No, it is, as you said, speculation.  M-W defines speculate as "to take to be true on the basis of insufficient evidence."  That's how people refer to "making up shit" in polite society.  In your case, it's not a matter of "insufficient evidence", it's "no evidence".  Or, more accurately, "in the face of the evidence to the contrary".  The victim's mother said that Davis had physically abused Arrendale in the past.  Davis's ex-wife said they were having a conflict over custody.  Your insistence that she was murdered because she was cheating says more about you than it does about her.

As to your personal experience figuring into your assessment of the odds, I doubt that you've murdered enough women for cheating on you to constitute a statistically valid sample of the female population.  Now, prejudice, that I might believe.  So instead of all this limp dick tap dancing and weaseling you've done in this thread, why not just come out and say that you believe that any white woman in an intimate relationship with a black man is trash, and most likely a lying, cheating whore in the bargain.  Hell, go all out and call her a mud shark, not like Arrendale's going to show up here to defend herself.

I usually check out the last page of a thread I've never read to get an idea about the flow of the conversation ... looks like you've summed it up rather nicely.

Brava, madam.

This is what I was thinking of when I posted, but hadn't read yours yet.  Thanks.




Maybe this is how I lucked out (has to be some luck involved, can't be all my special abilities to avoid these problems).  My father was an amazing example to me.  I wanted nothing less than to find what my mother found in him.  That certainly steered me clear of a lot of the dysfunction I found in college, I know that.  Sorority sisters would admit they didn't like guy unless they treated them like crap.  I thought that was nuts.

Thank you, Mom & Dad.  Each day I am more grateful for the gifts you gave me and the lessons I learned from you.  RIP, Daddy.  You are loved and missed always and forever.

Absolutely....the biggest mistake fathers make....aside from simply not being there, is being oppressive about their daughters dating and being in relationships.

Guess what dads, eventually your daughters are gonna have sex with some guy. The best gift you can give her as a father is the ability to differentiate between the good guys and the scum bags. Be a part of her decisions, foster her admiration and respect so she seeks out your quality behavior in a man.








But always kill and bury the mother fuckers that hurt her too.

Gotta love dads who are controlling, jealous, insecure, manipulative, angry...and act surprised when their daughter starts dating a guy...who is also controlling, jealous, insecure, manipulative, angry...

There was a thread here the other day about why men stay in relationships with an abusive woman.  By and large the reasoning was that he'd take a severe financial hit.  

A lot of posters in that thread were talking about how it was understandable that he would stay because he wouldn't want to lose everything he'd worked for all of his life.  

So money is a good reason to stay with an abusive partner but knowing the odds are that you'll be killed when you try to leave isn't.  Apparently.  

I can see we are at an impasse.  And that's ok.  You are starting to get ugly, and I don't want to get ugly with you.  I like you too much to start throwing blows like "mud shark"

Fuck him and his depression. He's a fucking piece of shit coward.

Very attractive and yes she certainly chose poorly.

You got ugly when you attributed a woman's death to her infidelity based, in part, on what you admitted were your own prejudices.  And I wasn't  concerned that you'd throw the "mud shark" epithet at me; my husband may have questionable taste in women, he's lily white.

I suspect we'll find ourselves on the same side of a GD thread in the future, but I agree: it won't be this one.

How do you figure? Link to the Chris Rock thing so I can try to put your first sentence in context? Because it sounds like you're saying wife killing is only a black thing, and that can't be what you mean.

almost as bad as isis