fast food. I had a front line manager (I worked in the back) that would always say "you're so cute" or some version of that while standing up front and saying it loudly to the back. Probably wouldn't fly today, but back then nobody cared. I didn't anyway.
She was a fairly hot redhead, probably mid-late 20's with long hair that she wore in a single ponytail down to her ass. It was a lot of hair, like a thick rope of it. When she would walk into the kitchen, I'd say "let me hold your hair." She would turn around and I'd grab her ponytail with both hands and pull on it a little. Actually now I'm not sure who harassed who. |
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Working with women can be difficult, but once you figure it out, they all seem pretty kinky in an office haha View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Checking in. Never had any sexual interest directed towards me from women and it's harassing me. Work in an office? Every office I've ever worked in has flirty women Hell I've been literally offered BJs, stairwell fucks, etc. That's just the ones who look you in the eye and say "I'll suck your dick RFN". I'm not good at reading women, so I probably missed some less obvious clues. Working with women can be difficult, but once you figure it out, they all seem pretty kinky in an office haha Agreed. After a while you learn how to blow (lol) them off without offending them. |
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Agreed. After a while you learn how to blow (lol) them off without offending them. View Quote You're a cop, right? The most aggressive women I know work for the fire department and police department. There was a police department connected to the building I worked in, and when I'd go out for a break the things you'd hear them say... |
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I was fairly oblivious to that sort of stuff until my early 20s.
I do recall several soft comments made to me by a HOT 38yo waitress when I worked with her as a 19yo dishwasher in a restaurant. At the time, I thought she was just being sweet, but I look back now and realize she basically was suggesting I take her to a hotel and ring her bells, repeatedly. Wonder how many other opportunities I missed because comments went over my head. |
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Damn, there must be something wrong with all us who haven't. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I have never REMOTELY been the victim of sexual harassment. Me either Damn, there must be something wrong with all us who haven't. Yep! Not harassed but a funny event happened to me that I was clueless on. I am in Vegas and 2 older yummy females are sitting at the bar in the Casino with every guy in the place hitting on them. I wanted a Guinness and they told me to tip really good because they were drinking a special drink and if you tip good the bartender will treat you good. Me thinking no way I am able to flirt with them. A little later I hit a good gamble and wanted to celebrate. The bartender saved all the Guinness for me and I sit down next to the " MILFS " next door females. Gab for a little bit and noticed all the guys drooling. They are playing with my long hair rubbing against me and I get to rub their tramp stamps and we are touchy feely at the bar. Nothing more than that. But WoW. Quite a bit later as in years, I was watching something and noticed the exact tramp stamps and face and hair. It was the actual MILFS Next Door lesbian porn women!!!! No wonder all the guys were drooling. Damn, I wish I could of joined in helping them out! But I was clueless. . |
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I always liked the big buxomed ones that end up laying their tits on your arm when they come over to ask a question, or when they have 4 feet of walk space behind you but rub their tits so hard into your back that you can feel their nipples in your spleen.
there is always one heavy black women in the hospital section you work at that will go into glorious detail about her love for blow jobs and how she can turn a man inside out with her mouff and tongue. her eyes will glaze over while describing it. there will also always be a 60 year old woman who will tell you that if she was 20 years younger that she would fuck you until you need an IV. there is also the middle aged nurse whose has made it her mission to try and turn a gay Dr straight, because in her mind- it was meant to be. this has been at every single hospital I have ever clocked in at. so it is written...so it is. |
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Yes I have.
In my misspent youth I worked as a bartender in "The Gallery" a 2nd floor bar on Second Street in Lawton, OK owned by Rudy Perez. He sold to a couple of alternate lifestyle ladies who renamed the place Triangles". Rudy asked me as a favor to stay on with the new owners a couple of months, and I agreed. It is important to note I am not now and never have been a small man. One day I'm playing the pinball machine and suddenly I'm 3 feet higher in the air. I had been bear-hugged by an enormous gay man wearing (I shit you not) a chocolate brown terry cloth suite. Through gritted teeth I instructed the individual to return me to terra firma. |
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