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Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:42:25 PM EDT
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$4000 in 1997.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:43:22 PM EDT
[#2]
3/4 karat gold band and wedding band in 1980 $1600 Jewelers Row in Chicago. Paid cash, which meant that I basically signed over that weeks construction check.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:43:48 PM EDT
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It blows my mind why anyone would spend more than $1000 on an engagement ring.

/Never been married.


When you get to be a big boy you'll see it's not that much compared to what you're getting. I spent 7k on the band alone for a high quality 1karet.


Diamonds are a fucking scam and I wouldn't have married a woman who didn't agree with me. "Big Boy".. lol. Big sucker is more like it.


Bet you two are a blast out on the social circuit.


How many guns did you have to sell to afford the rock?

Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:44:41 PM EDT
[#4]
I think we spent $2,800 for her wedding and engagement total
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:44:59 PM EDT
[#5]
About $100. At the exchange about 20 years ago.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:45:17 PM EDT
[#6]
$350 for the set in 1987

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Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:45:55 PM EDT
[#7]
$5500 wholesale.


In 1986.

Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:45:56 PM EDT
[#8]
$2500ish for a tiny chip of diamond from Tiffany in 2006.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:46:30 PM EDT
[#9]
Just under $4,000.00 in 1992.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:46:41 PM EDT
[#10]
Bought a 1.04 ct VS1 dia ring from International Jewelers in Lynnwood WA in 1995 for $3500

Probably retails for close to double that now - I might be able to break even selling it locally.

It is sitting on the top shelf of 1 of my gun safes ( not on a finger )
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:47:28 PM EDT
[#11]
$2800 engagement ring, $1200 matching wedding band. Nowhere near what the ridiculous rule of thumb said to spend.

Kharn
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:47:44 PM EDT
[#12]
A good friend of mine sold his bass boat to buy his fiancee an $18k ring she demanded.  Don't do that.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:47:56 PM EDT
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None but admittedly I bought it before I got into firearms.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:49:04 PM EDT
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Pics of fiancee?
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:50:41 PM EDT
[#15]
Approximately 1% of my annual salary.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:51:15 PM EDT
[#16]
$2,200 in 1999.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:52:26 PM EDT
[#17]
$750 for her bridal set in 2001. 14 years later she won't let me upgrade it. I'm getting her a nice Past, Present and Future next year. And a honeymoon. We were poor poor poor and made bad decisions as a young couple but there's no one else on earth I'd want to have my back. Life gets better and better with her.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:52:52 PM EDT
[#18]
About 1k, and that includes the tools. I bought a loose rock, cast the ring myself and did the mounting.



Now I just need to find the lady to go with it....
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:53:13 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:53:43 PM EDT
[#20]
Don't remember will be 29 years this Sunday..
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:57:12 PM EDT
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I spent 8 weeks with my jewler looking at diamonds (25 years ago) {Jewler was a friend who participated in the same hobbies.}
I spent $8K on the diamond, it was appraised at $12K, and he threw in the ring part for free.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:58:23 PM EDT
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Nothing, I used a family Heirloom. So did my sons.
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thats awesome. old jewelry is beautiful and its fun hearing the history behind the piece.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:58:36 PM EDT
[#23]
$4500 1.5 carats.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 9:58:59 PM EDT
[#24]
2500 for the ring and band.  About 5% of my salary at the time I think.

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Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:00:50 PM EDT
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I'm in this ballpark, custom with black diamond and peridots.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:01:21 PM EDT
[#26]
5200
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:02:54 PM EDT
[#27]
in '85 my sisters best friend said one rule of thumb was about 6 weeks pay...
Things were good back then, 24 with my own business, the best jeweler in town didn't have one worth that much :)

Of course it worked out about as most guys suspect, divorce will be final this month...
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:03:32 PM EDT
[#28]
Nothing she got a wedding ring
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:05:36 PM EDT
[#29]
$3,000 for a .75 carat princess cut in a halo setting with a rose gold ring.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:11:39 PM EDT
[#30]
I want to say my bridal set total was around $1200 in 1990. Jewelry lasts forever. No reason to be stupid or stingy.

I would like an anniversary band of sorts but maybe not. I don't need any more. Of course, I don't need anymore firearms and I am sure I will get more of those.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:12:39 PM EDT
[#31]
$87.00

it does not really matter if she loves you. it could be $100 or $10,000.

talk to her some about what you want to spend your money on, a ring, honeymoon, pay off student loans, put money down on a house, etc.

it also is highly dependent on your income.  
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:20:58 PM EDT
[#32]
$0.00.  we eere too poor to buy that.  now we have money,  seems unimportant to both of us.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:24:50 PM EDT
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Managed to pay cash for it while making a mortgage payment and raising a kid at the age of 22.

I shopped around and got the absolute nicest ring I could afford. .75 carat and super good quality. She still gets compliments on it on a weekly basis at work not even exaggerating.  Scoring that ring is one thing I did in life that I'm proud of lol.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:28:57 PM EDT
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$1K.  Best money I ever spent.  When my wife looks at her ring, she knows that I didn't bat an eye at the price.

Are diamond rings a good investment?  No.  Is a wife who is happy every time she looks at her hand a good investment?

Oh, hell yes!
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:37:04 PM EDT
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$700 in 2001 when we were young and poor.



$7500 in 2008 after having a job and deciding that she deserved an upgrade.



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I think people are bitching about the artificial inflation of diamond prices.  Lots of real diamonds out there are worthless.  A well made piece goes beyond the actual material value of the stones and metal, though.  I think some people miss that.



 
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:37:10 PM EDT
[#36]
about $3,500 i think.. wedding ring was a blowpop!!
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:38:29 PM EDT
[#37]
Sold my '79 z28 to get her a $4000 ring in 1998.

She lost it in 2010.

I went out and bought a '73 z28 to get her back.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:41:07 PM EDT
[#38]
Ok I'll take one for GD

Blue Nile 1.7 princess excellent quality in 04'

17Kish plus

And no I'm not wealthy - spent total of 3G on wedding and week in north shore Oahu
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:44:52 PM EDT
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About 1k, and that includes the tools. I bought a loose rock, cast the ring myself and did the mounting.

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This man is GD incarnate!  
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:44:58 PM EDT
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23 dollars.    I used my moms old ring.   I traded the yellow gold for white and set the diamond myself.   The 23 bucks was the price difference for the band.   It was nice working ng in a jewelry store at the time
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:46:00 PM EDT
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Got her ring at COSTCO..no shit and the diamond quality was great for the price compared to a jewelry store.
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This.  Also, great return policy if the marriage suffers the arfcom curse.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:46:01 PM EDT
[#42]
$225. Didn't give her a diamond, and she couldn't care less. We started our marriage with me working 4 jobs to pay our bills while we were both going to school.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:46:10 PM EDT
[#43]
1988 - $700 and have added a few over the years
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:46:38 PM EDT
[#44]
$1200 for a 1.25 carat solitaire.  Her parents own a pawnshop and she had picked out the ring years before, I just paid what they had in it.  
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:47:37 PM EDT
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$2,700 in 2002
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About this for three rings. Her two and my band.
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:47:56 PM EDT
[#46]
Total spent courting her: $0
Total spent on gifts for her: $0
Total spent on "the ring" for her: $0


BEING SINGLE:  priceless
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:48:06 PM EDT
[#47]
1988 - $700 and have added a few over the years
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:49:08 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:51:14 PM EDT
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Got her ring at COSTCO..no shit and the diamond quality was great for the price compared to a jewelry store.





This.  Also, great return policy if the marriage suffers the arfcom curse.

Engagement has been for a year now with no wedding date set.  At our age a wedding isn't necessary right away, but I wanted her to have a ring so she wouldn't appear as a harlot..Lol (She lives in SC and goes to church on Sundays).  I will marry her someday I would hate to have something happen to me and her not receive my benefits.



 
Link Posted: 2/3/2015 10:52:41 PM EDT
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Zero...Been Married 22yrs
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