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Posted: 7/20/2014 12:32:34 PM EDT
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A lot of "I ate too much" and "I need a shower....didn't shower until next morning"
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How passive aggressive of him.
That might be part of the problem. |
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Sounds like he was building a case for a divorce. He should have kept that document and share it with his lawyer if they were in a contested state.
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How can you be surprised if your WIFE regularly doesn't have sex with you, the ring was basically permission to get away with it.
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I'd say that was a NON-spread sheet, maybe a "fail to spread" sheet.
Mine would read the exact opposite |
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So, are the missing dates the days she gave in?
The obsessive dick seems to obsess a lot. |
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I feel for him.
Nobody asks why he is passive aggressive like that. Probably because he has tried to bring up the subject several times before and been shot down each time or otherwise made to believe he has the problem and everything is okay. I was in a relationship that was very similar once. I don't know how many times I brought it up in a civil "I want this to work" manner only to be told I have the problem and that there was nothing wrong. After awhile I acted out too and was told that I was being childish and my actions were uncalled for. Honestly, I didn't know what else to do at that point. |
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The comments made by women faulting the husband shows you the group-think among many women.
And he wasn't the one who publicly released it - she did (which shows you just how indifferent she is to her own behavior). |
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There is a ton of WTF in that relationship.
Passive aggressive, cowardly, bitter man + frigid, inconsiderate woman = shitty, shitty marriage. |
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Three times out of a month, at 26? Fuck that noise. View Quote I didn't even see the 26yo part. Jesus. I hate to say this, but if I was in that guys shoes, she would notice me having to stay late atwork awful lot. A man, especially at that point in his life, has needs. I am not saying she should be expected to have sex with him like rabbits, but holy shit...3 times per month at that stage in their life? If they stay together, he will probably never have sex after 40 (assuming he doesn't say fuck it and start getting it on the side.) |
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I'm going out on a limb here, but I'm just going to assume the wife isn't hot.
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Sounds like he was building a case for a divorce. He should have kept that document and share it with his lawyer if they were in a contested state. View Quote Kharn |
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Maybe he was just keeping track, I mean women will keep track of every damn thing you say, and bring it back up when ever they feel it's convenient. So seems fair to me. Perhaps she has no idea what shes doing. I guess its time to eject and find a new spouse, or keep her and find a mistress.
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I have only been with one woman and we started dating in our early teens and got married right out of high school so I really don't know if this is common or not but the number of times I have been turned down in my 15 years of marriage is probably less than 20 or so.
Someone that would stay in a marriage like this tells me they are an idiot. |
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So, are the missing dates the days she gave in? The obsessive dick seems to obsess a lot. View Quote Seems like the missing dates are days he didn't ask. He asked a lot. hahaha maybe to the point it was annoying. I was with a girl for a few years where I was the one who always started it. I can only remember her getting things going a handful of times. I was very rarity denied but it gets kind of frustrating, like you are making them do something they don't really want to do. Fuck that. |
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"Bitter, immature and full of hatred"
I'm staying just as my tagline describes. |
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Looks like he gets it doggy style pretty frequently. He sits up and begs.......She rolls over and plays dead.
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There is a ton of WTF in that relationship. Passive aggressive, cowardly, bitter man + frigid, inconsiderate woman = shitty, shitty marriage. View Quote From the sentence that says he has cut her off since he sent her the email, it sounds like there is a good chance he is leaving her, and this was more or less "just so you don't stay up at night wondering why, I will break it down for you, and even make it nice, neat and detailed to boot." |
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I wouldn't sent her the spread sheet. She'd have come home from the 10 day business trip to me and my shit gone and the divorce paper work nailed to the front door.
Eta who am I kidding. I wouldn't have married her in the 1st place. Or anyone for that matter. |
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From the sentence that says he has cut her off since he sent her the email, it sounds like there is a good chance he is leaving her, and this was more or less "just so you don't stay up at night wondering why, I will break it down for you, and even make it nice, neat and detailed to boot." View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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There is a ton of WTF in that relationship. Passive aggressive, cowardly, bitter man + frigid, inconsiderate woman = shitty, shitty marriage. From the sentence that says he has cut her off since he sent her the email, it sounds like there is a good chance he is leaving her, and this was more or less "just so you don't stay up at night wondering why, I will break it down for you, and even make it nice, neat and detailed to boot." Be that as it may, the pattern will repeat itself, most likely for both of them. |
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Quoted: Pics of frigid bitch? View Quote |
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]I figure he's a toad in the sack, probably just gets his and falls asleep. I learned a long time ago that women are not tuned to our sexual clock, they need stimuli to be in the mood, and any slightest thing can shut their desire down. They key is subtle suggestions, and actions throughout the day. It's amazing how a kiss on the back of the next, or a simple compliment, can loosen things up at night or day. Sex should not be reserved for pre-bedtime rituals, that's where a woman can get in the no sex funk. View Quote Your screen name+sex advice= |
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Awfully anal of him to keep track like that...maybe she doesn't like anal
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Sounds like he ejected. Good for him. A lot on that spread sheet sounds pretty fucking familiar.
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I feel for him. Im in the same boat at 26. The day I got married my wife stop trying at work so she cant hold a job, doesnt cook or clean worth a fuck, and stays up till 2 every morning so I seldom sleep with her much because I get up for work at 4.
We get along great but she is lazier than a shoebox full of dog shit. |
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I feel for him. Im in the same boat at 26. The day I got married my wife stop trying at work so she cant hold a job, doesnt cook or clean worth a fuck, and stays up till 2 every morning so I seldom sleep with her much because I get up for work at 4. We get along great but she is lazier than a shoebox full of dog shit. View Quote I'll fuckin' c'ya! |
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