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Posted: 7/30/2014 3:26:48 PM EDT
So my fiancee told me today she's having some 'classy nude and lingerie' pics taken for me as part of a wedding gift from her. She had pics taken before cuz she was wanting to model; just like every twenty something years old girl does. She also was an mma ring girl for a while...not ufc..so she's comfortable in front of the camera

I don't like this idea. The photographer is legit and has done Vogue, Cosmo etc. He just sold a picture for $20,000 at an auction. Anyway pretty well know.

However, he is also a neighbor. I've seen him checking her out.  I can see him jerking it to those pics, she thinks I'm crazy. He's pretty old and overweight, so I know nothing physical would go on.  No really, I can guarantee that.

Would the hive have an issue?

No pics right now


Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:27:54 PM EDT
[#1]
No pics=no advice
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:28:13 PM EDT
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No pics right now

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How do you expect us to weigh in on your conundrum?



 
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:28:43 PM EDT
[#3]
we gotz rules here, you know...
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:28:45 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:28:50 PM EDT
[#5]

issues...yes


no nude pix with neighbors is pretty good rule to live by.


Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:29:01 PM EDT
[#6]
Dang, I was going to say "in before pics of wife" but I have been beaten to it already!
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:29:14 PM EDT
[#7]
IN.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:29:40 PM EDT
[#8]
I find it amazing that people are concerned with other people possibly jerking off to the thought of their wife.  It happens often and you never know about it anyway.

Pics of wife please.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:29:41 PM EDT
[#9]
This dude has ALREADY jacked it to her.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:30:01 PM EDT
[#10]
F5
F5
F5
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:30:39 PM EDT
[#11]
I might be able to help but.....
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:30:40 PM EDT
[#12]
There are a couple lesbians in San Diego that do this sort of photography.  
Buy her a bus ticket.  
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:30:53 PM EDT
[#13]
Go buy a camera and tell her you want to take some, make a game out of it. You might even get laaaaiiiid
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:31:11 PM EDT
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My wife had that done.  You see her every day, therefore, the photos sit in a drawer.  Just buy beer instead.  Tell her to up the tempo of blow jobs.  









Not gonna do it.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:31:15 PM EDT
[#15]
And by now, someone here has jacked it to her.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:31:16 PM EDT
[#16]
no nudes is good nudes
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:31:42 PM EDT
[#17]
For whose wedding are these pics a gift?  Maybe suggest she just give the bride and groom a small kitchen appliance.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:32:21 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:32:28 PM EDT
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need pics.

As long as we had all the copies including originals negatives and proofs then i would not care if she wanted to take sexy photos to share with me. As long as shes not fucking the photographer then what do i care?


ETA: changed for the camera snobs.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:32:59 PM EDT
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The fact that she knows that you don't want this and yet she is still considering it is something you should ponder on.

Ps. Contrary to what you think not every twenty something poses nude or wants to.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:33:27 PM EDT
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I don't like this idea. The photographer is legit and has done Vogue, Cosmo etc. He just sold a picture for $20,000 at an auction.

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Is that what he told you?

Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:33:32 PM EDT
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This dude has ALREADY jacked it to her.
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Yup. This.







If thats youre main issue it already happened. She wants to do something nice for you while she's still young as has the body. I say go for it. Other guy will be jealous and jackin either way. Its YOUR SO. She comes home to you every night. Not some creep wit a camera who wishes.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:33:36 PM EDT
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If his services are that valuable, I'd want to know what kind of deal they have worked out for the pics.

Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:33:48 PM EDT
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need pics.

As long as we had all the negatives and proofs then i would not care if she wanted to take sexy photos to share with me. As long as shes not fucking the photographer then what do i care?
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Negatives?


Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:33:59 PM EDT
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This dude has ALREADY jacked it to her.
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this
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:10 PM EDT
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+1
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:17 PM EDT
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He's putting those pics in his spank bank special reserve.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:18 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:27 PM EDT
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Picture not loading.



Impossible to judge it is.....


Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:28 PM EDT
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I find it amazing that people are concerned with other people possibly jerking off to the thought of their wife.  It happens often and you never know about it anyway.

Pics of wife please.
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Ya but he'll have the nudes.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:34:37 PM EDT
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For whose wedding are these pics a gift?  Maybe suggest she just give the bride and groom a small kitchen appliance.
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Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:35:00 PM EDT
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This dude has ALREADY jacked it to her.
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Probably doing it as I type this -



 
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:35:28 PM EDT
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Also OP,

everyone who has ever posted a pic of their SO in BOTD has had some dude jack off to a pick of his wife. Meh, i am glad other dudes see my lady as sexy as i do. I stand a little taller knowing that.

Also, if he is going to jack off to a thought of your wife then he is already doing it. So your too late.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:35:37 PM EDT
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The fact that she knows that you don't want this and yet she is still considering it is something you should ponder on.



Ps. Contrary to what you think not every twenty something poses nude or wants to.
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He wasn't saying they all want to pose nude, he's saying they all want to be models.
 
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:35:54 PM EDT
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OP you should feel bad for even considering posting this crap without pics.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:08 PM EDT
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She said I cool post pic. But I have to host it somewhere first
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:12 PM EDT
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Don't know any females with a camera? I can send my wife, but I can't guarantee you she won't touch herself while looking at the pictures either.

Not sure if that pic is COC, and probably NSFW. Hotlinked, not imbedded:

http://s287.photobucket.com/user/adroozz/media/Mobile%20Uploads/Screenshot_2014-07-30-17-31-06-1_zpsf8ab6364.png.html?sort=3&o=0
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:13 PM EDT
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A girls gotta start some place. They dont do it from the top.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:17 PM EDT
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issues...yes

no nude pix with neighbors is pretty good rule to live by.

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This is really where my issue would be....if it was a legitimate professional whose only contact was the photoshoot and we were getting all pics and negative (or all digital trace was deleted) I would be okay with it.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:30 PM EDT
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Negatives?


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need pics.

As long as we had all the negatives and proofs then i would not care if she wanted to take sexy photos to share with me. As long as shes not fucking the photographer then what do i care?


Negatives?





you know what i mean. What ever the original form of the photo was. Digital film etc. Just dont want him reproducing or selling them later.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:34 PM EDT
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Back in my .mil days, I worked with a guy who did "boudoir" photography on the side.

He showed me a set of pics that he took one time and made me promise to not tell anyone.

I'm very good at keeping secrets.

He waited awhile and didn't hear anything from anyone, so he showed me another set, and another set, and another set, etc.

Over the course of months, I saw a lot of photos of young women who I knew and saw all of the time in everyday life.

I don't know what his sales pitch was, but he was very good at telling them what they needed to hear to drop their clothes on the floor.




I wouldn't let my wife/fiance/gf do this sort of thing and I'd be concerned if she really wanted to do anything like that.


Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:36:36 PM EDT
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FS&TPNI

(First, Second, & Third Post nailed it)
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:37:43 PM EDT
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He wasn't saying they all want to pose nude, he's saying they all want to be models.


 
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The fact that she knows that you don't want this and yet she is still considering it is something you should ponder on.

Ps. Contrary to what you think not every twenty something poses nude or wants to.

He wasn't saying they all want to pose nude, he's saying they all want to be models.


 

I took it to mean she posed nude in the context he used. Maybe some clarification OP?
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:37:45 PM EDT
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I tell you what OP, I have a decent camera and since I'm such a nice guy I'll volunteer to take nudie pics of your wife.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:37:49 PM EDT
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Eject! you can never trust her again.













Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:38:15 PM EDT
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If she wants nudes she needs to let you be the one taking the pictures, not some fat old neighbor.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:38:20 PM EDT
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This is Arfcom.  
I bet there is a member in you AO throwing every Kodak easy share and disposable camera he has in a bail out bag.  
He will offer to do them free once his streamlight stinger is charged.   Gotta have a hair light.



Fuck.  Looks like Hooligans streamlight was already charged.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:38:23 PM EDT
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The whole point of sexy pictures is taking them yourself.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:38:35 PM EDT
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Women do this for boyfriends/husbands a lot more than you'd think.  It's pretty common.

If it bothers you that much, ask for a compromise and find a different photographer.  I don't do glamour/nudes but it's not all that uncommon for the guys that do to look the way you described your neighbor.  Not all the time, but I've seen plenty who look that way.
Link Posted: 7/30/2014 3:39:04 PM EDT
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Terry Richardson is also an award winning celebrity photographer.
Google that creep.
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