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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:34:21 AM EDT
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It's a cultural thing baby
Oh, and IBTL. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:35:48 AM EDT
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Do you think your black guy is messing around on you?
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:36:46 AM EDT
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I think that cheating is getting more accepted through out America as a whole. With that said, 2 black females in my unit just got busted for having sex with 2 married black males.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:47:39 AM EDT
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You cant have adultery without marriage.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:50:24 AM EDT
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OP won't except my friend request on facebook. I was going to cry, accept I decided not to at the last minute.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:52:14 AM EDT
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Quoted: OP won't except my friend request on facebook. I was going to cry, accept I decided not to at the last minute. Hey, misspelling/confusion of words is more excepted in this community of firearms owners.  |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:52:36 AM EDT
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IBTL
And, yes, data (that I quickly found using Google for what its worth) shows black men most frequently self-identify as cheaters. With people of Scottish descent in second place. ETA - Asians are the most faithful. ETA - Scandanavian women cheat the most. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:53:00 AM EDT
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Quoted: You cant have adultery without marriage. I remember hearing from Sunday School teachers that any sex before marriage (or after if you get divorced) is adultery. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:55:25 AM EDT
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OP won't except my friend request on facebook. I was going to cry, accept I decided not to at the last minute. Hey, misspelling/confusion of words is more excepted in this community of firearms owners. Yea, I can't spell for shit, nor do I plan on fixing it. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:02:20 AM EDT
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the guys i work with, make no big deal about cheating on their wives and girlfriends. it's pretty sad to see a car full of kids in a Donk pull up and see dad with babies moma driving and then several other chicks show up later at different times. hell one guy make no excuses for the 9 kids he has and is trying his best for a 10th. he claims that if you have 10 kids here in Georgia, you don't have to pay child support, like he does anyways
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:05:49 AM EDT
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Isn't adultery only bad if you're religious?
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:05:49 AM EDT
[#12]
Does someone need a LOT of attention?
IBTL |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:12:19 AM EDT
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You cant have adultery without marriage. I remember hearing from Sunday School teachers that any sex before marriage (or after if you get divorced) is adultery.
No, that's fornication. That culture has tons of baby daddies but one word I never hear in the hood is "husband". |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:15:06 AM EDT
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Yes.
And if you believe Bill Cosby and Mayor Nutter then almost everything is acceptable in the black community and the culture really needs changing. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:18:45 AM EDT
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You cant have adultery without marriage. I remember hearing from Sunday School teachers that any sex before marriage (or after if you get divorced) is adultery.
No, that's fornication. That culture has tons of baby daddies but one word I never hear in the hood is "husband". Fornication is between two unmarried individuals. Adultery is when either one is married to someone else. So an unmarried person can commit adultery. UCMJ definition. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:19:13 AM EDT
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Isn't adultery only bad if you're religious? Morals vs. ethics. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:24:52 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: You cant have adultery without marriage. I remember hearing from Sunday School teachers that any sex before marriage (or after if you get divorced) is adultery. No, that's fornication. Both are technically illegal in my state. 
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:24:52 AM EDT
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Isn't adultery only bad if you're religious? It should be bad no matter what you are. You make a promise, you should keep that promise. I think its pretty fucked up, and I'm not religious in the least. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:25:43 AM EDT
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Quoted: IBTL And, yes, data (that I quickly found using Google for what its worth) shows black men most frequently self-identify as cheaters. With people of Scottish descent in second place. ETA - Asians are the most faithful. ETA - Scandanavian women cheat the most. I think mistresses are pretty common in some parts of Asia. My buddy went with his wife to visit her family. He went to his sister in law's office and there was a painting of the company owner with both his wife and long term mistress in the painting. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:30:14 AM EDT
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IBTL And, yes, data (that I quickly found using Google for what its worth) shows black men most frequently self-identify as cheaters. With people of Scottish descent in second place. ETA - Asians are the most faithful. ETA - Scandanavian women cheat the most. I think mistresses are pretty common in some parts of Asia. My buddy went with his wife to visit her family. He went to his sister in law's office and there was a painting of the company owner with both his wife and long term mistress in the painting. I thought you were going to post that penguins are monogamous and breed for life. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:30:58 AM EDT
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OK, the "community" I mainly point my finger at in this case is Black. I work with several Black guys, and a few Black women. I always hear the Black guys, even the married ones, talk to each other about getting some strange, etc, like its no big deal. One Black women I work with said that her father told her to accept the fact that a man is going to cheat, on her wedding day. Now, I know that anybody can cheat, but it just seems like its expected in Black communty. Ummm..... yes. Take a look at European aristocracy through most of history. Marriages were typically political and arranged. It was practically expected that both partners would have paramours. In THAT culture, adultery was acceptable. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:31:02 AM EDT
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You cant have adultery without marriage. I remember hearing from Sunday School teachers that any sex before marriage (or after if you get divorced) is adultery.
No, that's fornication. That culture has tons of baby daddies but one word I never hear in the hood is "husband". Fornication is between two unmarried individuals. Adultery is when either one is married to someone else. So an unmarried person can commit adultery. UCMJ definition. I submit to your definition, but you still have to have at least one of the parties in a marriage and that is more rare than hens teeth in the hood. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:40:44 AM EDT
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like most things in life there are acceptions...
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:45:34 AM EDT
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My first wife cheated on me with a married man. I am white and she was half white, half Chinese.
I would never cheat on my wife and I look at it like this. I think highly of myself and would not like ''myself'' if I was dishonest enough to cheat on my wife and children. Even if my wife and I hated each other I would not lower myself in such a way. I do see alot of other people who cheat every oppertunity they get and it has become somewhat typical. Most people justify their selfish actions by blaming someone else and never looking back. If they have ways of still liking themselves after doing such things then good for them. I will stick to my way. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:49:33 AM EDT
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Walter E. Williams says its the liberal's fault...
and he is right. Divorce rate among blacks were much lower pre FDR... |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:58:13 AM EDT
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Quoted: Walter E. Williams says its the liberal's fault... and he is right. Divorce rate among blacks were much lower pre FDR... I would guess divorce rates among everyone were much lower pre FDR |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 3:59:31 AM EDT
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Presently black divorce rate is higher than white divorce rate....
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:00:41 AM EDT
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Acceptable?
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:02:06 AM EDT
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OP won't except my friend request on facebook. I was going to cry, accept I decided not to at the last minute. I see what you did there . . . |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:02:54 AM EDT
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Presently black divorce rate is higher than white divorce rate.... How about white trailer trash divorce rate? |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:03:46 AM EDT
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I don't think skin color has anything to do with cheating.
I think that in more Progressive and Liberal societies, that Liberation of the body is more exceptable, yes. That's kinda the point. Loyalty is not necessarily of the body but more so of the heart and mind. Honestly I could be completely emotionally loyal and in love with one woman, and have sex with a different woman every day for the rest of my life. The two are completely different states of mind to me. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:05:30 AM EDT
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Quoted: Presently black divorce rate is higher than white divorce rate.... Women who attend college but do not finish also have higher divorce rates than women who complete college or who never go. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:15:47 AM EDT
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yeah, if you live in a planned community called "the Glen" in Glenview, IL, it's totally acceptable. The demographic in this community is very well educated, very white and almost entirely young families. Many of the bedrooms are seeing a lot of daytime action when daddy is away at work, and when the mommies get together for "bunco" there are few secrets.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:17:31 AM EDT
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Quoted: Address or Google maps location please?yeah, if you live in a planned community called "the Glen" in Glenview, IL, it's totally acceptable. The demographic in this community is very well educated, very white and almost entirely young families. Many of the bedrooms are seeing a lot of daytime action when daddy is away at work, and when the mommies get together for "bunco" there are few secrets. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:24:34 AM EDT
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Everything's acceptable in a garbage dump.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:34:33 AM EDT
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IBTL And, yes, data (that I quickly found using Google for what its worth) shows black men most frequently self-identify as cheaters. With people of Scottish descent in second place. ETA - Asians are the most faithful. ETA - Scandanavian women cheat the most. I think mistresses are pretty common in some parts of Asia. My buddy went with his wife to visit her family. He went to his sister in law's office and there was a painting of the company owner with both his wife and long term mistress in the painting. Also very common in D.C. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:39:12 AM EDT
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OP is a racist, that "community" values 2 parent households and a life free from gov't dependence
/sarcasm |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:50:52 AM EDT
[#38]
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OK, the "community" I mainly point my finger at in this case is Black. I work with several Black guys, and a few Black women. I always hear the Black guys, even the married ones, talk to each other about getting some strange, etc, like its no big deal. One Black women I work with said that her father told her to accept the fact that a man is going to cheat, on her wedding day. Now, I know that anybody can cheat, but it just seems like its expected in Black communty. Very much so from my experience |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:09:52 AM EDT
[#39]
Doesn't exceptable mean that the act is not tolerated?
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:22:08 AM EDT
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Quoted:
OK, the "community" I mainly point my finger at in this case is Black. I work with several Black guys, and a few Black women. I always hear the Black guys, even the married ones, talk to each other about getting some strange, etc, like its no big deal. One Black women I work with said that her father told her to accept the fact that a man is going to cheat, on her wedding day. Now, I know that anybody can cheat, but it just seems like its expected in Black communty. I think it is more common in the Swinger community. 
Also I’ve read rumors on Penguins having illegitimate children on the side and refusing to pay child support! 
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:35:07 AM EDT
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Monogomy isn't as big of a deal in many circles, so long as you provide for your family (which is seen as more important than who you have sex with).
Hell, japanese women expect the man to have a mistress after they pop out a kid...... |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:41:27 AM EDT
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Its big in the HIspanic community
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:43:56 AM EDT
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yeah, if you live in a planned community called "the Glen" in Glenview, IL, it's totally acceptable. The demographic in this community is very well educated, very white and almost entirely young families. Many of the bedrooms are seeing a lot of daytime action when daddy is away at work, and when the mommies get together for "bunco" there are few secrets. Nothing worse than a bunch of desperate housewives getting together. Women are just as bad as men, if not worse.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:45:25 AM EDT
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Now this is a good troll thread.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:46:15 AM EDT
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Do you think your black guy is messing around on you? Best answer. Why is Arfcom so obsessed with black people? |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:54:16 AM EDT
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I thought this thread was going to be about France.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:56:35 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: Do you think your black guy is messing around on you? Best answer. Why is Arfcom so obsessed with black people? It's a cultural problem. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:57:19 AM EDT
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Monogomy isn't as big of a deal in many circles, so long as you provide for your family (which is seen as more important than who you have sex with). Hell, japanese women expect the man to have a mistress after they pop out a kid...... Yes, but they don't want to know about her or they get mad. My father's second wife was Japanese and he had Filipino girlfriend on the side. He even was going to take me to meet her when I visited Oki, but we didn't when I demonstrated a large lack of enthusiasm. |
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Posted: 4/23/2012 5:57:26 AM EDT
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Yes.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 6:06:10 AM EDT
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I heard its worse in (big) Johnson City.
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