Frankly, what two (or more) consenting adults do and who they do it with is none of my business.
But two guys, two girls, a softball team or whatever getting "married" just is not right in my mind. However, a legal binding contract between people who practice alternative lifestyles so that they in a partnership in the eyes of the law is something I am all for.
But it is not marriage, no matter how you spin it to me, it just isn't.
The part I find more disturbing is our government (once again) ignoring the will of the people. Two bills vetoed by the govenor, a ballot initiave banning gay marriage passed and the courts can say F-you, we don't care what you little people think, we are doing whatever we want. I have a big problem with that.
In closing, I am reminded of a quote from ( I believe) Robin Williams.
" Fine, let gay people get married, then they can be as miserable as the rest of us"