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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:17:59 PM EDT
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yes, she said I was perfect and she said she "loved" me in one week 
what was I supposed to say. I need a few more months?  Dude. Just got divorced? Known her for 5 weeks? Tells you she loves you in a week? Come on man. She is FWB |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:23:03 PM EDT
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Don't ask anything. You have to decide to either walk away or go along pretending nothing is going on. There is no middle ground. Once you bust her the relationship is over. FYI most women flirt with idea of cheating for a long time before actually doing the deed. interesting, please elaborate |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:26:52 PM EDT
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Couldn't agree more there. elaborate it makes sense |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:28:42 PM EDT
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Couldn't agree more there. elaborate it makes sense Elaboration: EJECT |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:31:19 PM EDT
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When i was over seas i had women say," I love you no shit, buy me drinky?"
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:32:53 PM EDT
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Benn through that before. My advise for you youngsters is to walk away, save yourself a lot of grief and misery. It sucks at first but then you will see that its not the end but a new beginning.
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:33:42 PM EDT
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Couldn't agree more there. elaborate it makes sense A reasonable person does not fall in love within a matter of weeks. At that point, you don't even know the person. She's spewing bullshit when she says "I love you". |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:33:48 PM EDT
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LOL! You'd be cool with your wife sleeping with some dude? As long as at the end of the night she sleeps in the same bed as you? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? My Wife and I have a great relationship but.....We're both grown-up enough to know that "shit Happens" (lol!) and as long as we end-up in bed together at the end of the day(?) It's all good
LOL! You'd be cool with your wife sleeping with some dude? As long as at the end of the night she sleeps in the same bed as you? Only about 80% here consider it cheating if their wife/gf licked whipped cream off a stripper's cock. http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1656863_Does_this_count_as_cheating___Strippers_and_whipped_cream_.html It's not at all surprising some guys here don't mind fucking their wife's sloppy seconds. 
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:34:53 PM EDT
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Once I stopped trying to convince myself it wasn't happening, all the signs jumped right out at me. Of course, finding her at the guys house pretty much confirmed it.  That's what happened to an area firefighter. He found the police chief in bed with his wife. Firefighter actually stayed with her last I heard but moved away. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:36:12 PM EDT
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Does it really matter. He won't wear it out for you. The cooter spits out babies, then shrinks right back to pretty much normal size.
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:43:21 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: That's what happened to an area firefighter. He found the police chief in bed with his wife. Firefighter actually stayed with her last I heard but moved away. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Once I stopped trying to convince myself it wasn't happening, all the signs jumped right out at me. Of course, finding her at the guys house pretty much confirmed it. That's what happened to an area firefighter. He found the police chief in bed with his wife. Firefighter actually stayed with her last I heard but moved away. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Oh no, it ended that night for us. |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:43:54 PM EDT
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Only about 80% here consider it cheating if their wife/gf licked whipped cream off a stripper's cock. http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1656863_Does_this_count_as_cheating___Strippers_and_whipped_cream_.html It's not at all surprising some guys here don't mind fucking their wife's sloppy seconds.
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? My Wife and I have a great relationship but.....We're both grown-up enough to know that "shit Happens" (lol!) and as long as we end-up in bed together at the end of the day(?) It's all good
LOL! You'd be cool with your wife sleeping with some dude? As long as at the end of the night she sleeps in the same bed as you? Only about 80% here consider it cheating if their wife/gf licked whipped cream off a stripper's cock. http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1656863_Does_this_count_as_cheating___Strippers_and_whipped_cream_.html It's not at all surprising some guys here don't mind fucking their wife's sloppy seconds.
Although it is GD, that shocks me. 
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:45:57 PM EDT
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I have a thing about married women out drinking without their spouse. It never ends good. Mine did it, asked her not to and she assured me that she was only out with friends. So I pulled video from the bar. She lied.
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:47:43 PM EDT
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? Your relationship is already over if it has gone that far. |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:47:50 PM EDT
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How many "look the other way"
sorry fellas, but women have become men in many regards |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:48:24 PM EDT
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Only about 80% here consider it cheating if their wife/gf licked whipped cream off a stripper's cock. http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1656863_Does_this_count_as_cheating___Strippers_and_whipped_cream_.html It's not at all surprising some guys here don't mind fucking their wife's sloppy seconds.
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? My Wife and I have a great relationship but.....We're both grown-up enough to know that "shit Happens" (lol!) and as long as we end-up in bed together at the end of the day(?) It's all good
LOL! You'd be cool with your wife sleeping with some dude? As long as at the end of the night she sleeps in the same bed as you? Only about 80% here consider it cheating if their wife/gf licked whipped cream off a stripper's cock. http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1656863_Does_this_count_as_cheating___Strippers_and_whipped_cream_.html It's not at all surprising some guys here don't mind fucking their wife's sloppy seconds.
That IS shocking, especially when you consider that arfcommers answer every poll honestly, and would never choose the most shocking answer just to fuck with people.
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:01:26 PM EDT
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That's what happened to an area firefighter. He found the police chief in bed with his wife. Firefighter actually stayed with her last I heard but moved away. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Once I stopped trying to convince myself it wasn't happening, all the signs jumped right out at me. Of course, finding her at the guys house pretty much confirmed it. That's what happened to an area firefighter. He found the police chief in bed with his wife. Firefighter actually stayed with her last I heard but moved away. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Shit that's nothing. Just found out something today about a former co-worker who has 3 kids. So a while back, his wife of many years (apparently in a drunker stupor) shared with him that their middle child really wasn't even his. And he's still with her to this day!! |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:07:41 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Yup. And... seeing it doesn't stop the feelings either. She could be sneaky, have a second identical looking phone, be using skype, google phone app, etc. etc. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: If you have to ask, you already know. Gotta go back to figure out why you don't trust her and go from there. Investigate that. This, social media has created many ways to bypass relationships. |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:12:03 PM EDT
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How many "look the other way" sorry fellas, but women have become men in many regards Now we know you're trolling. |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:34:59 PM EDT
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If you polity ask for the records in the name of transparency.......
.....she wigs.... sorry fellas, but guess what???? That's my conclusion |
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:51:50 PM EDT
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Dude. Just got divorced? Known her for 5 weeks? Tells you she loves you in a week? Come on man. She is FWB Quote HistoryQuoted:
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yes, she said I was perfect and she said she "loved" me in one week
what was I supposed to say. I need a few more months? Dude. Just got divorced? Known her for 5 weeks? Tells you she loves you in a week? Come on man. She is FWB LOL no shit. Run away OP. 
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:55:31 PM EDT
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I'd just tell my wife that I didn't mind so much that she was seeing another guy but at least make him come over and all the honey dos for me.
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Posted: 10/22/2014 9:55:42 PM EDT
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Don't ask her a question you don't already know the answer to. Do your homework first
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Posted: 10/22/2014 10:24:22 PM EDT
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new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. Umm it doesn't take a Swingset to figure out what's going on here. You know what Pharma saleswomen do right? The job description? A 48 y/o one has to work harder than ever. Sorry dude, but have you ever considered the fact that YOU may be the "other guy" 
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Posted: 10/22/2014 10:33:10 PM EDT
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Goatboy, Mouseboy....its a 90s thing newb
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? My Wife and I have a great relationship but.....We're both grown-up enough to know that "shit Happens" (lol!) and as long as we end-up in bed together at the end of the day(?) It's all good
Erm, what exactly are we talking about here? 
Also, what's with your avatar? Goatboy, Mouseboy....its a 90s thing newb
Jeebus, how ancient are you? Actually, I was asking Treadhead "WTF's up" |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 12:25:48 AM EDT
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I have a thing about married women out drinking without their spouse. It never ends good. Mine did it, asked her not to and she assured me that she was only out with friends. So I pulled video from the bar. She lied. If you've got that feeling, follow it. How did you get video from a bar?
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Posted: 10/23/2014 6:31:13 AM EDT
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If I suspected but wasn't sure I would change up my schedule here or there to catch her, if she was asking to go here or there maybe ask to tag along and see how she reacts....do anything but come right out and accuse her without being sure.
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Posted: 10/23/2014 6:56:47 AM EDT
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I don't worry about it. Mine knows if she is interested in someone else... I'll dump her immediately, make a phone call and have a date lined up..
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:01:39 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:04:51 AM EDT
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Fuck her boyfriend.
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:06:27 AM EDT
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Before you go through all of that, have you guys even discussed your relationship expectations? If no, then you don't really have a right. THIS!!! By far, the above quoted section is the single best reply in this entire thread. If you two haven't been adult enough to sit down and have this conversation (aka "Are we seeing each other exclusively now?"), and you just ASSumed that you two were exclusive, then really, that's your mistake. Additionally, way back when, when I had that conversation with a "woman" about 5 years ago, for some reason I finished the conversation with "If you ever feel the urge to cheat, just be adult enough to just leave. Deal?" And she said "Yes, deal! I am adult enough to do that." I caught her cheating and confronted her with it. She tried to lie her way out of it. Slight thread drift... If she has lots of free sample packs of Zovirax , you'll definitely want to 
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:08:32 AM EDT
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I'd thank the guy and tell him he could take over payments. Were we separated at birth ? I have been saying that to anyone who will listen for years. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:09:42 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Get her panties. There are DNA testing labs that will identify all the DNA in a test sample. Just dump her it will make both of you happy no matter if she is cheating or not. If she is cheating you got out, if she isn't she got away from a paranoid asshole. Win, Win. People know who the cheaters are they choose to live in ignorance for one reason or another. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:12:52 AM EDT
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would you..... 1) ask her for her phone/text records? 2) if she went ballistic and refused, is that totally "guilty" or what? What makes you think your wife is cheating on you? Did your girlfriend tell you she was cheating?
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:24:50 AM EDT
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If you have to ask, you already know. winner winner chicken dinner J- |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:28:03 AM EDT
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Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. I think she did. She said "I love you" within a week, that's pretty exclusive if you ask me. Granted she could mean it in a "friendly" way. Who knows. Sadly, saying "I love you" doesn't mean shit these days. Any woman (or man) who says "I love you" romantically within a week is batshit crazy. Sounds like OP stuck it where it doesn't belong. Her saying that in a week would makes me think she doesn't really value the true meaning and also how many other guys she is telling that to. As others have said five weeks isn't much of a foundation at all. Have a candid conversation about where your relationship stands and if she isn't willing to be open/exclusive then eject. If you aren't comfortable having that conversation your relationship is doomed from day 1. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:30:29 AM EDT
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Tell her its cool and ask for MFM 3 some. top kek |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:37:17 AM EDT
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If I were a man and suspected my SO of infidelity, I would get on the internet and ask a bunch of strangers what I should do. Good advice. I mean, come on, 5 weeks is a long time to throw away. 5 weeks? Sounding 'off' on the phone? Shit OP, you don't know this person well enough to know "normal" on the phone. I doubt she is the problem, you sound like a whackjob. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:45:52 AM EDT
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1 month out of your second marriage you get serious?
Dude, that's rebound pussy. Walk away and get less clingy. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:00:19 AM EDT
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Step one check under the toilet seat lid..
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:13:27 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:14:45 AM EDT
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Didn't read the whole thread before typing that one...OP it's only been 5 weeks! Did you guys agree to being exclusive?She's just out of a marriage it sounds like she's trying to have some fun, not getting all tied up again.
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:16:29 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: new relationship (5 weeks). I have a gut feeling. She is a traveling Pharma saleswoman. Very hot for her age 48. Talks to me on the phone much like a stranger when on overnight trips. Wont get in on night before, or avoids night after. Other than that, she's a bunny.... Overly polite and formal when overnight talking on phone, lots of yes and no. Weird giggling and out of her element communication. She mentions no detail of much anything. Much different tone. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:18:44 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: 5 weeks? Seriously? At 35 days, you don't have a "relationship". If you haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, then you have nothing to complain about. Sounds like a lot of assumptions on your part. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:24:22 AM EDT
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yes, she said I was perfect and she said she "loved" me in one week
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Before you go through all of that, have you guys even discussed your relationship expectations? If no, then you don't really have a right. yes, she said I was perfect and she said she "loved" me in one week
what was I supposed to say. I need a few more months? Wow, pretty much either have a stage 4 clinger who has an obsessive need to be given attention and will give the pussy to whomever gives it to her, or she has already stolen your identity 
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:55:54 AM EDT
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I have a thing about married women out drinking without their spouse. It never ends good. Mine did it, asked her not to and she assured me that she was only out with friends. So I pulled video from the bar. She lied. If you've got that feeling, follow it. How did you get video from a bar? Head bartender is a friend, she doesn't know that. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:57:14 AM EDT
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FPNI
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:58:43 AM EDT
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If you have to ask, you already know. Yeah, you just need to call it a day, at that point. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 8:59:14 AM EDT
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I have a thing about married women out drinking without their spouse. It never ends good. Mine did it, asked her not to and she assured me that she was only out with friends. So I pulled video from the bar. She lied. If you've got that feeling, follow it. How did you get video from a bar? Head bartender is a friend, she doesn't know that. Wow that's almost as creepy as some of the other guys in this thread wanting to test the DNA of her vaginal discharge, or rifle through her trash. But not quite. Your solution is more Awkward Magnum PI than awkward Batman. |
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Posted: 10/23/2014 9:05:08 AM EDT
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You're awfully early in the relationship to be demanding phone records and accusing her of cheating. You better have some proof, or you just need to end it. BTW, what is the "committment level" here? Have you all had the conversation that you will be seeing each other exclusively?
Assuming you both know you're in an exclusive relationship, then she's cheating on you, or you're paranoid. Either way, that probably will end the relationship. |
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