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Link Posted: 11/27/2015 9:32:40 AM EDT
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Yep I go to work and work then go home and stay home. I buy groceries at 3 am and  order most everything online. I have a small group of good friends and that's it.
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I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol

Link Posted: 11/27/2015 9:36:23 AM EDT
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I may be an introvert, but I'm not shy. Was when I was little though.. I am never lonely, and the only thing that tends to "bore" me is people who can't stop talking.
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you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack



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As an introvert, I can't imagine wanting to be an extrovert.

 
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 10:01:20 AM EDT
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no
now leave me alone
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 11:49:57 AM EDT
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this is me also!
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I cannot stand people asking me if I'm mad hecause I don't feel like engaging in stupid small talk.
this is me also!
Yeah I never got that. Working with the public I've noticed being quieter than average really freaks out a subset of the population. It seems to be the people that are on the louder / gregarious spectrum of personalities. My theory is many are much more insecure than most and that's why they are loud.



 
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 12:40:25 PM EDT
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do you self described introverts see that as a negative trait?
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Nope. Own it. Be your own man (or woman, or gender-confused whatever)
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 12:40:30 PM EDT
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Sorry dude, but you sound pretty ignorant on the subject. This is common, though. Most people can't conceive of people that think differently than they do.

Being introverted is not "inhibited and shy". It's also not a choice, and whether or not it's a benefit or a detractor is entirely dependent on the person and the situation.

It's OK, though, you don't have to believe what those of us who actually ARE introverted say, you've got it all figured out, so plow on full steam ahead. We'll just sit back and enjoy the show.
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Fuck no

being introverted is so boring

I could never be that way

you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack






Hey look, another one.  



You ever notice how everyone always tries to present themselves as better than they are?



Your comfort zone is something you can expand.

There are no limits on the kind of person you can be, that's a known fact.




Sorry dude, but you sound pretty ignorant on the subject. This is common, though. Most people can't conceive of people that think differently than they do.

Being introverted is not "inhibited and shy". It's also not a choice, and whether or not it's a benefit or a detractor is entirely dependent on the person and the situation.

It's OK, though, you don't have to believe what those of us who actually ARE introverted say, you've got it all figured out, so plow on full steam ahead. We'll just sit back and enjoy the show.




Psychiatry is junk science.  The fact that Jung or whoever made up a label for something means exactly dick.  On turd island.

You ever read up on psychological testing?  It's garbage.

People take this stuff and turn it into masturbation.

Like this thread.

Here we have a bunch of people congratulating themselves for being shy and anti-social.

But they explain that their shyness is part of the beautiful inner life that radiates creativity and thoughtfulness. The amazing life of the introvert!

They get to sit back and "enjoy the show" of the extroverted buffoons making fools of themselves.

And the extroverted people are noisy louts who are only extroverted because they're insecure and desperately seek approval!


I have a different psychological theory.

I think a person can be anything.  I think they can spend 12 hours directing thoughts inward and 12 hours directing thoughts outward.







Link Posted: 11/27/2015 12:47:35 PM EDT
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I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol



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Yep I go to work and work then go home and stay home. I buy groceries at 3 am and  order most everything online. I have a small group of good friends and that's it.






I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol





b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...



Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.



 
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 12:49:22 PM EDT
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Psychiatry is junk science.  The fact that Jung or whoever made up a label for something means exactly dick.  On turd island.

You ever read up on psychological testing?  It's garbage.

People take this stuff and turn it into masturbation.

Like this thread.

Here we have a bunch of people congratulating themselves for being shy and anti-social.

But they explain that their shyness is part of the beautiful inner life that radiates creativity and thoughtfulness. The amazing life of the introvert!


They get to sit back and "enjoy the show" of the extroverted buffoons making fools of themselves.

And the extroverted people are noisy louts who are only extroverted because they're insecure and desperately seek approval!


I have a different psychological theory.

I think a person can be anything.  I think they can spend 12 hours directing thoughts inward and 12 hours directing thoughts outward.


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So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.

"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"

And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.



Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.

Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.


Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  


Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?

Link Posted: 11/27/2015 12:55:41 PM EDT
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Yes I am very introverted. I hate being around people in large groups. It is very draining.
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 1:13:19 PM EDT
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So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.

"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"

And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.



Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.

Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.


Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  


Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?

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Psychiatry is junk science.  The fact that Jung or whoever made up a label for something means exactly dick.  On turd island.

You ever read up on psychological testing?  It's garbage.

People take this stuff and turn it into masturbation.

Like this thread.

Here we have a bunch of people congratulating themselves for being shy and anti-social.

But they explain that their shyness is part of the beautiful inner life that radiates creativity and thoughtfulness. The amazing life of the introvert!


They get to sit back and "enjoy the show" of the extroverted buffoons making fools of themselves.

And the extroverted people are noisy louts who are only extroverted because they're insecure and desperately seek approval!


I have a different psychological theory.

I think a person can be anything.  I think they can spend 12 hours directing thoughts inward and 12 hours directing thoughts outward.





So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.

"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"

And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.



Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.

Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.


Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  


Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?



You are my introverted Hero.  Seriously.  I'm a terminal Introvert.
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 1:33:47 PM EDT
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So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.

"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"

And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.



Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.

Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.


Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  


Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?

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Psychiatry is junk science.  The fact that Jung or whoever made up a label for something means exactly dick.  On turd island.

You ever read up on psychological testing?  It's garbage.

People take this stuff and turn it into masturbation.

Like this thread.

Here we have a bunch of people congratulating themselves for being shy and anti-social.

But they explain that their shyness is part of the beautiful inner life that radiates creativity and thoughtfulness. The amazing life of the introvert!


They get to sit back and "enjoy the show" of the extroverted buffoons making fools of themselves.

And the extroverted people are noisy louts who are only extroverted because they're insecure and desperately seek approval!


I have a different psychological theory.

I think a person can be anything.  I think they can spend 12 hours directing thoughts inward and 12 hours directing thoughts outward.





So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.

"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"

And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.



Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.

Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.


Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  


Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?




You just repeated the theme of this thread again, which is -

The people who self-identify that they are an "introvert" are amazingly thoughtful and self-reliant.

The people they identify as extroverts are noisy useless louts.

The people who dare to question the nonsense known as pop psychology are thoughtless dickheads who refuse to understand anyone but themselves.  (You added a nice little strawman about depression.)


People believe the most what they desire or fear the most.

If you ask any person to explain their thoughts, eventually you reach a point where they are just angrily repeating themselves.


If this baby game of applying labels to yourself makes you happy, then go for it.

I think it's based on a bunch of speculative untested nonsense.  Sorry.

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Link Posted: 11/27/2015 7:13:08 PM EDT
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nah.  

i have to deal w/ the public everyday of my life.
i have a wife and 2 kids
i dont have time to be an introvert.  
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 10:12:52 PM EDT
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I like to be alone or with my family.

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I've described it as assuming the persona for the situation.   It is how I can function in society.  Even then, it is sometimes an effort to keep from panicking.  
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b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...

Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.
 
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Yep I go to work and work then go home and stay home. I buy groceries at 3 am and  order most everything online. I have a small group of good friends and that's it.



I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol


b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...

Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.
 


Uh, no.....i have zero friends

Introvert is my middle name
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Uh, no.....i have zero friends



Introvert is my middle name

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Yep I go to work and work then go home and stay home. I buy groceries at 3 am and  order most everything online. I have a small group of good friends and that's it.






I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol





b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...



Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.

 




Uh, no.....i have zero friends



Introvert is my middle name



Ahh



Yeah...I turn 40 in a couple weeks. Wife wants to have a party...I'm "meh." "Don't you want to have some friends over?" Friends? Not really...maybe a couple guys from work I guess...



Started thinking....I can think of 2, maybe 3, that I'd actually care to have around.  Out of like 30 guys at work And we're all ex-mil...so not like we don't have plenty in common and get along fine at work. But outside of work, I really don't care to have many people around. Wife's the exact opposite.





 
Link Posted: 11/27/2015 11:43:23 PM EDT
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I thought I was, but then I found out I thrive on social interaction, and was just lonely and depressed. I'm a people person, and a social butterfly. I don't mind alone time every once in a while, but do much prefer the company of others.
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Now all I do is work and watch TV.
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Your personality hasn’t changed, you’re just depressed. And that’s ok.
Link Posted: 11/28/2015 9:38:37 AM EDT
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I have no issues with big crowds and things like that but my opinion of people in general has plummeted over the years.
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You just repeated the theme of this thread again, which is -



The people who self-identify that they are an "introvert" are amazingly thoughtful and self-reliant.



The people they identify as extroverts are noisy useless louts.



The people who dare to question the nonsense known as pop psychology are thoughtless dickheads who refuse to understand anyone but themselves.  (You added a nice little strawman about depression.)





People believe the most what they desire or fear the most.



If you ask any person to explain their thoughts, eventually you reach a point where they are just angrily repeating themselves.





If this baby game of applying labels to yourself makes you happy, then go for it.



I think it's based on a bunch of speculative untested nonsense.  Sorry.



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Psychiatry is junk science.  The fact that Jung or whoever made up a label for something means exactly dick.  On turd island.



You ever read up on psychological testing?  It's garbage.



People take this stuff and turn it into masturbation.



Like this thread.



Here we have a bunch of people congratulating themselves for being shy and anti-social.



But they explain that their shyness is part of the beautiful inner life that radiates creativity and thoughtfulness. The amazing life of the introvert!




They get to sit back and "enjoy the show" of the extroverted buffoons making fools of themselves.



And the extroverted people are noisy louts who are only extroverted because they're insecure and desperately seek approval!





I have a different psychological theory.



I think a person can be anything.  I think they can spend 12 hours directing thoughts inward and 12 hours directing thoughts outward.











So when I say I'm introverted, and I'm not shy or antisocial, I'm just lying for some unbeknownst to me reason? Now you're just sounding like a dick.



"You don't think the way I do, so you're just making shit up. You should just do what I do!"



And the "radiating creativity and thoughtfulness" is more like "I know what my job is, let me go do it and I'll come up with great results" rather than the "let me bounce my idea off of everyone who will listen to validate my thoughts, and get their suggestions to cover all the shit I couldn't think of myself, then put it together, seek validation again, then get other people to help me do the work because I can't stand being alone for the time it would take to get this done!" method of people who can't be alone or left alone.
Introversion is not about being shy or antisocial. It's about pithy meaningless interactions being draining. It's about processing stimulus differently. It's about being very sensitive to stimuli and analyzing ALL of it, which is taxing on the mind.



Yeah, I can "be outgoing", but it's still going to be taxing to me. I can go be the life of the party, but I'm going to leave feeling drained rather than feeling pumped up.





Are you just simply refusing to believe that some people's brains work differently? In spite of actual evidence showing this very thing? (brain scans showing different reactions in different people to similar stimuli)  





Let me guess one thing about you - you're the type of guy who thinks people with depression can "just get over it", right?









You just repeated the theme of this thread again, which is -



The people who self-identify that they are an "introvert" are amazingly thoughtful and self-reliant.



The people they identify as extroverts are noisy useless louts.



The people who dare to question the nonsense known as pop psychology are thoughtless dickheads who refuse to understand anyone but themselves.  (You added a nice little strawman about depression.)





People believe the most what they desire or fear the most.



If you ask any person to explain their thoughts, eventually you reach a point where they are just angrily repeating themselves.





If this baby game of applying labels to yourself makes you happy, then go for it.



I think it's based on a bunch of speculative untested nonsense.  Sorry.







 






Did an introvert steal your puppy?




Seriously, switch to decaf. I'm picturing you as you type this: red-faced, bug eyed, veins popping, pounding away at the keyboard spraying spittle on the screen as you angry hyperventilate.




I can picture that because of my vivid imagination and creativity.




And because it's probably no too far from the truth.
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Link Posted: 11/28/2015 9:51:42 AM EDT
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No, I actually can speak easily in front of groups and I easily meet new people.
I'm a very private person, though , so I don't open up easily.
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You just repeated the theme of this thread again, which is -

The people who self-identify that they are an "introvert" are amazingly thoughtful and self-reliant.

The people they identify as extroverts are noisy useless louts.

The people who dare to question the nonsense known as pop psychology are thoughtless dickheads who refuse to understand anyone but themselves.  (You added a nice little strawman about depression.)


People believe the most what they desire or fear the most.

If you ask any person to explain their thoughts, eventually you reach a point where they are just angrily repeating themselves.


If this baby game of applying labels to yourself makes you happy, then go for it.

I think it's based on a bunch of speculative untested nonsense.  Sorry.

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So you DO think everyone's brains are wired the same and we all think the same, and whatever behaviors we have that are different than yours, we should just concentrate a little harder, then we can all behave just like you!

GOT IT.


You're basically taking the anti line of "guns are all the same, why do you need more than one?" and applying it to people's brains, how they think, their personalities and how they process input and stimulus. That certain traits that are demonstrably different aren't really different.

I bet you're a regular in all the threads with "STOP LIKING THINGS I DON'T LIKE" posts, too, huh?  
Link Posted: 11/28/2015 11:38:26 AM EDT
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Not when I am around fellow introverts..."Did you find the hydrostatic pressure of the drilling mud to be suffcient on #3 of the petrophysics homework?"
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A lot of extroverts seem to take exception to it.




Some are outraged that I don't run my suck as much as they do. "Why aren't you talking? You need to smile. Right now."




There definitely are drawbacks.
Link Posted: 11/28/2015 4:29:14 PM EDT
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... Not certain



At times I see myself as introverted, and others, extroverted




WTF?
Link Posted: 11/28/2015 4:32:02 PM EDT
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While I sometimes enjoy the company of a few other people, I'm usually happiest by my lonesome.
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Fuck no



being introverted is so boring



I could never be that way



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Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.
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I am used to speaking to groups.  

They just don't understand swamp talk.  
Link Posted: 11/28/2015 6:05:32 PM EDT
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Yep, enjoy it now that I learned to stop fighting it.

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A lot of extroverts seem to take exception to it.
Some are outraged that I don't run my suck as much as they do. "Why aren't you talking? You need to smile. Right now."
There definitely are drawbacks.




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do you self described introverts see that as a negative trait?
A lot of extroverts seem to take exception to it.
Some are outraged that I don't run my suck as much as they do. "Why aren't you talking? You need to smile. Right now."
There definitely are drawbacks.




I'd probably be considered an introvert and I wish I wasn't. I don't think it's done me any favors working a job where I deal with the public.


 







I used to take shit for being quiet and not smiling a lot in both my personal and professional life. Now that I'm older I get that a lot less. I guess it's a lot more potentially hazardous for an adult to talk shit to another adult.




 
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I'm introverted.  Dealing with people wears me out.  I also believe that I'm the loudest introvert in the world.  Introverted Type-A will kill me before I'm 65, I imagine.  
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Fuck no

being introverted is so boring

I could never be that way

you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack



  Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.



People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.

The exact opposite is true, it makes you look defensive and weak.


My viewpoint is that these faux psychology labels are meaningless and self-limiting, even though people blow out their o-ring trying to valorize them.

This frustrated several guys.

So they replied with insults and goofy straw man arguments.

It doesn't reflect on me in any way, it reflects on you.


99.999% of people don't know what the terms introversion and extroversion actually mean.

They mistake these labels used for empirical assessment of personality traits for a specific brain function that Jung was describing.

Introversion and extroversion are related to how the brain experiences rewards for stimulus.

Since human beings are highly socialized animals, the effect is often observed in social behavior.

But you could be an extremely extroverted person and still prefer solitude.  

Most of the personality traits that you guys are describing technically belong to the "intellect" realm.

Some of you guys describing yourselves as introverts are actually describing a narcissistic personality.


If you dig down into any topic, you'll find that what most people think about that topic is so dumbed down that it's meaningless.

Most things are too complicated to be properly understood without putting a lot of work into it.




Link Posted: 11/30/2015 1:02:54 AM EDT
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ISTP.
Link Posted: 11/30/2015 1:06:47 AM EDT
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People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.

The exact opposite is true, it makes you look defensive and weak.


My viewpoint is that these faux psychology labels are meaningless and self-limiting, even though people blow out their o-ring trying to valorize them.

This frustrated several guys.

So they replied with insults and goofy straw man arguments.

It doesn't reflect on me in any way, it reflects on you.


99.999% of people don't know what the terms introversion and extroversion actually mean.

They mistake these labels used for empirical assessment of personality traits for a specific brain function that Jung was describing.

Introversion and extroversion are related to how the brain experiences rewards for stimulus.

Since human beings are highly socialized animals, the effect is often observed in social behavior.

But you could be an extremely extroverted person and still prefer solitude.  

Most of the personality traits that you guys are describing technically belong to the "intellect" realm.

Some of you guys describing yourselves as introverts are actually describing a narcissistic personality.


If you dig down into any topic, you'll find that what most people think about that topic is so dumbed down that it's meaningless.

Most things are too complicated to be properly understood without putting a lot of work into it.




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Fuck no

being introverted is so boring

I could never be that way

you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack



  Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.



People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.

The exact opposite is true, it makes you look defensive and weak.


My viewpoint is that these faux psychology labels are meaningless and self-limiting, even though people blow out their o-ring trying to valorize them.

This frustrated several guys.

So they replied with insults and goofy straw man arguments.

It doesn't reflect on me in any way, it reflects on you.


99.999% of people don't know what the terms introversion and extroversion actually mean.

They mistake these labels used for empirical assessment of personality traits for a specific brain function that Jung was describing.

Introversion and extroversion are related to how the brain experiences rewards for stimulus.

Since human beings are highly socialized animals, the effect is often observed in social behavior.

But you could be an extremely extroverted person and still prefer solitude.  

Most of the personality traits that you guys are describing technically belong to the "intellect" realm.

Some of you guys describing yourselves as introverts are actually describing a narcissistic personality.


If you dig down into any topic, you'll find that what most people think about that topic is so dumbed down that it's meaningless.

Most things are too complicated to be properly understood without putting a lot of work into it.






You're such a smart and unique special snowflake.
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People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.





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Fuck no



being introverted is so boring



I could never be that way



you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack







  Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.







People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.









 
Careful with that petard, Eugene.
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  Careful with that petard, Eugene.

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Fuck no



being introverted is so boring



I could never be that way



you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack







  Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.







People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.







  Careful with that petard, Eugene.





 
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If I had the energy I could probably dance into the white house. Honestly though being in large groups of people is more physical draining then working.
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No.
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If I had the energy I could probably dance into the white house. Honestly though being in large groups of people is more physical draining then working.




No.
You are 10.1% correct.



 
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Yep, although most peoples' idea of what an introvert is is way offline.
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Yep, and this.
Link Posted: 11/30/2015 1:23:10 AM EDT
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ENTJ per the Myers Briggs personality type.





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b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...

Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.
 
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Yep I go to work and work then go home and stay home. I buy groceries at 3 am and  order most everything online. I have a small group of good friends and that's it.



I cant imagine having a small group of friends . Lol


b/c you're not an introvert and draw energy from others...

Introverts are drained by others. We're constantly taking in information and analyzing it....so large groups overwhelm.
 


I'm a hyper-analytical extrovert. Being around people gives me energy.
Link Posted: 11/30/2015 1:31:53 AM EDT
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ENTJ per the Myers Briggs personality type.



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Same.
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People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.

The exact opposite is true, it makes you look defensive and weak.


My viewpoint is that these faux psychology labels are meaningless and self-limiting, even though people blow out their o-ring trying to valorize them.

This frustrated several guys.

So they replied with insults and goofy straw man arguments.

It doesn't reflect on me in any way, it reflects on you.


99.999% of people don't know what the terms introversion and extroversion actually mean.

They mistake these labels used for empirical assessment of personality traits for a specific brain function that Jung was describing.

Introversion and extroversion are related to how the brain experiences rewards for stimulus.

Since human beings are highly socialized animals, the effect is often observed in social behavior.

But you could be an extremely extroverted person and still prefer solitude.  

Most of the personality traits that you guys are describing technically belong to the "intellect" realm.

Some of you guys describing yourselves as introverts are actually describing a narcissistic personality.


If you dig down into any topic, you'll find that what most people think about that topic is so dumbed down that it's meaningless.

Most things are too complicated to be properly understood without putting a lot of work into it.




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Fuck no

being introverted is so boring

I could never be that way

you can be anything you want to be if you have enough nut sack



  Thanks. We needed some full-blown retardation in this thread.



People are not impressed when you write insults on the internet.

The exact opposite is true, it makes you look defensive and weak.


My viewpoint is that these faux psychology labels are meaningless and self-limiting, even though people blow out their o-ring trying to valorize them.

This frustrated several guys.

So they replied with insults and goofy straw man arguments.

It doesn't reflect on me in any way, it reflects on you.


99.999% of people don't know what the terms introversion and extroversion actually mean.

They mistake these labels used for empirical assessment of personality traits for a specific brain function that Jung was describing.

Introversion and extroversion are related to how the brain experiences rewards for stimulus.

Since human beings are highly socialized animals, the effect is often observed in social behavior.

But you could be an extremely extroverted person and still prefer solitude.  

Most of the personality traits that you guys are describing technically belong to the "intellect" realm.

Some of you guys describing yourselves as introverts are actually describing a narcissistic personality.


If you dig down into any topic, you'll find that what most people think about that topic is so dumbed down that it's meaningless.

Most things are too complicated to be properly understood without putting a lot of work into it.






I agree that we extroverts rock, but Wingnutx rocks harder.
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