I played EQ2 for quite a while. (Have a level 80something Teir'Dal Necro on Antonia Bayle) I last played when they first did the weird kind of free, but you could still sub setup. I got my necro grandfathered in, cause the TierDal then were a pay only race. I haven't played since getting her setup. I keep thinking about it, though, it was a really good and fun MMORPG, and the TierDal are the closest interpretation to Drow I've run across.
I don't have any laptop advice for you. I've never been impressed by even the gaming laptops. But, I do know that EQ was more CPU-geared, so you'll want the best CPU you can get. Especially since you say graphics aren't as important to you, which is good cause Laptops and Gaming graphics....heh. But, as mentioned, it is an old game (even though they've done an incredible job updating the engine over the years) so something decent that's a few years old should run it okay.
(Another side note: EQ2 is the game that finally got me to go with a widescreen monitor. All those skill bars, chat windows, condition icons, etc etc was just taking up too much space on a normal ratio screen!)