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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:54:03 PM EDT
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Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I can relate. Last time I put it where it belongs we conceived a son. He will be ten in April. You do the math. Now I just jack off in her socks and put them back in the drawer. Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. If you read carefully, he specified "put it where it belongs". Consider where we are, and consider the range of human behaviors left open by that statement. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:55:26 PM EDT
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She needs to compromise. If she never wants it, and you want it every day, then you need to have sex every other day. That's only fair. Every other day you each get what you want. Are you married? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:56:07 PM EDT
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Respect, communication, and consideration.
You need to communicate with her. She needs to respect your needs and desires, as you respect hers. And there needs to be consideration from both sides of the aisle. It shouldn't be a war zone, but rather a partnership. Fight for it if it's worth it to you. If not, walk away. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:56:21 PM EDT
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Yeah, being told, "I just don't need it anymore, and you need to adapt to that," was an awfully dark moment in my life. I'm sorry that your ex-wife never realized the importance of fixing that issue. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Yeah, gotta watch that "medical condition" thing though. Mine sometimes blamed her anxiety, depression, and ADHD. And yes, they were genuine diagnoses - for which she wasn't seeking treatment. She didn't view our sex life as a problem that needed fixing, so she had no incentive to get healthier. Ouch! You have my sincere empathy and sympathy. Thank you, though it's certainly not required at this point - we went our separate ways. Still connected via our children, so I deal with her enough to remind me *why* we are in the situation we are in. Yeah, being told, "I just don't need it anymore, and you need to adapt to that," was an awfully dark moment in my life. I'm sorry that your ex-wife never realized the importance of fixing that issue. Jeeze, now I'm the one having flashbacks - that's almost verbatim what she said to me at one point. I'm glad you both got through it. Though, in fairness to my wife, my actions after that point did not help matters. At all. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:56:31 PM EDT
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... That's good news. Apparently, I still have a way to go until I have to do without. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:57:05 PM EDT
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I can relate. Last time I put it where it belongs we conceived a son. He will be ten in April. You do the math. Now I just jack off in her socks and put them back in the drawer. Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. Yes. 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:57:32 PM EDT
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My wife has offered, and I think she would go through with it and hate me/herself afterwards, to get me a hooker. We've had sex maybe a half dozen times in the last 15 months since our 3rd child was born. Her hormones have been off this time around. She didn't breastfeed for very long with the 1st two and I've read that can cause hormone issues resulting in a lower libido. I'm hoping once she's done with breastfeeding it'll get better.  Quote HistoryQuoted:
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seriously, ask her if she cares if you jack it to porn then. im genuinely curious to see what she says to that. assuming the issue isnt that she sees you as disgusting in some way. are your teeth nasty? breath stink? dress/act like a slob? get some exercise and be more healthy? what have you tried? My wife has offered, and I think she would go through with it and hate me/herself afterwards, to get me a hooker. We've had sex maybe a half dozen times in the last 15 months since our 3rd child was born. Her hormones have been off this time around. She didn't breastfeed for very long with the 1st two and I've read that can cause hormone issues resulting in a lower libido. I'm hoping once she's done with breastfeeding it'll get better. My Wife finally finished breastfeeding the last one, and her libido took a 180 turn for the better since then. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:57:44 PM EDT
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Define sexless. Hell, define "fuction". 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:57:44 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: they are either diseased or undercover cops...  Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: im leaning to hookers at this point they are either diseased or undercover cops... |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:58:22 PM EDT
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Do you follow the 16 C.O.P.??????
The answer to this makes all the difference. Let's start here. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:58:48 PM EDT
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1. Get to the bottom of why it's a sexless marriage.
2. Do something to remedy that. 3. If partner is unable or unwilling to do anything to remedy that, to include pleasuring you in ways that don't require vagina/flowers/candy/feeling sexy/etc, let partner know that they are choosing the divorce option. 4. Follow through with it. 5. Find someone who gives a shit about your sexual needs. 6. At no point sit there like a fucking child and stew in resentment and weird sexual tension because you're too stupid, stubborn or afraid to act for your own sexual health and the good of the relationship. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:59:06 PM EDT
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to find a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 4:59:24 PM EDT
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Tell her you just want to take naked pictures. The cop won't agree to this. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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im leaning to hookers at this point they are either diseased or undercover cops... Is this one of those "If you ask someone if they are a cop they have to tell the truth" things? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:00:49 PM EDT
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Jeeze, now I'm the one having flashbacks - that's almost verbatim what she said to me at one point. I'm glad you both got through it. Though, in fairness to my wife, my actions after that point did not help matters. At all. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Yeah, gotta watch that "medical condition" thing though. Mine sometimes blamed her anxiety, depression, and ADHD. And yes, they were genuine diagnoses - for which she wasn't seeking treatment. She didn't view our sex life as a problem that needed fixing, so she had no incentive to get healthier. Ouch! You have my sincere empathy and sympathy. Thank you, though it's certainly not required at this point - we went our separate ways. Still connected via our children, so I deal with her enough to remind me *why* we are in the situation we are in. Yeah, being told, "I just don't need it anymore, and you need to adapt to that," was an awfully dark moment in my life. I'm sorry that your ex-wife never realized the importance of fixing that issue. Jeeze, now I'm the one having flashbacks - that's almost verbatim what she said to me at one point. I'm glad you both got through it. Though, in fairness to my wife, my actions after that point did not help matters. At all. I think if my wife gave me an ultimatum like that, I would adapt to that by finding another woman (post divorce). |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:01:08 PM EDT
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It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:02:11 PM EDT
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That's good news. Apparently, I still have a way to go until I have to do without. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... That's good news. Apparently, I still have a way to go until I have to do without. 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:02:23 PM EDT
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Oh yeah - someone above mentioned how "sex is a sign of love, etc."
Read The Five Love Languages. Seriously. I read it near the end of my marriage and literally smacked myself on the forehead and said "It all makes sense now!" It was too late for the marriage, but the knowledge has been a real asset in post-marital relationships. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:03:17 PM EDT
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. Just don't be picky about him having teeth or money and you're gtg. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:05:11 PM EDT
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See a doctor. If she refuses, divorce or a change in your agreement.
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:05:51 PM EDT
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There is no easy answer. I have dealt with it for a long time now. Been through rage, hate, anger, numbness, etc. She did not care. For me it was the kids and they deserved both parents, basically, I have had to roll with it and take one for the team, put the kids before me. Also, after you are in long enough, the costs become too high to change it. I empathize with you, I hate it, but my kids well being means more. Most women do not get it that sex with your wife means she loves and when she won't, then it means they don't to you. Her words to the contrary are meaningless. If you don't have kids consider bailing, if you do then you need to decide which takes precedence. Sorry, it sucks. Pretty much my situation here. After the kids leave for college, things will come to a boiling point for sure. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:07:44 PM EDT
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Men cannot trust themselves to make good decisions on matters of sex and romance except in the 20-30 minutes immediately following ejaculation. It's science. Sigline material for sure. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:08:01 PM EDT
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:15:04 PM EDT
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Eject, have an affair, become a monk. In that order.
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:16:23 PM EDT
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Just don't be picky about him having teeth or money and you're gtg. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. Just don't be picky about him having teeth or money and you're gtg. I never did care about money. As for the other, I never had anyone gum it - never even thought of it, to be honest - but I'm typically amenable to new MTM experiences. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:17:53 PM EDT
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I never did care about money. As for the other, I never had anyone gum it - never even thought of it, to be honest - but I'm typically amenable to new MTM experiences. Mouth to...Muffin? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:18:43 PM EDT
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Lots of fapping? That's one the only way to fuction... FIFY
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:21:28 PM EDT
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I'm assuming you a man. How old are you and your wife? HAve you talked to her? Maybe she has medical issues? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:21:43 PM EDT
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Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 30-something woman who is in good shape, owns her own place, has no kids and has a well-paying job. Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. True. 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:21:48 PM EDT
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Men cannot trust themselves to make good decisions on matters of sex and romance except in the 20-30 minutes immediately following ejaculation. It's science. Sigline material for sure. It's got it all. The truth, wisdom, and the user name. my Ex wife stopped having sex with me the last four months of our marriage. I remember walking into the bathroom and she was shaving. I said that's definitely not for me. She got pissed.... Turns out, I was right. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:22:52 PM EDT
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Hookers? Rub and Tug joint? Find a good Asian Massage Parlor, and become a regular.... Probably the cheapest solution in the long run... There you go. then you can tell the wife that her job has been outsourced to china. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:23:10 PM EDT
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Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Hell, it isn't hard to find a man who will accomodate a 40-something woman who is in fair shape, has a mortgage, a grown son, and a paying job. It isn't hard to find a man who will accommodate a 50-something woman, whos is a bit out of shape, homeless, with three dependant children and on welfare.... It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. I've always been the monogamous type. I'd probably pick out one and stick with him until he was dead or comatose. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:23:44 PM EDT
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If you read carefully, he specified "put it where it belongs". Consider where we are, and consider the range of human behaviors left open by that statement. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I can relate. Last time I put it where it belongs we conceived a son. He will be ten in April. You do the math. Now I just jack off in her socks and put them back in the drawer. Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. If you read carefully, he specified "put it where it belongs". Consider where we are, and consider the range of human behaviors left open by that statement. I was trying to get my point across without being crass. The last time we had sex to the point where I came...we conceived a son. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:24:37 PM EDT
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Don't get married.......
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:24:51 PM EDT
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I never did care about money. As for the other, I never had anyone gum it - never even thought of it, to be honest - but I'm typically amenable to new MTM experiences. Mouth to...Muffin? I was thinking Muff, but close enough. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:26:37 PM EDT
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My wife has a extremely low sex drive, once a month is about what she craves, right before here period starts is the only time she craves the dick. She's not on any pills had tubal. We've talked about it, read books, I'm in good shape and have good grooming she simply didn't have the drive. She wasn't willing to get medically checked for low testosterone. A lot of resentment and I even threatened divorce after 10 years. Were at 12 years and now I take care of my own business, picked up a couple more hobbies and just keep myself active. Kids are happy and wife is happy and yes I still get it about once a month. It is what it is and I guess I've finally learned to not look at my wife for sex. She's more my roomy and fellow kid chaser with the occasional happy ending. When kids are grown up and moved out of the house, who knows where we will be at.
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:27:33 PM EDT
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:27:59 PM EDT
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She needs to compromise. If she never wants it, and you want it every day, then you need to have sex every other day. That's only fair. Every other day you each get what you want. Are you married? man, that's DDiggler. no matter if he's married or not. the Dig lives. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:28:42 PM EDT
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I've always been the monogamous type. I'd probably pick out one and stick with him until he was dead or comatose. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. I've always been the monogamous type. I'd probably pick out one and stick with him until he was dead or comatose. So, a new one every couple of months or so? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:30:30 PM EDT
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I was trying to get my point across without being crass. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I can relate. Last time I put it where it belongs we conceived a son. He will be ten in April. You do the math. Now I just jack off in her socks and put them back in the drawer. Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. If you read carefully, he specified "put it where it belongs". Consider where we are, and consider the range of human behaviors left open by that statement. I was trying to get my point across without being crass. This is GD - crass is what keeps us hanging on. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:31:21 PM EDT
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Back before she finally filed for divorce, I beat off a lot. It was actually better than having sex with her, so it was kind of a win for me. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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good options please Back before she finally filed for divorce, I beat off a lot. It was actually better than having sex with her, so it was kind of a win for me. Username relevant? |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:38:41 PM EDT
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I was trying to get my point across without being crass. The last time we had sex to the point where I came...we conceived a son. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I can relate. Last time I put it where it belongs we conceived a son. He will be ten in April. You do the math. Now I just jack off in her socks and put them back in the drawer. Are you serious? Not about the socks......don't care about those. If you read carefully, he specified "put it where it belongs". Consider where we are, and consider the range of human behaviors left open by that statement. I was trying to get my point across without being crass. The last time we had sex to the point where I came...we conceived a son. I've been here for seven long years; subtlety is largely lost on me and I've learned to read between the lines. That said, you have my sympathy. I mean that sincerely. It seems to me you have a limited number of options, all bad. It really is terribly unfair. 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:44:42 PM EDT
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There are only two reasons that I can think of a woman wouldn't be up for sex with her husband: she feels that intimacy is lacking between you, or she's unhealthy.
The first thing I would do is sit down with her and ask her if she feels like her needs are being met in the relationship. Start paying attention to subtle cues - things she does for herself that she used to ask you to do, times when she just stops talking to you about something suddenly, etc. Make an honest and serious effort to meet her emotional needs first, before all else. If you even bring up the "lack of sex" issue, you should be clear that your focus right now is on making her happy, and that her happiness is more important to you than your immediate sex drive. If there are no significant changes in a month or so, then you should talk to her about going to see a doctor about how she feels. If she's not up for sex, she's probably not happy in a lot of ways - and one way or another, she has the ability to be happy and she shouldn't have to live a miserable life. The biggest mistakes you could make here would be coming off like you're chalking the whole problem up to hormones, or that the problem is your dick not getting wet often enough. Lack of sex is a symptom, not a problem. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:44:52 PM EDT
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Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. I've always been the monogamous type. I'd probably pick out one and stick with him until he was dead or comatose. So, a new one every couple of months or so? I'd hope to get longer than that out of them, but when they die, they die. <shrug> |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:44:59 PM EDT
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It isn't hard for any woman with a wet hole to a man to accommodate her......just has to be said. Wow! Better still. Just don't be picky about him having teeth or money and you're gtg. I never did care about money. As for the other, I never had anyone gum it - never even thought of it, to be honest - but I'm typically amenable to new MTM experiences. You're a gem, and from what I've read you really know how to work with wood.....if I weren't married I'd invite you over to my shop. I could always use some pointers on my cabinet and furniture building. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:45:48 PM EDT
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Man i feel bad for you people in sexless relationships.
Ive probably dated way more than my fair share of women. I think two were not into sex. They got dumped way before marriage talk ever got brought up. Even if my exwife and I had been at each others throats all day we could find time to grudge fuck. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:46:18 PM EDT
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There are only two reasons that I can think of a woman wouldn't be up for sex with her husband: she feels that intimacy is lacking between you, or she's unhealthy. The first thing I would do is sit down with her and ask her if she feels like her needs are being met in the relationship. Start paying attention to subtle cues - things she does for herself that she used to ask you to do, times when she just stops talking to you about something suddenly, etc. Make an honest and serious effort to meet her emotional needs first, before all else. If you even bring up the "lack of sex" issue, you should be clear that your focus right now is on making her happy, and that her happiness is more important to you than your immediate sex drive. If there are no significant changes in a month or so, then you should talk to her about going to see a doctor about her feelings. If she's not up for sex, she's probably not happy in a lot of ways - and one way or another, she has the ability to be happy and she shouldn't have to live a miserable life. The biggest mistakes you could make here would be coming off like you're chalking the whole problem up to hormones, or that the problem is your dick not getting wet often enough. Lack of sex is a symptom, not a problem. Oh, there's a couple more reasons why. Well one actually . |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:47:43 PM EDT
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There are only two reasons that I can think of a woman wouldn't be up for sex with her husband: she feels that intimacy is lacking between you, or she's unhealthy. The first thing I would do is sit down with her and ask her if she feels like her needs are being met in the relationship. Start paying attention to subtle cues - things she does for herself that she used to ask you to do, times when she just stops talking to you about something suddenly, etc. Make an honest and serious effort to meet her emotional needs first, before all else. If you even bring up the "lack of sex" issue, you should be clear that your focus right now is on making her happy, and that her happiness is more important to you than your immediate sex drive. If there are no significant changes in a month or so, then you should talk to her about going to see a doctor about her feelings. If she's not up for sex, she's probably not happy in a lot of ways - and one way or another, she has the ability to be happy and she shouldn't have to live a miserable life. The biggest mistakes you could make here would be coming off like you're chalking the whole problem up to hormones, or that the problem is your dick not getting wet often enough. Lack of sex is a symptom, not a problem. Oh, there's a couple more reasons why. Well one actually . If you're talking about an affair - I've never heard of a woman who was in a loving marriage having an affair. |
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Jane, I have the suspicion that you'll be shaking your Ensure, bringing all the boys to the Activity Room. I've always been the monogamous type. I'd probably pick out one and stick with him until he was dead or comatose. So, a new one every couple of months or so? I'd hope to get longer than that out of them, but when they die, they die. <shrug> 
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:50:59 PM EDT
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My wife doesn't seem interested after she had the baby 13 weeks ago today. We've messed around but no fulfilling action. Sucks because fapping does get old. I'm not the kind of guy to cheat so I guess I'll wake her up one morning with my dick in her face jacking off. That should get the point across. I'm half stupid and even I know that what you just wrote is stupid. 13 weeks and you're grumpy she ain't giving it up? Do you have any idea how fucked up her body is right now? 13 months with no pussy is a thing to be concerned about. 13 weeks is still recovery time. Please tell me you forgot to click on the smiley indicating satire. |
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Posted: 11/3/2015 5:52:47 PM EDT
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There are only two reasons that I can think of a woman wouldn't be up for sex with her husband: she feels that intimacy is lacking between you, or she's unhealthy. The first thing I would do is sit down with her and ask her if she feels like her needs are being met in the relationship. Start paying attention to subtle cues - things she does for herself that she used to ask you to do, times when she just stops talking to you about something suddenly, etc. Make an honest and serious effort to meet her emotional needs first, before all else. If you even bring up the "lack of sex" issue, you should be clear that your focus right now is on making her happy, and that her happiness is more important to you than your immediate sex drive. If there are no significant changes in a month or so, then you should talk to her about going to see a doctor about her feelings. If she's not up for sex, she's probably not happy in a lot of ways - and one way or another, she has the ability to be happy and she shouldn't have to live a miserable life. The biggest mistakes you could make here would be coming off like you're chalking the whole problem up to hormones, or that the problem is your dick not getting wet often enough. Lack of sex is a symptom, not a problem. Oh, there's a couple more reasons why. Well one actually . If you're talking about an affair - I've never heard of a woman who was in a loving marriage having an affair. Would like my exes number? |
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