As far as the psychology of this sort of thing here are some things to consider-
*Immediate gratification will be for the most part GONE. Those spoiled children (young and old) among us who forever "want it now!" are going to fall apart, maybe get shot in the face by someone who they are trying to "trade" with that isn't interested in dealing with a child's temper tantrum. (Understand I mean ADULT children, i.e, age related adults that never grew up)
*We will be solely responsible for everything we have and do. This is where the "I can't be bothered to try to figure that out" crowd is going to be effed big time. Going to the internet to watch a youtube video on installing something, on fixing something, etc. will be gone. Best will be finding someone who you can help you and you RECIPROCATE with. Second best will be trial and error via trying to take care of it yourself hopefully with a reference book to guide you. Screaming at someone on the phone because you can't be bothered to read directions or try to figure it out on your own will be gone.
If your well fails, it will be up to you to fix it. Or no water.
If your gun breaks, it will be up to you to replace the part. Or no gun.
If your roof gets torn up in a storm, it will be up to you to fix it. Or no dry house.
If your energy system isn't performing, it will be up to you to fix it. Or no power.
If you want to EAT, it will be up to you to PLAN far enough ahead of time, put in the WORK necessary, etc. Or you won't eat.
That level of responsibility is great to TALK ABOUT, but few ever experience it. Yes of course I'm not saying that WHILE THINGS ARE NORMAL you shouldn't seek help, you should. But YOU have to own the problem and even if you have to bring in an "expert" to: fix the well, rebuild the energy system, help with the garden, etc. You better damn well be paying attention and LEARNING FROM IT.
A lot of people that frequent survival websites who seemingly only have 2 weeks of food, no experience living off the grid, little or no defensive training, who lives two miles from major cities teeming with hundreds of thousands of starving pilgrims when the time comes, love to say BS like "I'm not just going to survive, I'm going to THRIVE."
And every time that comes up, people that have been living like this for years chuckle to themselves...
Our society has been taught not to take RESPONSIBILITY for it's actions. "It ain't my fault!" is the swan song of Amerika these days. Yet when the SAFETY NET of society is gone, their will be NO ONE TO BLAME if you cannot take care of yourself. Oh yes, this goes a lot further than simply beotching about "welfare rats and FSA types."
Finally- WORK.
Yesterday we didn't have any work planned around the homestead. My son had some work with his business and left to do that. I did some business in the morning and my wife worked out. While we had no major work planned, we spent from about 11 to 6pm cutting down 4 trees that were dying or dead, cutting them to length, cleaning up debris, cleaning up a garden area that is out of rotation right now, etc. It said it was 113 degrees for here online. It sucked outside. We ended the day about 8pm as we started the day in the morning, checking on and taking care of cows, rabbits, dogs. It was a "light" day for us. We ALL worked. My son was raised to help out from the time he could walk. No Xbox, no whining teenage BS, just be a part of the family and help out.
Living this way is WORK and we have more than a few conveniences now. If you took out having an alternate energy system that would mean washing clothes by hand, carrying water from a ground water source or from the hand pumped well in buckets, not having light to work into the night, power tools, etc. I will do whatever it takes to keep my energy system going as long as I can including EMP backups, because I realize how much more life would suck without some amount of power.
Meanwhile, some dude with 3 cans of beans and a rifle who never leaves the AC says he's going to "thrive", get the fudge out of town!!! lol