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Link Posted: 11/24/2014 1:58:44 PM EDT
[#1]

7.5 on average

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:01:10 PM EDT
[#2]
idk, overall a 7.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:07:37 PM EDT
[#3]
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO?

What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects:

Looks, of course -4

Sexuality- 1
Friend - 8
Provider-7
Emotional Support -8
Parent (or potential parent)-10
Cook -10

Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best.
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6.85.

Probably too high, seeing as im single
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:28:51 PM EDT
[#4]

Looks: 8
Sexuality: 10
Friend: 8.5
Provider: 9
Emotional Support: 7
Parent (or potential parent): 9.5
Cook: 9.5

I average out at an 8.75

I have current references as well
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:30:34 PM EDT
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Looks: 8
Sexuality: 10
Friend: 8.5
Provider: 9
Emotional Support: 7
Parent (or potential parent): 9.5
Cook: 9.5

I average out at an 8.75

I have current references as well
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Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:32:19 PM EDT
[#6]
0
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:34:27 PM EDT
[#7]
My wife could have done better, but she doesn't know that.

I'm pretty good at everything.  I'm not the best at anything.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:34:43 PM EDT
[#8]
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO?

What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects:

Looks, of course
Sexuality
Friend
Provider
Emotional Support
Parent (or potential parent)
Cook

Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best.
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Looks, of course 5
Sexuality 10
Friend 10
Provider 8.9
Emotional Support 10
Parent (or potential parent) 10
Cook 87
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:40:31 PM EDT
[#9]
Looks, of course: 8 (I'm a good lookin cat)
Sexuality: 10  (Being married as long as we have, I know how to press the right buttons - every time)  
Friend:: 6  (I could do better)
Provider: 10  
Emotional Support: 8
Parent:  9  I'm a great Dad
Cook:  0  ( I can make eggs and can work the grill. That is all.)  
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:44:21 PM EDT
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Looks: 8
Sexuality: 10
Friend: 8.5
Provider: 9
Emotional Support: 7
Parent (or potential parent): 9.5
Cook: 9.5

I average out at an 8.75

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I could bump two of those to solid 10s
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:44:22 PM EDT
[#11]
Looks, of course -  Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either.  
Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it.
Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back.
Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect.
Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever.
Parent (or potential parent)  - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad.
Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry.


I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:45:33 PM EDT
[#12]
Id go with an 8. My wife is a 9 so I try to keep up.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:46:06 PM EDT
[#13]
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Looks, of course -  Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either.  
Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it.
Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back.
Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect.
Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever.
Parent (or potential parent)  - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad.
Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry.


I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch.
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You undervalue yourself. 10!

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:50:46 PM EDT
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You undervalue yourself. 10!

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A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way.

But thank you, baby.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 2:52:45 PM EDT
[#15]
A big fat 0 according to my SO.  I just asked her last night, after we had "disagreements" all fucking day.  BITCH!
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:01:10 PM EDT
[#16]
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:09:00 PM EDT
[#17]

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You said you wouldn't tell
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:13:29 PM EDT
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A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way.

But thank you, baby.
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You undervalue yourself. 10!



A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way.

But thank you, baby.


Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:13:39 PM EDT
[#19]
I always think I suck, But my wife tells me her friends are jealous of her and how I treat her.

So I'll say a 5 but my wife probably would say a 9 or 10.


I know that when I'm in pain (which is most the time) I tend to not be as nice as I could be

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:18:40 PM EDT
[#20]
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:29:42 PM EDT
[#21]
My wife could and did have opportunities for someone with a score of 10.  She picked a guy that averages a seven and I got a zero on cooking............go figure.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:32:25 PM EDT
[#22]
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO?

What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects:

Looks, of course
Sexuality
Friend
Provider
Emotional Support
Parent (or potential parent)
Cook

Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best.
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10, 10, 10, 10, 10, 0.

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:39:22 PM EDT
[#23]
I could be better, I'll be honest I've become more jaded and less tolerant as I've aged. I blame ARFcom

Looks  7?
Sexuality 8, she seems happy
Friend 6
Provider my view 10, hers 6
Emotional Support 8
Parent 9
Cook 5, I'm not a great cook but I try.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 3:54:06 PM EDT
[#24]
Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:00:18 PM EDT
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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5
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Your number is upside down.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:02:43 PM EDT
[#26]
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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5
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I'm calling bullshit on looks and cooking
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:02:49 PM EDT
[#27]
Been told I'm the worst they had, and the best they had.  I didn't believe either.

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:03:26 PM EDT
[#28]
This is almost as entertaining as the "What's your IQ?" threads.  
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:05:57 PM EDT
[#29]
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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5
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You underrate yourself
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:07:07 PM EDT
[#30]
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:07:47 PM EDT
[#31]
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Looks, of course -  Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either.  
Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it.
Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back.
Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect.
Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever.
Parent (or potential parent)  - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad.
Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry.


I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch.
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Not to leg hump, but you should get at least an 8 on looks for your eyes alone
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:08:46 PM EDT
[#32]
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How did I ever miss that?  

WELL YOU KNOW THAT'S HARD TO SAY SINCE NO TEST CAN MEASURE MY GREATNESS, AND THERE'S ALSO THE USUAL PROBLEM OF JUST GETTING MY MASTADONIC PENIS INTO THE BUILDING WITH ME

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:08:58 PM EDT
[#33]
I would say overall a 6 or 7 but I think she would rate me higher.


Emotional Support - 1.5   I am not very good at this and never have been.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:09:07 PM EDT
[#34]
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You undervalue yourself. 10!

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Looks, of course -  Eh, I could be better - I could be less lazy and get real in shape - but I'm the same jeans size I was when we met. I at least maintain what he fell in love with. So I'm not skinny, but I'm not false advertising either.  
Sexuality - In 8 years, I've said no once. And it was because I had the flu. When your whole body is aching and sensitive, sex just isn't on the to-do list. He understood and two days later I made up for it.
Friend - Sometimes I get kind of complacent and have to catch myself, because I'm not listening to him with the attention he deserves. But I'm good at realizing when I'm doing it and rectifying it. Overall I'd say he's my best friend and I'm his. He cam come to me with anything, and he knows I'll always have his back.
Provider - I've got this shit nailed. I work full time, always have, and there have been times I've covered things when he was inbetween jobs. I'm rock solid and stable in this aspect.
Emotional Support - Always. He's #1, over everything. If he's angry or sad, I'm figuring out how to make it better. I live to see his face light up. It's the best thing ever.
Parent (or potential parent)  - Yeah, no. Neither of us want crumb catchers. Though if an accident happened, I know he'd be one hell of a good dad.
Cook - He has a hot meal every night. I never let him go hungry.


I'd say overall I'm an 8/10. I'm a pretty good catch.

You undervalue yourself. 10!




And someone told me that there were no unicorns.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:09:39 PM EDT
[#35]
Since I get a lot of clingers and stalkers I'd say a 10


Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:11:04 PM EDT
[#36]
I just lost my wedding ring so I'd say I'm pretty far down, there
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:11:23 PM EDT
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Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5
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Oh, you're not being very realistic.
Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated.

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:14:18 PM EDT
[#38]
8
87 (far too high almost a problem as I far far exceed her needs and need more lol)
7
8
6
10
7
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:15:15 PM EDT
[#39]
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:17:29 PM EDT
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Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN.
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You undervalue yourself. 10!



A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way.

But thank you, baby.


Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN.

There is no scale for such awesomeness.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:17:52 PM EDT
[#41]


Looks, of course.  7.5
Sexuality. 8
Friend. 10
Provider. 9
Emotional Support. 7
Parent (or potential parent)  8.5
Cook. 8


Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:18:07 PM EDT
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There is no scale for such awesomeness.
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You undervalue yourself. 10!



A ten is just unrealistic, since we're all flawed in some way.

But thank you, baby.


Pffft, I'm a motherfucking ELEVEN.

There is no scale for such awesomeness.


Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:20:13 PM EDT
[#43]
Looks, of course - 6
Sexuality - 8
Friend - 9
Provider - 6
Emotional Support - 8
Parent (or potential parent) - 8  (I might be rating myself a little high on this one, because I don't have any kids of my own.)
Cook - 8


Overall 7.5.

Come at me, ladies.

Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:21:19 PM EDT
[#44]
3.14159265359 in all columns
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:22:26 PM EDT
[#45]
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Oh, you're not being very realistic.
Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated.

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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5

Oh, you're not being very realistic.
Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated.


IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed.
I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household.
As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5.

Thanks for all the faith and compliments.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:29:33 PM EDT
[#46]
Looks 8
Sexuality 9
Friend 8
Provider 10
Emotional Support 6
Parent 10
Cook 1
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:33:53 PM EDT
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I was having this conversation with a fellow arfcommer the other day. If you were completely honest with yourself, how would you rate yourself as a SO?

What's your "report card" look like in each of the following subjects:

Looks, of course
Sexuality
Friend
Provider
Emotional Support
Parent (or potential parent)
Cook

Scale is 1-10, one being the worst, 10 being the best.
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LOC:5
Sex:2
Friend:7
Provider:6
ES:5
P:5
C:7
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 4:57:02 PM EDT
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IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed.
I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household.
As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5.

Thanks for all the faith and compliments.
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Looks: 6
Sexuality: 7
Friend: 8
Provider: 0
Emotional Support: 8
Parent (or potential parent): 9
Cook: 5

Oh, you're not being very realistic.
Looks, provider, and cook are MASSIVELY under rated.


IMO, my looks are hardly above average. Add some of my uniqueness and you get the 6. There are a few things that would elevate that like weight loss, dental work and some other cosmetic fixes that can't be seen clothed.
I don't work so I consider my value as a provider to be 0. I bring no income to the household.
As far as cooking, I can cook. I can follow a recipe very well and it usually turns out fine. I'm a good baker. That said, I don't cook most days. The SO does a lot of the cooking while I care for the kids and household. So i gave myself a 5.

Thanks for all the faith and compliments.

I can't come down on you too hard about the looks because you and I both suffer those feelz, though I disagree with your number.  

Soooo.... who's garden is it that you work in?!?  

You can do things in a kitchen that I could only dream of.

You're my hero. I wubs you all time.
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 5:06:44 PM EDT
[#49]
Link Posted: 11/24/2014 5:11:37 PM EDT
[#50]
I'm huge, but my tiny wife doesn't appreciate that.
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