While it in no way fucked up my life what happened was still wrong.
It is wrong for a woman in a position of authority to have sex with those she is responsible for.
What I and OP are trying to say is that banging a teacher is not what it is cracked up to be.
It's not like in porn where you dump your load on her face and never see her again, you're usually stuck with her for a while.
The women that do this are mental they seek young boys out because they have problems and are trying to solve them.
They think that having sex with these boys and pressuring them will fix what ever issues they have.
They do it to young boys and not men their age because they are much more easier to manipulate.
They are indeed predators. Being manipulated and abused that way could mess up those that are weaker minded.

Hard to say.  Over-sexualize a young man and when the source is cut off he'll likely turn to other outlets.

OP, I'd love to weigh in with you on equal punishment for female sex offenders, but I've spent all day in discussion with the ethically handicapped who thing there's nothing wrong with female teachers banging their underage students, and I need to get started on dinner.  Maybe next time.  Good luck.

Eyes can rape too. Get with the program.

Sorry for your friend OP.

Tragic story.

Sorry for you and your friend...

that's my point. there's a difference between just banging a woman when you're a teen, and being abused by one.  the main part where you are wrong is numbers. a lot of boys who are assaulted dont tell people, or if its found out, they lie to their friends and claim consensual to show a sense of manliness or to convey that they conquered the woman, spinning the assault into a conquest that their peers could only dream of.

running to police, crying rape, even going to a therapist is seen as being weak, and the disparity of treatment between women and male abusers just reinforce the ideas of talking to police just not worth it. tie it in with thoughts of, "well i got hard, and i ejaculated, so I must have liked it" slowly eating away at their mind victims can block out the trauma as a defense mechanism.

just look at the numbers of men and boys who do come forward after being tied up, sodomized, etc. they wait sometimes their lives before telling someone because of the shame they fear if someone found out. you really think that an assault with out that level of depravity wouldn't have the same effect?  

lump all of this social stigma into religious beliefs and its a much harder world for men who are victims. there are no support groups, society laughs at them, the legal system doesn't take them seriously. it makes the entire situation much harder to handle.

the eyes are just an extension of the penis duh.

Interesting read.

No shit. I tried to read it but had to default to OPs, TL;DR. Then I feel guilt for not being more compassionate then that turns to anger. Now I have to drink. Fuck.

I skimmed through the text. I need cliff notes.

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I laughed so hard

It's not cool when a woman in a position of authority fucks those she is responsible for.
It can fuck some people's lives up. GD needs to get over their hot teacher fantasy.

 

friend gets abused by friends mom, what she did should have been a felony, got off with a misd and a month in jail. friend is all fucked up from it because of the usual issues that arise from being raped.

In the Mormon world, you look at a sports illustrated once, you have a porn addiction.

Where the fuck was all this " Women/Female Teachers taking advantage of boys" shit when i was young?
 

It happened it just wasn't as easy to hear about.
It happens a lot more than it is reported also.

Agree completely

Hell i was only friends with one kid growing up cause his mom was hot...just saying

This thread is relatively easy to masturbate to.

Why does that matter?

A bit of an exaggeration, but it is true that in the LDS community there is a very low tolerance for pornography usage.  My wife has had multiple cousins who divorced their husbands for what they viewed as a, "pornography problem."

This.  Whatever happened between your friend and a middle aged woman, was a long time ago.  She isn't showing up on his doorstep today, is she?

Every day has the potential to be a step down a better path than that which we trod yesterday, all that needs to be done is to take responsibility for yourself and your behavior, make good decisions, and have the fortitude to roll with the punches.  Every day spent eschewing that in favor of wallowing in your own past shit and blaming others is a day wasted.  

Just my opinion.

ETA: Why does shit like this always have a religious component?

I'm almost 40 and still think with my penis

 

Maybe because most Americans are religious.

Not my circus, not my monkey.

Did the original paper have an abundance of random carriage returns as well or was it a WOT?  Why you hate your TA?

This.

We need pics to decide if guilty or not.

BTW, your friend is a homo, and in before my abused friend turned out to be homo and made a move on me thread

Hmmm your friend was fcked long before this apparently. The strong survive Darwin etc. etc. etc. Not that I disagree about the sentence disparities but seriously? And before you give me shit your friend ain't got nothing on me as far as abuse but I'm not a total pussy and I put that shit behind me where it belongs. Your post sux and you should feel bad

The problem for this kid is that -even though he knew it was wrong, and she was the adult and could have ended it- it probably did feel impossible to tell her "no."

It is the psychological element that hurts him today. He probably initially did not want to tell her no because she was a friends mom, and he liked his friend.

Then when he was into it, he did not want to hurt her, or tell the Police and get her into trouble.

That is psychologically tough.

Then there is the element that even though he knew it was wrong, and he was manipulated, he was "wanting" the parts of the relationship that felt good.

It was probably very psychologically devastating to him...

And... For most well-adjusted adults, they don't just jump in the deep end, sexually. Most well-adjusted adults in productive relationships start a relationship, become friends, establish boundaries, fall into more than friendship, get married (or not) then have sex. Those steps might go quicker in some cases... But well-adjusted adults *usually* have a relationship, establish boundaries, feel each other out emotionally, then have sex...

That is how it goes for most people who are appropriately adjusted, emotionally...

Their pathway to a sexual relationship in a successful long-term relationship more-often-than-not took a path to get to the sex...

Yeah, there are exceptions to the rule. But generally speaking, sex on the first date is not super-common in successful marriages and relationships... The truth is that well-adjusted adults do not have sex with everything that walks-by, and their sexual relationships are usually mutually satisfying, and mutually beneficial to both parties... And in most cases, there was an established positive relationship prior to the relationship becoming sexual.

In this kids case, he jumped in the deep end with no life preserver.

That is what happened here.

He jumped in the deep end having no prior experience, and an un-equal relationship with his partner.

That is jacked-up psychologically... No matter how you look at it, that is jacked-up...

As for the pornography aspect. He probably did like some aspects of jumping in the deep end. It was probably hard for him to reconcile, in his head... But she jacked with this kids head. No other way to look at it.

Pornography is bad, in LDS theology... In LDS theology, pornography can lead to bad habits and behaviors... In the case of this kid... He was jacked-up psychologically, sexually speaking, from his first encounter with sex... I imagine they are not referring to gals in swimming trunks from the story...

Lol. I get it can cause issues with some. Life sucks. And then you die.

Not always man.  OP's story is nothing more then a case of two mentally ill people engaging in a fucked up relationship and second mentally ill person (The Juvenile male) now has an excuse/crutch for his continuing mental illness.  Lets be real here. Humans are nothing more then animals. We are the most intelligent animals, but we still have the same basic primal instincts. The whole argument over whats right and wrong, religion, etc. is whats screwing with people who feel guilty over sexual encounters


The reality of the situation is woman makes penis erect. You place said penis in mouth, vagina, or even anus. Continue till orgasm. Then you clean up.  Having some kind of BS lifelong commitment (I think marriage is BS), emotional connection, or anything else is just extra. We have a sex drive (be thankful if its a high one). We are designed to have sex. Think on the rights/wrongs too much and your just adding unnecessary stress/tension in your life on whats supposed to be a pleasurable experience. People/society places entirely too high of an emphasis on the emotional/spiritual side of it when in reality its just base instinct.




I was raised in an extremely religious house-hold (and all my friends were as well) and just lol if you don't think at 10 years old I wasn't fooling around with my female friends who were around the same age (and parents thought we were super innocent). For as long as I can remember I wanted to bang my buddies mom. Never happened but I wish it would have.   Also doesn't mean I didn't fool around with older teenage girls when I was relatively young.

Another thing I've learned is the more religious someone is raised/ the more sexually repressed. The more likely they are going to turn into an absolute freak once they get older/get a little bit of freedom.





So yes I think an older female who bangs a younger guy is probably jacked up in the head. But I also don't think it causes some kind of mental illness or anything with the male. (I can speak from firsthand experience). Some people are going to be jacked up regardless. Some people are going to be fine regardless.  Almost everyone of my friends growing up had a thing for 'milfs'. If I could have chosen a women in her 30s VS a female my own age I'd have went with the older women every friggin time.

An interesting read and I suppose it points out some things I'd never really thought about. You should re-post in Team for some honest dialogue and to weed out the mouth-breathers. Thanks for posting!

Agree OP interesting read. I hope we can all get out of the juvenile "wish I coulda banged her shit" and stop allowing this feminist bullshit to persist.

Sorry I didn't read past the thread title.  But can't fathom a teen male being traumatized by a sexual encounter with a female.

If we are all equal we should be equal in sentencing, divorce, etc. If we are not equal we should celebrate the differences and appreciate them.

Yeah, not reading that shit. Punctuation, the OP does not has it.

Women r crazy.

I attempted to read....but damn.....space the shit out a little..


That gave me a head ache.

 

OP didn't post anything I didn't already know.

And, as usual, GD never fails to disappoint.

It seems that at lest 50% of ARFCOM is incapable of thinking with anything other than their penis.  And they wonder why we think they're all liberals.  

Huge bunch of GodDamned hypocrites.

You like several others here proved you are incapable of not thinking with your dick in a situation like this.
You failed to realize the point and what makes encounters like this wrong.