I'm looking for a little advice on where to get started. First, a little background to give you an idea of where I'm at. I'm 44 years old and look 24. I've always been a really, really skinny guy. I've been on testosterone for about four years. Since then, I've gained about 30 to 40 pounds putting me at about 160 now. I worked out with my home gym but I have laid off for over a year because of some health issues, which I think I have pretty much resolved now. I was running at least three times a week, but had to stop because of foot problems. Major heart attacks run in my family. My mother has had a major one, and every male on her side has died of their second, if not third heart attack. I've had high blood pressure for at least 17 years.
I've got a decent amount of equipment in my home gym. I've got a new smith machine, elliptical, 80 pound bag, some free weights (curl barls, dumbbells), and a pull-up bar that I can do multiple exercises on, and a dip station. I don't have the money or time to go to a gym in town. The closest is about 15 miles from home and there's more steroids than toilet paper used in their bathroom.
I've got a little beer gut that I need to work on getting rid of. I want to put on weight and muscle but still be able to run two or 3 miles (even if it hurts). I'm a canine handler and need to be able to do long tracks without killing myself.
I guess what I'm looking for, is advice on how to balance lifting, cardio, and running. I really don't know enough about all of this to get a good balance and not defeat the purpose of putting on muscle when I'm also doing cardio or some running. I can't feasibly be that guy that spends two or three hours in the gym every day. I work 10 hours a day and have two little girls to take care of. My plan is to start being a morning person and make myself get up to do it before work-which on my schedule is going to be a bitch but the only way I'll have uninterrupted time to work out.
Diet is a another separate issue that I need to work on. I eat like crap, but I'll do some research on that and maybe even getting into meal prepping. It's just hard to do with picky girls and a wife that doesn't like to cook.