My formerly huge stockpile of early 1980's Remington 125 grain SJHP is almost depleted. I never had a single problem with it but I've read a lot of horror stories about Remington ammo not being good anymore. So I need to find a new self-defense round. This pistol is my go-to self-defense firearm and has been for almost 40 years.
My needs: Rock-solid reliable. Frangible. Avoid over-penetration. Primary use is interior. Typical sheetrock construction. Two occupants. No kids or pets. Nearest neighbor's house is 250 feet away. 1400+ fps and 550+ ft./lbs. Velocity and energy are negotiable; I don't know what I don't know.
I selected the 125-grain SJHP a long time ago when we had kids living at home, for frangibility. In the past, I favored a higher-velocity/lighter bullet over a slower/heavier bullet for better expansion and frangibility. Ammo has evolved since I last looked into it that I have no idea if that's still relevant.
I did several searches but what I found was all about 2" barrels. The FAQs were also about snubs.
I know there are probably a bunch of world-class self-defense rounds out there now that I know nothing about. I'm not too worried about cost-per-round since I likely won't stockpile a huge amount of them. At the range, I typically fire about 50 rounds of .38+P, 18 rounds of .357 target ammo, and at the end, two cylinders of my chosen self-defense round. I try to do this weekly but its usually two weeks out of three.
I'm happy to do research. If y'all can point me in the right direction, offer opinions and advice, and so on, it would be a big help to me.
Thanks!