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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:11:56 PM EDT
For starters, let me explain this whole NIGHTMARE quickly...
I was banging this hot chick with a heaping dose of the crazy... my best friend sees us out together, pull me aside tells me she is fucking MARRIED and he works with her husband... she had told me her husband had died in a car wreck.  I immediately exited stage left... ten years later I get a summons in the mail to go see if this kid is mine... FML Turns out I didn't exit stage left fast enough and my swimmers got the job done... so now the state is after me for child support from DAY FUCKING ONE!!  My lawyer says no fucking way and the judge decides since she didn't have enough class to let me know I had a kid out there, I wasn't obligated to support a kid I didn't even know existed. So here we are 4 years later... I get a notice that my child support was up for review and to send in all my income info... which I have nothing to hide... but I just knew I was going to get hosed as my income has went up and my older two kids from my first wife had both turned 18 and I no longer pay support for them. Well I am sitting around waiting for the hammer to come down from the state telling me my child support was going up big time... I get a letter in the mail from the child support folks letting me know that the review has been cancelled as she failed to send in the required paperwork...  So now she is hosed for FOUR years before they trigger another review at which time my son will be 18 and she can go fuck herself with a cactus! |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:13:32 PM EDT
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Is he a good kid?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:14:28 PM EDT
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise]
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:14:41 PM EDT
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How often to you get to see your Son?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:15:46 PM EDT
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Do you spend time with the kid? Do you support him economically?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:15:48 PM EDT
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Poor kid.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:15:58 PM EDT
[#6]
Wait until she moves to a state where she can collect past 18.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:16:37 PM EDT
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Pics of the crazy milf?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:17:27 PM EDT
[#8]
Sounds like you dodged a bullet OP.....this time.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:20:33 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: How often to you get to see your Son? I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:21:19 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:22:24 PM EDT
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Her ex-husband...
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband...
Then how did you get hit with child support legally? If the courts have decided you need to pay support, they also have to recognize that you are legally entitled to visitation rights. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:22:43 PM EDT
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I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How often to you get to see your Son? I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. Don't sweat it, my friend. Your seed is spread and you've insured your genes live on through another generation. Anything else in inconsequencial. My line dies with me. I shoot blanks. 
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:23:09 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Do you spend time with the kid? Do you support him economically? No rights to see him... but she gets a tidy sum every two weeks. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:23:36 PM EDT
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Her ex-husband...
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband...
Godamn....... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:24:07 PM EDT
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Did he find out it wasn't his at birth?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:24:22 PM EDT
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I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How often to you get to see your Son? I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:24:26 PM EDT
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I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How often to you get to see your Son? I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. Best wishes, brother! That is some major league suckage. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:25:21 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Then how did you get hit with child support legally? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband... Then how did you get hit with child support legally? What I think happened was her ex figured out she was fucking around and when it came time for him to pay child support he said he wanted DNA proof that her two kids were actually his... I am curious as to the parentage of her older daughter as she looks nothing like her ex husband or herself... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:26:05 PM EDT
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Her ex-husband...
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband...
Your off the hook, son! :happydance! Motherfuckers! : |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:26:13 PM EDT
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Only in Amerika.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:26:19 PM EDT
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So, nothing, from what I read. You turned in some paperwork, otherwise no financial harm to yourself. Good for you. She can't pursue. Good for you. She was a good fuck. Good for you. You have a kid. You don't have to pay for it. Good for you. Hope the kid never knows who his father is.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:26:46 PM EDT
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Poor kid. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:27:47 PM EDT
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What I think happened was her ex figured out she was fucking around and when it came time for him to pay child support he said he wanted DNA proof that her two kids were actually his... I am curious as to the parentage of her older daughter as she looks nothing like her ex husband or herself... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband...
Then how did you get hit with child support legally? What I think happened was her ex figured out she was fucking around and when it came time for him to pay child support he said he wanted DNA proof that her two kids were actually his... I am curious as to the parentage of her older daughter as she looks nothing like her ex husband or herself... What state was this in? Most states recognize the person on the BC as the father, especially if it's the husband, there are only a few where you can contest that for a limited period of time. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:27:48 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: if you pay support how do you not get at least basic visitation? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: How often to you get to see your Son? I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. When we went to court I asked for visitation but since I now live in another state the judge said it was too much to ask for a couple weeks in the summer over a couple weekends a month... I would love to take it back to court, but that cost a shitload of money we just don't have right now. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:29:06 PM EDT
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Her ex-husband...
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If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband...
Ill bet his ass is grass Someone else will have to pay if you're not on the hook |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:29:25 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: What state was this in? Most states recognize the person on the BC as the father, especially if it's the husband, there are only a few where you can contest that for a limited period of time. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: If she was married, who's name was on the birth certificate? [father wise] Her ex-husband... Then how did you get hit with child support legally? What I think happened was her ex figured out she was fucking around and when it came time for him to pay child support he said he wanted DNA proof that her two kids were actually his... I am curious as to the parentage of her older daughter as she looks nothing like her ex husband or herself... What state was this in? Most states recognize the person on the BC as the father, especially if it's the husband, there are only a few where you can contest that for a limited period of time. Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:29:56 PM EDT
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Good to hear you are so happy about not supporting your kid!
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:30:02 PM EDT
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Do you spend time with the kid? Do you support him economically? From OP, he don't pay shit, and won't have to. Convenient. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:30:16 PM EDT
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How does one keep coitus from taking place between first wife kids and crazy girl kid in this situation (assuming sex is compatible, or not compatible if that's how the roll, then there is the tranny angle). That would make for a weird turkey day realization.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:31:45 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: So, nothing, from what I read. You turned in some paperwork, otherwise no financial harm to yourself. Good for you. She can't pursue. Good for you. She was a good fuck. Good for you. You have a kid. You don't have to pay for it. Good for you. Hope the kid never knows who his father is. Reading comprehension in this group sometimes boggles the imagination... I already pay a tidy amount in support... it just isn't going to be more. I WANT to see my kid... but a judge said no. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:32:05 PM EDT
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Does your son know you are his father?
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:32:52 PM EDT
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Poor kid. Maybe some day he'll want to meet his Dad 
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:33:12 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Does your son know you are his father? I have no idea... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:33:58 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Good to hear you are so happy about not supporting your kid! I'm sure the OP feels vindicated because he stuck it in crazy, who turned out to be crazy, so it's all her fault.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:34:08 PM EDT
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From OP, he don't pay shit, and won't have to. Convenient. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Do you spend time with the kid? Do you support him economically? From OP, he don't pay shit, and won't have to. Convenient. Maybe you should read the thread. As a matter of fact, if you actually READ the OP, you would know that he DOES pay currently, and the only upside here is that he won't be giving more money to the crazy chick. Maybe it is hard to see the text from waaaay up there on your high horse. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:35:12 PM EDT
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So, nothing, from what I read. You turned in some paperwork, otherwise no financial harm to yourself. Good for you. She can't pursue. Good for you. She was a good fuck. Good for you. You have a kid. You don't have to pay for it. Good for you. Hope the kid never knows who his father is. Reading is fundamental. OP has stated she gets something every two weeks. He just isn't getting an increase in his child support obligation because the Mother didn't respond with what she needed to provide. OP also stated he would like to be part of the kid's life, but he has no rights to see the kid. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:35:54 PM EDT
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Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. As it SHOULD be... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:36:33 PM EDT
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I don't... I have zero rights to see him... it sucks. I just hope when he turns 18 he will seek me out... I would love to be part of his life. I must be way off here, but my understanding was child support equals some basic custody agreement with rights of visitation. I understand you living out of state makes it difficult, but you should still have rights of visitation, and it doesn't seem like it would be difficult to compel the court to allow summer and holiday time with the child. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:36:33 PM EDT
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Get snipped a dive back in.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:36:48 PM EDT
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You created a human life and then set him up to fail just so you could get a nut off. Nice. Hopefully he doesn't grow up to be a drain on society, like so many others put in the same position by people who couldn't figure out birth control.
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:36:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Reading is fundamental. OP has stated she gets something every two weeks. He just isn't getting an increase in his child support obligation because the Mother didn't respond with what she needed to provide. OP also stated he would like to be part of the kid's life, but he has no rights to see the kid. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: So, nothing, from what I read. You turned in some paperwork, otherwise no financial harm to yourself. Good for you. She can't pursue. Good for you. She was a good fuck. Good for you. You have a kid. You don't have to pay for it. Good for you. Hope the kid never knows who his father is. Reading is fundamental. OP has stated she gets something every two weeks. He just isn't getting an increase in his child support obligation because the Mother didn't respond with what she needed to provide. OP also stated he would like to be part of the kid's life, but he has no rights to see the kid. She was AMAZING in bed... I will give him that much... Why is it the CRAZY ones are the best in bed??  |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:36:57 PM EDT
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As it SHOULD be... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. As it SHOULD be... Kansa is the opposite. Doesn't even make since if you think about it. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:37:44 PM EDT
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Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. Dad!? |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:38:22 PM EDT
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Does your son know you are his father? I don't give a fuck Fixed
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:38:22 PM EDT
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Does your son know you are his father? I have no idea... Does he even know you exist or does he still wander in the belief that the husband is his bio-dad? A lot of hate is going to fill that kids heart when he does find out things were hidden from him. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:38:28 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Dad!? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted:] Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. Dad!? Not funny... |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:38:35 PM EDT
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Does your son know you are his father? I have no idea... Best of luck to both of you moving forward sincerely. Hope would indicate that some thing special could be in your future after he turns 18. |
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:40:06 PM EDT
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Dad!? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Peoples State of Illinois... DNA trumps the birth certificate. Dad!?  
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:41:48 PM EDT
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So, nothing, from what I read. You turned in some paperwork, otherwise no financial harm to yourself. Good for you. She can't pursue. Good for you. She was a good fuck. Good for you. You have a kid. You don't have to pay for it. Good for you. Hope the kid never knows who his father is. 
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Posted: 1/29/2015 10:41:53 PM EDT
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That kid must be real proud about who his father is.
I hope he just doesn't grow up like his real dad.
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